Know That Women are Not a Porn Star

The Reality is That Women You Meet Are Not Porn Stars

Guys, you must be realistic about women. Even though they may like watching porno movies, in the real world:

• You are never going to walk in on us, our two girlfriends and the pizza guy.
• Our boobs are real, They flop around.
• We have pubic hair.
• We really don't like it when you spray your love juice on our face and in our hair.
• We generally like to kiss or talk before we get down on our knees to pleasure you.
• We did not talk our way out of that speeding ticket by having sex with the police officer.
• We don't enjoy having a fist or anything else, for that matter rammed up inside us.

Praying for a Special Lady for Dating

Keep the Faith When Praying for a Girlfriend

Have you been praying for a special lady to come into your life and it seems like it's taking forever and you are getting frustrated and ready to throw in the towel?

Some guys miss out on God's opportunity to find someone special because they give up before they see the answers to their prayers come.

Guys, don't let that be you. Don't give up hope because your answer is a lot closer than you think.

If it seems to you like your dating life is getting more and more difficult and frustrating, just remember this, that when things intensely heat up, that simply means that you are closer to your victory in finding someone for love, happiness, and romance.

As the old saying goes, "It always seem darkest just before dawn appears.

For those of you that believe in God you must remember that he is always faithful to you. When you constantly pray for someone to come into your life, just remember he is working in the background to line up meeting that special lady.

Don't get impatient waiting and lose confidence because meeting her is just around the corner. You just have to be faithful with expectancy and wait on God's time table, not yours.

Look at it this way; you just can't imagine how painful for a mother it is when giving birth to a child. When she is holding that child right after birth she forgets all about the labor pains she went through. And you too will forget all the pain and struggles you went through when you are holding your new love.

Forgetting the Past to Create New Future in Dating

You Need to Stop Dwelling on the Past

A lot of guys spend way to much time and energy focusing on their past negative experiences in dating women. They think about all the mistakes they have made. They think about all the disappointments they have with women. They may not be aware of it, but dwelling on the past is interfering with them moving forward in their dating life.

You have just got to let go of all the negative experiences in dating to make room for the new positive experiences. Trust me, there will be ups and downs in dating. Not everything goes according to plan and sometimes things just don't work out in relationships. We all get hurt when playing the dating game. You just learn from it and move on.

If you are living trapped in the past as far as dating goes there is always a new beginning and the best way for you to prepare for it is by getting rid of the old past. Don't spend time dwelling on where you have been. It's time to focus on where you are going in dating today. Don't worry about the past. What is done is done. Don't allow the past to dictate your future in dating. Begin today by making a commitment and declare that your negative dating experiences are over and forgotten.

Dating Tips for Men

Some Dating Tips to Help You Succeed with Women

Usually, after a man approaches a strange girl in public it takes longer to reach the point where he can suggest making love, because it takes longer to gain her trust than it would if they met at a party or at work. However, many women are now accepting men as lovers, after much shorter courtships than they were a few years ago.

Another modem feature is that girls sometimes approach men to pick them up. But don't get lazy and depend on this. The really attractive girls aren't the ones most likely to do this, so you still have to get out and make your own opportunities.

Men can be attractive to girls. This is an obvious fact. Whether it is a combination of looks, mannerisms, personality (or whatever else), the end result is that special magic called sex appeal.

You must become a believer in yourself. You must believe that you too can have sex appeal. And of course you can. You simply have to improve and cultivate the assets you already possess.

How to French Kiss a Woman

A Guide to French Kissing a Woman

1. PLEASE DO NOT START OFF WITH A FRENCH KISS, use a proper move and the way to do a regular kiss above.

2. Ok, now you have done a regular kiss and you have pulled away.

3. Instead of just leaving, you go back in and start off again with a regular kiss…note..that is two regular kisses now!

4. During your regular kiss you will turn your head sideways.

5. Then, once your head is slanted you can put your tongue between her lips. NOTE: GRADUALLY AND GENTLY PUT IT IN!

6. Do not put your tongue in very far, you don’t need her choking on your tongue. After you feel your tongue touch hers, just stop and let them touch.

7. After you and your partner have French kissed a few times, then you can start in movement with the tongue.

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How to Give a Relaxing Massage

How to Relax Your Partner's Body When Giving a Massage

Start by connecting with your partner. There may be specific ways you and your partner prefer to do this. If not, try kind words, soft gazing into each other's eyes, synchronized breathing, and/or caressing each others' faces or hands.

When both of you are ready, have your partner lie face down, naked, on the massage table. Start by quieting and focusing your mind while resting your hands on the receiving partner's upper and lower back. Then, perform a relaxing massage on the back, legs, and feet. Basic principles of relaxing massage include keeping your hands in contact with your partner, taking your time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones. When giving a massage be sure to use good body mechanics: use your body weight rather than arm strength for deep strokes, during gliding strokes keep your knees slightly bent and fluid, and don't lean over the table.

