This week I want to give you some valuable advice on not falling for the "Let's be Friends Crap."
If a girl breaks up with you and tells you, "I want us to be friends," don't take this literally. Don't think that she wants to spend time with you, do things with you, and be best friends that someday become lovers again. What she wants is for you to leave as a friend. In other words, she doesn't want you to hate her, but you being in her life at this time is going to cause her problems.
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What she is really saying is, "I don't want to hurt your feelings, and I don't want you to hate me, but I want you out of my life."
You're going to be frustrated when around her. Obviously, she is no longer enchanted with you, so she really isn't interested in being with you. Besides, you'll only be reminding her that she dumped you which will make her feel guilty and uncomfortable. Do both of you a favor. Be friendly.
If you play the "personals" I'm sure this has happen to you. You answer an ad of a single woman that sounds like the woman you have been searching for all your life for love and romance. You write her a real nice letter and enclose an attractive photo of yourself and you just can't wait to here back from her. And you wait...and you wait...and you wait. You're wondering, what in the hell is going on? Why haven't I heard back from her? Well, here's the top ten reasons you have not heard back from her:
1. The woman prefers to call the guys that responded to her ad rather than write. She got a lot of responses and you are on the bottom of the pile and she has not gotten around to calling you. Be patient, she just might call you.
2. She may be on a long vacation or perhaps travelling on the job. Hang in there!
3. She may be ill or perhaps had to have some surgery.
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4. A former boyfriend has come back into her life.
5. She is a chronic procrastinator. She may put you off for a long time or not even respond at all.
6. She's very busy with work, family, community activities, etc. and does not have much time to respond to ads.
7. She received just too many responses to her ad to handle and she only responds to the ones that hold the most promise and capture's her interest. Maybe you just go left out.
8. Before she got your letter, she met someone else she's interested in that she met through her ad.
9. They are in no hurry to answer replies and just have not gotten around to answering your letter. It's not a high priority in their life to answer replies.
10. They are just not interested in you. Don't worry about it, rejection is a part of life. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, as the saying goes.
In conclusion, when answering personal ads of single women, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Answer plenty of personal ads and don't pin all your hopes on just one woman.
I personally tried to avoid the old standard first date of going out to eat or going to a movie. Instead I took my date to a local comedy club. Why? Because, the comedians did the entertaining of my date for me. And laughing together makes for a very fun date. It puts both of you in a good mood too.
So, try a comedy club for a first date guys. I'm sure you will happy with the results and how good it makes your date feel.
Step by step I will guide you in the usage of successful body language using the following methods:
1. Develop a graceful, arrogant sort of walk. A walk that is free and easy with fluid movements. This kind of walk transmits a sexual message which will turn a woman's head.
2. When leaning against a wall or whatever, thrust your hips forward, with your legs apart. This position also transmits a sexual message.
3. While you are standing or especially when leaning and you are wearing pants or jeans, hook your thumbs in your belt just above your pockets and point your fingers down toward your crotch. Because of your fingers pointing toward your crotch area, this sends out a sexual message to a woman and you will be amazed at how many women pick up this signal.
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4. When talking to a woman, let your eyes linger on her throat and breasts. Also, while talking to her, wet your lips with your tongue. By using these two techniques, she usually will feel rather uneasy and excited, thus you will be in control.
In conclusion, try these methods of attracting attention from women and see if they work for you. They have worked successfully for a lot of men I know.
Remember, the more techniques you use to attract a woman the more women you're going to be meeting and that's the name of the game.
I need you to be aware of and be on the lookout for single women that will just use you for financial purposes. She's not interested in you, just what she can get out of you. I call these women Gold-Diggers and you need to avoid them.
This woman is only interested in taking you for your money and whatever else she can get out of you. Sure, you may get a few dates but it's only to eat at fancy restaurants, drive your fancy car, going on extravagant dates, out-of-town trips, to get nice gifts or money from you, etc.
