Archive Dating Tips on How to Meet, Attract, Seduce Women
How to Introduce Yourself to Women
We think it is usually best to give an opening line, with preliminary groundwork, before you introduce yourself. Then you can ask her name right after giving yours. Example: (Opening lines)…"By the way, my name is…What's yours?" It is easier to give out your name than to get her to give hers. So, slipping the request for her name in after stating your name is a smoother flowing operation.
How to Successfully Approach Women
To re-emphasize some very important general points. First, don't take "No" too easily. When a girl is approached, she is often a little embarrassed and self-conscious and will tend to say "No" right away, just to get away from any embarrassment. You should persevere (in a nice way) by coaxing and calming her with things like: "A w! Come on now." "It will be all right." "Just for a minute or two." "Look! Just give me one minute of your time. That's all I ask." "No! I won't take no for an answer" (smiling). "You know, it wasn't easy for me to come up and speak to you like this. So please, let's talk a minute." (Note: women have told me that this last line is particularly appealing and effective.)
But a lot depends on how strongly she refuses. You can usually tell if she really means "No." You should then give up right away. But if she sounds a little uncertain (or defensive), you should keep trying, say, for about three times. If you are both walking, you may even have to do some footwork, like walking with her.
Breaking Up and How to Get Her Back
This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.
This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.
The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.
Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.
So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.
So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.
Photo Scamming of Topless Dancers
This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.
This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.
The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.
Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.
So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.
So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.