After relaxing your partner's back, legs, and feet, have him or her turn over. Massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. It can feel good to brush the genitals when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This teasing process can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities.

Especially if this is your first massage with this partner, it's a good idea to look into your partner's eyes while cradling his or her genitals, and somehow ask his or her permission to go further. The rest of the massage will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations. One of the skills that comes with practice is being able to read the energy and arousal levels of your partner, and smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual.

A Guide to Using Lubricants for Massage

Lubrication Tips for Massage

One similarity between men and women is that some sort of lubricant needs to be used when massaging their genitals: this will make the experience more pleasurable and prevent sore spots from developing. One difference between men and women is that one may use oil-based, water-based, or silicone-based lubricants on men, while one should use only water-based lubricants on women to avoid encouraging vaginal infections. For genital massage on men, or for massage elsewhere on a man or woman's body, you can purchase special massage oils at massage supply shops or else just use a light vegetable oil (such as Safflower, Sunflower, or grapeseed) from the supermarket. Lubricants and oils should be reapplied as necessary, so it's good to keep them handy.

It's very convenient to have flip-top squeeze bottles for lubes and oils, and one of those massage oil "belts" that massage supply shops sell. Since many of these belts have two pockets, you could use one for lube and the other for massage oil. Be sure lubes and oils are warm before putting them on someone; if you wish you can run hot tap water over your flip-top bottles for a few minutes before using them, or maybe you could just keep the plastic bottles in a bowl of warm water instead of using a belt. It's also a good idea to put lubricants in your hand before applying them so you have a chance to rub your hands together to warm them if necessary. Oh, and one final word of advice: please be sure any water-based lube you may be using DOESN'T contain Nonoxynol-9. In this context Nonoxynol-9 is unlikely to do anything but irritate.

How to Get Ready to Massage a Woman

Getting Set Up to Massage a Woman

Taking the time to create a sensual and appealing environment for your erotic massage shows that you care about your woman and value pleasure. Start by turning off the phones. You may wish to put a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door, illuminate the room with either candles or soft indirect lamps, burn incense, and turn up the heat to where one would be comfortable lying down naked. Keep your lubricants, oils, and gloves (if needed or desired) within easy reach, and cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket. You can let the sides of the blanket and sheet drape over the sides of the table so that they may be brought up to cover the receiving partner (keeping him or her warm) after the massage is finished.

Pieces of (possibly fake) fur or feathers can be used for additional sensual tantalization, and an eye pillow or blindfold can be helpful in blocking out any unwanted light for your partner.

Putting a CD (or prerecorded tape) of your favorite music on repeat play is a good idea. Some people are more comfortable with a pillow or rolled bath towel underneath their knees and/or head (when lying face up) or their ankles (when lying face down), and some women will be more comfortable with a pillow underneath their hips; if this is your first massage with your partner you might want to experiment a little or ask him or her.

If you're going to be giving the massage, take a look at your fingernails and clip them if necessary.

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Yes! Simply insert our "Mephisto Subliminal CD" in your (car-home-portable player). She will only notice music, but inaudible, hidden commands penetrate her subconscious mind and "you penetrate the rest!"

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Soon, she wants you with an overpowering passion and a throbbing determination! You become her fantasy!

Like hypnosis, subliminal motivation cannot be resisted because it operates undetected below the level of the conscious mind!

Can Words Hidden Under Music Sexually Arouse a Woman

and Focus Her Passion on Only One Man? Yes?

Subliminal stimuli activate involuntary bodily responses such as "Sexual Arousal!" That means Mephisto's orgasmic subliminal commands (concealed under music) secretly implants erotic urges deep into her subconscious, swelling her sexual excitement to the edge of orgasm. And focuses her passion only on you!

The Proven Power of Subliminals - Erasmus University of Rotterdam and South Eastern University in the US proved subliminal tapes arouse women! In the US test sensors were placed in the CROTCH of college girls to measure excitement. The girls were exposed to harmless movies, but subliminal material with explicit sexual messages were hidden under the music.

The girls were unaware of the concealed subliminal sexual activity, yet their vaginas became HOT, WET and SWOLLEN preparing them for SEX! This test was repeated at Erasmus University with the SAME RESULTS: their vaginas swell and lubricate when exposed!

Sexual arousal is the key to her saying "Yes, I need it!" Our Mephisto CDs creates this sexual tension convincing her that she wants and needs sex with you. Mephisto's subliminal messages convince her she's aroused by you and she will do what ever it takes to reach an orgasm with you. That's why your CD makes her say "yes" before you ask!