She's just using you and stringing you along. After dishing out all this money and expenses, she may not even sleep with you either. It's all an act to tease you and use you. She may act like she's interested in you, but she's only interested in what she can get out of you. Look for these signs when you first meet this type. She will ask you questions like these:
What do you do for a living?
How much money do you make?
Do you own your own home?
What kind of car do you drive?
Do you have a boat?
What kind of watch are you wearing?
Questions like these could indicate that she's a Gold-Digger. If she finds out that you are not a man of financial means, she's not going to date you.
So, if you determine that a single woman that you are interested in is a Gold-Digger, move on to someone else. I don't know about you, but I hate being used by a woman for my money or a woman is just interested in my assets instead of me as a person.
Well, winter is upon us now and you know what that means don't you? It's time to crank up the fireplace to seduce women. A cozy fireplace with a roaring fire and soft romantic music in the background will just melt a woman's heart. Women get turned on by fireplaces. They think it is so romantic.
So, if you have a fireplace be sure to use this as one of your tools for seduction. Here are some suggestions:
1. Spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace and have a picnic.
2. Sip wine or champagne in front of the fireplace.
3. Give her a back massage in front of the fireplace.
4. Make out in front of the fireplace.
5. Watch a romantic movie together with the fireplace going. I would suggest renting, "Body Heat."
Do you have a cellular phone in your car? Did you know you can use it to meet sexy single women while you're on the road? Here's how you do it:
1. While driving around, look for single women talking on their cellular phone that you are attracted to.
2. Pull up next to them and hold up your cellular phone and wave it at her.
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3. When you get her attention hold this sheet of paper (8 1/2 x 11) next to your window (It says in big bold red letters, "Hi, I'm Don - Call Me at 488-6866.")
Hopefully, she will call you while she's on the road and you can meet at a restaurant for a cup of coffee.
I know this may seem like a silly way to meet sexy single women on the road, but you never know, you just might get lucky and women will admire you for such a clever way to try and meet them.
In closing, always keep your piece of paper, asking them to call you in your car for highway usage. Also, you can always flash your sign to single women you are attracted to on the road who don't have a cellular phone. They just might write your number down and call you.
Have you put on a few extra pounds and would like to trim down to look more attractive to the opposite sex?
Well, I've got an easy diet to follow that will melt away the pounds. It works great for me and it will work for you too! I call it, "Don's Diet."
Unfortunately some single women are not attracted to men who are overweight and have a pot-belly. Of course, it works both ways in that a lot of men are not attracted to overweight single women.
With persistence, determination, dedication and willpower, you can easily have a lean and trim body that will attract single women like a magnet. And you can accomplish this without knocking yourself out at the gym.
All you need to do is follow my diet, take some supplements I recommend, and walk or jog for 20-30 minutes three times a week.
Well, let's get started. First, we will start with the diet. Here's a list of the foods you are allowed to eat daily:
Campbell's Beef with Vegetables and Barley soup or Campbell's 98% Fat Free Cream of Chicken Soup.
Quaker Oaks Instant Oatmeal (Maple Brown Sugar or Plain) or Quaker Oaks Instant Grits with Butter. Both of these come in boxes with individual packets. All the Fruit and vegetables you want to eat.
Combine lean chicken or turkey with your choice of vegetable for a meal. For sandwiches, use extra lean ham or turkey and use mustard. Also, if you want a hamburger, buy the all-vegetable patties. My favorite is called Boca Burgers. Also, be sure and use low calorie bread.
Eat healthy sandwiches using canned tuna or salmon packed in spring water. Use a low fat or fat free salad dressing for your sandwich spread.
Eat salads daily with lettuce and tomatoes and use low fat or fat free dressing. Snack on carrots, raisins, celery, pickles, rice cakes, animal crackers, and graham crackers.
Last, but most important, drink 8 glasses of water a day - If you get bored with plain water, just make sugar-free instant lemonade, cool-aid, or ice tea.