When She Hears This CD, She Will Believe:

• She's passionately in love with you and must satisfy her uncontrollable passions with you only.
• You're the world's most desirable man.
• Other men are very dull and sexually repulsive and turn her off.
• Sex with you is "necessary and right!" She wants you only.

Internet for Dating

The Internet Revolution for Dating Women

The internet is a great opportunity to connect people in all areas of life. Because of its architectural features, the web offers a unique means by which people can explore their conscious and unconscious components of their psyche, hopefully achieving a total realization of their selves.

But not always. Let's not forget that our worst characteristics can surface once we hide behind the mask of anonymity. Because when online one will almost inevitably act on his/her unconscious motivations (ebises according to conscious preferences and choices) in selecting friends, lovers, and enemies, we are guided towards specific types of people who address our underlying emotions and needs.

How sure are you, internet user, about the nature of your underlying motives, your hidden expectations, wishes, and fears that press towards the selection of your counterparts on the internet? Baby, scaring you is the last thing we would like to do, but you know, it would be nice to keep in mind this one: Everywhere you go, you fill find...YOU!

Why You Must Never Give Up on Finding Love

You Must Never Give Up in Your Search for a Mate

When dating women you will experience things that will try to push you down. You are pretty much guaranteed to face disappointments and setbacks along the way.

You will experience relationships that didn't work out and this is a setback. This can cause you to lose your enthusiasm for dating and get discouraged. You may even be tempted to give up on dating and throw in the towel.

But, when playing the dating game you have to develop a "bounce back" mentality. In other words when you get knocked down on your ass, you don't stay down. You get back up and pursue that woman of your dreams again. You don't give up.

I encourage you to think this way: Every time you experience relationships and dates that don't work out, it's a setup for a comeback!

Always remember that there is no dating challenge too difficult, no discouragement, no disappointment, nothing can keep you from your destiny of meeting someone special that will love you unconditionally and bring you much joy and happiness.

In closing, develop the attitude that your best days are ahead of you when it comes to meeting, attracting, and seducing women.

I encourage you to be patient and keep the faith because hot romance with hot and sexy women is just around the corner. You must believe this deep down in your heart and soul.

Right now, I'm sending prayer your way that you will find that special lady that you have been looking for...amen.

French Kissing Guide for Men

Advice on How to French Kiss a Woman

1. PLEASE DO NOT START OFF WITH A FRENCH KISS, use a proper move and the way to do a regular kiss above.

2. Ok, now you have done a regular kiss and you have pulled away

3. Instead of just leaving, you go back in and start off again with a regular kiss…note..that is two regular kisses now!

4. During your regular kiss you will turn your head sideways.

5. Then, once your head is slanted you can put your tongue between her lips. NOTE: GRADUALLY AND GENTLY PUT IT IN!

6. Do not put your tongue in very far, you don’t need her choking on your tongue. After you feel your tongue touch hers, just stop and let them touch.

5 Bookstore Pick Up Lines to Meet Women

5 Surefire Opening Lines to Meet Women in Bookstores

Go to any bookstore and you are going to see lots of lovely single women to hit up on. It's a casual atmosphere and great place to meet women. Try these 5 lines for starters:

1. See a woman looking for a book. Approach her and say, "Can I help you find a book?"
2. When you see her looking at a book you've read say, "I've read that book. It's really great!" Then just start talking about the book and ask her out for coffee.
3. Grab one of those coffee table type books on gardens and approach her and say, "Would you like to see something really beautiful? Just look at this picture of a beautiful garden."
4. "Would you like to meet for coffee sometime and talk about books and authors?"
5. "It's my nephew's birthday next week. Can you recommend any good kids' books?"

Staying in Faith to Find Someone Special

Don't Give Up in Your Struggle to Find Someone to Love

Sometimes when we have struggled for a long time in trying to find someone to love, it's easy to give up and just accept things just the way they are.

Trust me my friend, one of the enemies favorite lies is to try and convince you nothing is ever going to change in your pursuit to find someone special and you will continue to be frustrated because nothing is working out.

Let me encourage you today that no matter how long you've been in a dating rut, things can change in an instant. The girl of your dreams can literally drop from the sky and appear from out of nowhere.

In a split second things can all turn around. You must be on the lookout constantly for opportunities to meet women. Become a predator of women. Don't be a stalker, but just be aware of your surroundings. There can be golden opportunities to meet and seduce women that you must take advantage of.

Let me encourage you today to keep believing and keep hoping you're going to meet someone special. Don't let the enemy drag your thoughts down. Stand in faith because your breakthrough in finding love and romance is just around the corner.

The Cost of Being Too Complacent When Dating Women

Why You Should Not be Complacent When Dating

Today I want to talk about being too complacent when it comes to dating women and looking for the woman of your dreams.

You may get a little too passive and say to yourself, "I know I need to get off my lazy ass and start making an effort to meet women. Maybe I'll get started next week."

Before you know it next week turns into next month. Next month turns into next year. You get down on yourself and think about how a whole year has slipped by and you're still lonely and have nobody to love.

I encourage you to not fall into this trap of procrastination. Today, is there something you have been putting off when it comes to dating, attracting, and meeting women? Something deep down in your heart you need to do to take action and responsibility for your love life?

Don't let life without love, sex, and romance pass you by. Don't let complacency hold you back from the love you deserve. Go for it! Be bold , strong, and step out in faith. Follow the desires of your heart.

10 Best Opening Lines to Attract, Meet Women

Try These Pick Up Lines to Meet and Attract Women

1. "Pardon me for staring at you, but I just love the view."
2. "It feels like I'm in a fairy tale. She will ask, "Why." You reply, "Because I see a beautiful princess right in front of me."
3. "It's so nice to meet you, I'm (your name) and you are really...gorgeous."
4. "It's a good thing that my eyes aren't my hands because you're so pretty I would get arrested."
5. You say, "What was that?" She will say, "What was that?" Then you will say, "That sound." She will say, "I didn't hear nothing." Then you will say, "It was the sound of my heart pounding when I look at your pretty face."
6. "Where did you get that million dollar smile of yours?"
7. "You have beautiful cheek bones. Are you Swedish?"
8. "The word "breathtaking" doesn't come anywhere close to describing how you look tonight."
9. "Girl, you're so pretty you need to be wearing a health warning sign saying, "Warning, may cause irregular heartbeat!"
10. "You sure look great in that outfit tonight." Feel the fabric and ask, "What kind of material is that?"

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

When to Make Your Move on Women

When Should You Make Your Move by Anthony Berger

When should you approach her?

There is a very specific moment that lasts for only a few minutes that determines whether you will be able to pick her up or not. You should make your move on the third eye-contact you two make. No more. No less. Anything before that will be premature:

0 - eye contacts made: "Let me check you out while you introduce yourself, buster."

1 - eye contact made: "I have checked you out and am forming an opinion about you."

2 - eye contacts made: "I am considering you as potential playmate"

This is when you move in: 3 eye contacts made: "I am inviting you to come over and talk to me, act on it now!"

Anything after that will make you look less confident:

4 - eye contacts made: "I am wondering why you didn't respond to her invitation, do you not like her?"

5 - eye contacts made: "Are you keeping me as your back up plan?"

6 - eye contacts made: "If you are shy, you are not worth my time."

7 - eye contacts made: "Are you slow or what? Geez"

8 - eye contacts made: "What a looser! We are all talking about you at our table."

9 - eye contacts made: "Ha! And to think I was going to give it to him tonight…"

Yes, it takes guts to be able to react to the third time she checks you out.

But if you do go there and introduce yourself, you will find that talking to her and seducing her will be a lot easier than any other time. This is the moment when she is most receptive to you.

Your only effort will be to walk up to her, everything else will work out as planned.

If, you wait till the sixth eye contact, you will have to spend some time convincing her that you are the lover she has been looking for...not an easy task.

How to Touch a Womans Boobs, Breasts

The Boob Touch by Anthony Berger

The boob, breast touch technique works like this: You are both standing in a club or bar, you have already approached her, sparked a conversation, and while talking (whispering) to her, you hold your drink with both hands in front of your chest and stand very close to her. This is a standard "I'm just socializing" position.

By having your gin and tonic (or what have you) right in front of your chest, you try to ever so slightly touch her boobs, breasts (not the nipples just yet) while you are whispering to her. Don't bring attention to it, it is happening merely as an unintentional accident: you are trying to make sure she hears what you are saying by talking to her in her ear, but because you have to reach over to her ear, your knuckles are accidentally brushing against her boobs and nipples.

Proceed to repeat this throughout your conversation, quickly brushing against her nipples. Again, if she keeps making conversation it means she is enjoying it (green light). Sometimes you will notice that they Just start asking the most bland and pathetic questions, meaning, " don't stop cause I love it".

Keep this up for as long as you feel like it. We do recommend changing gears while they are still wet, so within twenty minutes of talking via the "boob touch" method, you can take it to the next level (continued in the "Let's go somewhere" chapter.

The boob touch can also work if she is sitting by the bar: lets say she is on a stool and you want to hit on her: approach her from the side, as in, don't stand in front of her knees (since you wont be able to reach over to her breasts).