To curb your appetite, take the Amino-Acid supplement called Phen-Cal available at your local health food store. It is completely safe to take with no side effects. It works on the chemicals in your brain to curb your cravings for food. P.S. Consult with your doctor before taking and dietary supplements.
And the last part of the losing weight program is exercise. You will be able to lose the weight without the exercise, but you will lose a lot more weight if you do exercise. Just simply walk, jog, or use a treadmill 20-30 minutes a day, three times a week.
Well, that's it...Just follow Don's Diet and you will easily lose 2-3 pounds a week. Try it...you've got nothing to lose but weight and making yourself more attractive to all those hot & sexy single women you've been dreaming about.
P.S. I'd love to hear you success stores using this diet program. Just email me at: getgirl@getgirls.com Thanks, Don Diebel
I want to thank all my subscribers for their contest entries for the most "unique" gifts to give a woman. You have really sent some great ideas. My favorite so far is this one:
To pull this off, buy you a bag of Hershey's Kisses. Then when you see a girl you are attracted to, approach her and have a hidden kiss in your hand, and say this, "Would you mind if I give you a kiss?"
Of course, she is going to be a little startled or reluctant to answer. Then you hold out your hand and say, "Here's the kiss I wanted to give you."
This is a good tactic for you to break the ice with a stranger. She will think that your technique to meet her is unique. Plus, you both can have a good laugh over it. Try this guys, you'd be surprised how well it can work for you.
I was using the online Personals for a while and met a great girl and was seeing her for about 1 year. Then we grew apart and the rest is history.
Since breaking up with her (September 2001), I once again jumped into the online personals. In the 8 months on there, I have had 7 dates. 5 were lost causes and 2 were good. I ended up sleeping with the 2 good ones after the third date.
So, to me the online thing has been a success. As I get to meet plenty of different women (although not all of them I am attracted to).
My advice to people out there is as follows:
List your likes and what you like to do for fun. Don’t tell women how much of a great, caring, sweet, sensitive person you are. Be a Man tell them what you like. And they can decide if they enjoy the same things.
ALWAYS get a photo (full body shot if possible). I have been out with a few women who say they have a "average" body with curves in the right places. Well to me a size 16, with a fat ass, fat belly and chunky legs does not constitute a normal sized girl.
Girls love it when I would list questions for them to answer (about 5 or 6 each email). Don’t really know why they just do. Most would say they ‘love it when I listed question for them to answer.". Non -threatening ones to start with. Such as "Ultimate dream career?", "What do you want to do when you grow up?", "If you could holiday anywhere in the world where would it be?"
Again, as always, "bust their balls."
And act like you are verifying them and that they have to prove their worth to you. It drives them nuts and confuses the shit out of them. I would say, "You seem like a pretty nice girl, but who knows, when I meet you, you might be one of those cyber fruit loops." And keep up this verifying attitude. They have to prove themselves to you.
Regards
Todd, Australia.
P.S. Guys, don’t think money, looks, a new car, etc. will attract women. I am 23 years old, earn AU $65,000 pa, a project manager, have a brand new PT Cruiser, building my first house and live in an exclusive area in Melbourne, above average looking (7 or 8) and graduated with 1st Class Honors from a University. But, I still don’t get women coming after me. I understand that it is confidence and me approaching them that will get me the girls. Which I am still working on. So don’t be too down on yourselves if you aren’t rich.
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I would like to share some information for single men on how to tell if a single woman is interested in you:
1. She will put herself in your way - she will make herself available. If she says no to a date, she will go out of her way to make sure you know she wants you to ask again.
2. Conversations will continue and flow even when you don't have things in common.
3. She will be looking at you - making eye contact and smiling.
4. She will initiate conversation, make compliments, and say positive things about you.
5.The tone in her voice will show interest and excitement.
In general, the mood when she is with you will be up and positive, instead of just neutral.