Stand next to her (next to her legs) in a way that you can have easy, access to her tits while reaching over to talk to her. If you two are both sitting, you can easily use the "subliminal leg touch technique"

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Appearance is Important in Succeeding with Women

How to Improve Your Appearance to Attract Women

Within the first seven seconds of seeing someone we have formed an opinion about them. Obviously our appearance tells others many things about us i.e. if we are interested in fashion, if we have a sense of occasion, if we are neat, tidy and clean etc.

If you want to make a statement about yourself you'll say it loud and clear by the way you look. It can work for you as much as against you, for instance, pretending to be something you're not will only result in you appearing, at best, false, perhaps ridiculous and, at worst, untrustworthy. Even if you do not possess an interest in clothes you must try and ensure that whatever you do wear is clean, tidy and co-ordinated.

Look in catalogs or around the clothes shops for ideas of what is deemed as acceptable and unacceptable.

Pay attention to everything about yourself from the top of your head to the tip of your toe nails. Personal hygiene is a big issue on the dating front. Women find bad hair, bad breath, bod odor, dirty finger/toe nails, dirty clothes etc. extremely offensive and such things are difficult if not impossible to overcome.

Always ensure that you are clean and presentable. If you are fortunate enough to have a close friend, be they male or female, ask their opinion about your appearance and personal hygiene standards, you may be surprised at their response! A man who takes pride in his appearance is a definite turn on for most women.

Making the First Move on Women and Them Approaching You

Approaching Women and Women Approaching You

The first major concept you must acquaint yourself with is empathy - "putting yourself in another persons shoes."

If you stood in a bar or a nightclub etc. think how you would like to be approached and spoken to. If a woman marched over and said "Can I buy you a drink, darlin!" how would you feel?

Women do appreciate the fact that men can be very intimidated by the pressure of having to make the first move. Unfortunately even in today's "women friendly" society, generally women do prefer men to approach them in the first instance. This is the first flattering step to success.

Conversely don't be put off by women who may want to approach you. Again this is the finest form of flattery and takes confidence and courage to carry out.

Let's assume that you will be initialising the first contact. You must be aware of the "ABC" of successful dating:

• A = Appearance
• B = Body Language.
• C = Conversation.

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5 Tips to Overcome Shyness with Women

How to Overcome Shyness in 5 Simple Steps

Being shy is really just having a feeling that you lack something. Some people are shy because they feel they are not good enough for others or that they are not as smart as others.

Shyness can also just be something that carries over from childhood when you were worried about being accepted so you hung out in the background. Now that you are an adult you can see that shyness holds you back and can really effect many aspects of your life.

The following list teaches five easy ways on how to overcome shyness. You can try all of them or only one or two. Do what it takes to help you step out of your shell.

1. Know how to carry on a good conversation.

You should learn good conversation starters. Try making a list and memorizing it or keeping it as a cheat sheet on your PDA. You need to also know how to handle awkward pauses in conversation to really learn how to overcome shyness.

Always have something to share to keep the conversation going. You need to learn how to handle rude or annoying people that may become a part of your conversation.

Learn all you can about how to carry on a good conversation. This will boost your confidence which goes a long way in overcoming shyness.

2. Tell people you are shy.

This may be the best way to learn how to overcome shyness. With many addictions the first step to stopping them is to admit you have a problem. Well, shyness is almost the same thing.

Once you tell people you are shy they will try to help you feel comfortable and overcome your shy tendencies. It also breaks the ice as others may be feeling shy as well or they may have been shy at some point in their life and can share some tips with you on how they overcame it.

Just do not hide the fact you are shy. Once it is out in the open you will feel much more at ease.

3. Be happy when you try.

Overcoming shyness is not simple. You have a very deep rooted habit here and you will not cure yourself in one attempt. Be happy when you try to fight your shy tendencies.

Look at every try as positive. Once you start associating a good feeling with not being shy it will become easier top stop the shyness all together.

4. Practice one social skill at a time.

You should start out slowly by trying to do one thing at a time. This way you can master that skill before moving on. Once you start mastering aspects of communication and social interaction that is something that can help you to not feel shy. You will gain confidence and be one step closer to mastering how to overcome shyness.

5. Take some classes.

You can find classes on all aspects of communication. Maybe you do not where to start - a class can help get your thoughts in order and give you a feeling of knowing what you are doing. Taking classes is good for someone who likes to have a good plan to make them feel confident.

Shyness can be almost like a crippling disease. You can fail to make friends, lose business or even start to effect your own children so they end up growing up shy as well.

Deciding you want to know how to overcome shyness is an important step and one that should be taken by anyone who is suffering due to being shy.

Peter Murphy is a peak performance expert. He recently produced a very popular free report: 10 Simple Steps to Developing Communication Confidence. Apply now because it is available for a limited time only at: http://www.conversationtalk.com/report.htm

How to Open Your Mouth and Find Romance

Open Your Mouth Wide to Succeed with Women

You need to have your mouth wide open to succeed with women. Let me explain:

I'm sure that you have watched baby birds. They have their mouths wide open when they are ready to eat. They expect to be fed by their momma and they are always ready to be fed. They are always looking for the food.

This should be the same way with us when we are looking for romance with women. We should keep our mouths open expecting to meet, attract, and seduce women.

You must not do any negative thinking when it comes to trying to meet, approach, and date women. This is the same thing as having your mouth closed. You have to remove the limitations of your mind and believe there are opportunities to meet women coming your way and you will take advantage of these opportunities.

These baby birds with their mouth open are not concerned about where the food is coming from. They just open their mouths and trust that the food is coming. You should do the same and open your mouth wide knowing that romance is coming. You don't know where it is coming from, but you just know it's coming.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Tips for Men on Dating Safely

Be Cautions When Dating Strangers

Until you get to know someone better, you should keep your relationship as public as possible. Don't go back to her place, don't drive together in her car, don't meet in an isolated area. Most out-of-control situations occur when there are no other people around.

Instead, only go to public locations on dates, drive separately, and never go back to their place until you know her better. If you avoid potentially dangerous situations, you will stay safe.

Stay In Control

One of the biggest mistakes you can make on a date is to impair your judgment with drugs or alcohol. When you are under their influence, your thoughts may become clouded and your ability to respond appropriately to situations will become hindered. Your safety is too important to risk on a temporary buzz.

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Visit our New Pinterest Boards for Dating Women

Hello, my name is Don Diebel, President and Owner of Gemini Publishing and getgirls.com and I wanted to invite you to visit our new web page on Pinterest at: http://www.pinterest.com/getgirls - Here you will find free dating tips to help you meet, date, attract, and seduce women. Also, tips on how to talk to women, overcome shyness, motivational dating tips, how to meet women in the personals, how to pick up topless dancers. We have tons of Books, CDs, DVDs, Cassettes, and Pheromone products to help you succeed with women.

We also have a Ebay Store featuring products on meeting, attracting, and seducing women. And last but not least be sure and check out our sexy photos section featuring some of the hotest and sexiest photos of women on the internet (When you look at these photos it's like taking an overdose of Viagara).

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Be on Time for Dates, Look Good, Broken Promises

Things You Must Do and Not Do When Dating

Always be on time

The worst way to start a date is to be late. Obviously delays may occur, so if you are running behind, give your date a call. A simple act of courtesy can prevent your date from getting off track.

Never promise to call if you don't plan to

So the date was lousy and ending the evening is awkward, never promise a call or a future date unless you plan to follow through. Instead, simply wish them a pleasant evening and head home. If they ask you directly, be honest, but not rude.

Always look your best

Maybe we shouldn't be judged by how we look, but the fact is most people feel more confident, more vibrant when they feel that they look nice. So spend the extra time picking out your clothes and fixing your hair, it'll be worth it.

How to Create a New Chapter in Your Dating

Create a New Chapter in Your Dating Life

Guys, are you ready for a new dating chapter in your life? To move forward in improving your dating life you have got to be willing to let go of the old in your past. The history of your dating life that is behind you is nothing compared to what is important in your future dating life.

You may have experienced some very unfair things before in dating women that you perhaps just don't understand. This is normal. It's just part of dating. Trust me, you have come way to far now to stop now. Don't let any of these unfair things that happened in the past hold you back. Take a new leap of faith and create a new fresh outlook filled with optimism, hope, and faith.

Don't settle where you are in your dating life. It's time to move forward with a new positive attitude. Let this be your new motto, "Some unfair things may have happened to me with women in the past, but I'm just not going to be stuck on this page in my dating life - I know there is a new chapter for me filled with lot's of hot and sexy women to experience love, romance, and sex with.

How to Get Your Ex Back by Chris Anderson

I Need To Get My Ex Back! By Chris W Anderson

A few months ago I went through a break up. Every day I woke and and just kept saying to myself "I need to get my ex back! I am sure a lot of you guys can relate to this if you have just gone through a break up. Getting your ex back is possible, but I am going to be honest with you and let you know that it is going to take a lot of work! You can't just wiggle your nose and expect them to come back into your life. You are going to have to have patience, self control, and respect for yourself. Below I will give you the three best tips to get your ex back.

1-Make Sure You Are You!

That statement might not make sense to some of you, but it is important that you do not change who you are just because you were broken up with. I have seen many happy people suddenly become depressed because of a break up. I can tell you right now if you are going to sit around and feel bad for yourself all day you are not going to get them back. You might have been dumped but don't let that affect your happiness! If you want to get them back you need to be in control of your emotions. I know this is tough but it is important you trust me.

2-Plan Out Your First Words

The things you first say to your ex are important. Again, you need to make sure you are in control of your emotions. If you are not you are going to come across as needy which is bad. Your first words should be letting them know you are OK with their decision to break up and think it was best for both of you. This will confuse them and let them know they can't just get you back whenever they want.

3-Go Out As Friends

After you let them know you are OK with ever thing, just try to hang out as friends. It takes a friendship to make a great relationship, so you might as well establish that base friendship again. We recommend you do something fun, and make sure you stay away from talking about emotions! The point of hanging out the first few times is to just have a good time. Go bowling, play putt putt, do something both of you enjoy and make sure it is not romantic.

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How to Retrain Your Brain to Succeed with Women

Retrain Your Brain to Succeed with Women

To be successful in the dating game you sometimes have to develop new habits to increase your chances of succeeding with women.

If you have fallen into the trap of negative thinking about your dating life, you have to retrain your brain from:

• "I can't succeed with women" to "I can succeed with women."
• "Finding someone to love just won't happen" to "Finding love will happen for me."
• "I never get any good breaks when it comes to meeting women" to "I'm lucky when it comes to dating women."
• "I'm such a failure with women" to "My best days are ahead to meet, attract, and seduce women."

Say these affirmations to yourself to reprogram your computer in your mind. The human mind is just like a computer. Sometimes you just have to wipe out your old negative thoughts in your hard drive and load a new positive hard drive into the computer of your mind.

If you spend all of your time focusing on how you fail with women, it's time to focus on how things will work out for the good in your dating life. Let go of your old thoughts and chose to think about how successful you are going to be in the future with women.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Dating Etiquette Tips for Men

Dating Etiquette Tips When on a Date with Women

Whether it's your first date or your hundredth, chances are you still feel unsure of how to be on your best behavior. A date is already a high pressure situation and stressing out about good etiquette will only make it worse, so here are a few do's and don'ts to help you make a fantastic impression:

Never talk with food in your mouth

Always finish chewing and swallowing before responding - nothing is more unattractive than a mouth full of partially mashed meat and vegetables.

Always bring a small gift

This goes for the ladies. Bring a small flower, a small box of their favorite candy, or any small taken of your admiration. It's a nice way to start off any date.

Never drink too much

There are almost too many reasons for this one, so instead of alcohol have a cola or a "virgin" version of your favorite mixed drink.

Fun Sports, Music Shopping, Dog Parks for Dating

3 Great Where to Take a Date Ideas

Fun Sports

Nothing tells you more about a person than how they handle a little competition. Miniature golf, bowling, and darts are good choices because they are relatively simple to learn and offer some light-hearted fun. You can always make the game a little more interesting with a friendly wager; perhaps the loser can buy dinner.

Music Shopping

If you're a music l0ver, then finding a partner probably means hooking up with someone who has compatible musical tastes. So find out right away. Go to your local music store, split up, and buy one CD each. Then, listen to your picks together and see if your tastes hit the right note.

Dog Parks

Love your dog? Make it a part of the date, too. Many large cities have dog parks where people can bring their pets and let them run and frolic in a safe, enclosed area. If your date also has a dog, you can make it a double date!

Advice About Using Chat Rooms to Meet Women

How to Meet Women in Chat Rooms

While chat rooms are a legitimate form of meeting new people, you must proceed with extreme caution! Always remember that you do not know anything about your fellow chatters except what they tell you and rarely do they reveal the whole truth.

Many People do become addicted to the imaginary community found in a chat room. The conversations and the flirtations boost their egos and add spice to what, in some cases, is a rather unpleasant reality. Go into a chat room leery of these individuals.

With that in mind, you should also stick to people in your vicinity. Chat rooms can give you an opportunity to meet people from all over the world, but long distance relationships rarely work out. You'll have better luck with people you can have a relationship with outside of a computer screen.

Advice About Meeting Women at Bookstores

How to Meet Women at Bookstores

In case you've been hiding in a cave for the last half decade you already know that bookstores are "in" while shopping for books used to be enough to classify you as an undatble nerd, now only the coolest hippest people are to be found among the trendy bookshelves of enormous chain bookstores.

Bookstores have always been a nice place to meet new friends and lovers. After all, it's easy to start up a conversation with someone: just ask her what book they are reading. Now with the addition of cozy cafes, bookstores have become a socially acceptable gathering place.

So find a book, order an expresso, and smile flirtatiously over the top of your pages at every attractive, interesting member of the opposite sex who passes your way.

Advice About Meeting Women at School

How to Meet Women at School

Remember high school? Wasn't finding a date easier then? After all, you mixed with hundreds of available singles every day.

While college isn't quite as simplistic, it does give you a golden opportunity to mingle with a wide variety of mostly single co-eds. College also has an advantage over those rambling locker-filled halls of your youth: these students are career-oriented and goal-focused. If your idea of a dream partner includes someone capable of holding down a decent job and being able to talk about books without their eyes glazing over, your local college might be a great place to look.

"I'm too old to go back to college." some of you are whining.

"I can't afford the tuition." cry others.

Never fear, I'm not talking necessarily about attending college as a full-time, or even part-time, student (although that's an excellent choice). Some universities and colleges also offer non-credit classes to people in their community offer a reasonable price. These classes cover a wide-variety of topics, such as photography, computer programs, or career-development and generally require no previous knowledge of the subject. Part of the charm of these classes is that you cannot only meet someone who shares some of your interests, but you can also improve yourself at the same time.

Look for Women to Date on the Job

How to Meet Women at Work

You probably spend at least eight hours of every day stuck in a place just teaming with available members of the opposite sex. Maybe you've heard the expression, "Don't dip your pen in company ink," and in most cases that's a motto to live by.

But if you work in an office building, there are probably dozens of companies around you full of eligible employees who are not considered "company ink." If you work in retail, you are meeting hundreds of potential dates every week and you don't even have to create excuses for making conversation with them! If you work in the service industry, part of your job is probably networking, so why not use those phone number of potential clients to land a dinner date for "business?" Not to mention the vendors, postal workers, and delivery people who come into your company daily.

Remember, you don't have to date your co-workers or your boss in order to find romance on the job. You just need to look beyond your cubicle.

4 Things to Do For Women to Make Them Love You

Things to do for Women to Make Her Love You

1. Show out like a teenager. Yes, you are all grown up, but teens know how to throw caution to the wind and enjoy life. Public displays of affection are très romantic. So, flirt, hold hands, kiss in public places and announce your love to the world.

2. Help out with "her" chores. Does she always load and unload the dishwasher. Take the initiative and complete this task for her. Better yet, when she gets up to clear the table, take the plates off her and say lovingly, "Honey, I'll take care of this. Go relax. You deserve a break." Don't ask. Just tell her you want to help, do it and do it how SHE likes it done. If she like the glasses on the top rack, put them there and don't forget to scrub the pots and wipe down the counter.

3. Pamper her properly. Offer to scrub her back when she is in the shower, and don't get in unless she gives an invitation. Give her a shoulder massage longer than 60 seconds. Go all out and paint her toes. Don't worry; the fellas never have to know.

4. Give her a morning treat. No, not that kind of treat. Wake up early and fix her cup of coffee. Think small but thoughtful. Romance is in the details. Does she prefer tea with lemon or a boiled egg with a sliced apple? Whatever it is, show her you know her every desire with a simple piece of toast.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

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Advice on How to Seduce Women at Home

The At Home Dates with Women

An at home date is often much more impressive than the traditional type. For it to go off without a hitch involves some preparation. First set the scene.

Make sure the house, or at least the room for the big date is tidy and clean. Low light is notoriously romantic. Dim the lights then create soft lighting with candles or white Christmas lights. If the sun is setting open the windows. Simply controlling the lighting will cast a romantic glow on the evening. Turn on background music loud enough to set the mood, yet soft enough to allow for conversation and sweet nothings in her ear. Ignite her sense of smell by sprinkling perfume on the light bulbs or use scented candles. However, if cooking dinner allow the foods aroma to arouse her senses.

Don't forget to drop your kids off at the sitters. You don't want to go through all this work to have your lover switch into Mommy mode. Once everything is set, hop in the shower, put on some suave threads, and her favorite cologne. After all, you are the most important part of the scene.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

4 Things to Do For Women to Make Them Love You

Things to do for Women to Make Her Love You

1. Show out like a teenager. Yes, you are all grown up, but teens know how to throw caution to the wind and enjoy life. Public displays of affection are très romantic. So, flirt, hold hands, kiss in public places and announce your love to the world.

2. Help out with "her" chores. Does she always load and unload the dishwasher. Take the initiative and complete this task for her. Better yet, when she gets up to clear the table, take the plates off her and say lovingly, "Honey, I'll take care of this. Go relax. You deserve a break." Don't ask. Just tell her you want to help, do it and do it how SHE likes it done. If she like the glasses on the top rack, put them there and don't forget to scrub the pots and wipe down the counter.

3. Pamper her properly. Offer to scrub her back when she is in the shower, and don't get in unless she gives an invitation. Give her a shoulder massage longer than 60 seconds. Go all out and paint her toes. Don't worry; the fellas never have to know.

4. Give her a morning treat. No, not that kind of treat. Wake up early and fix her cup of coffee. Think small but thoughtful. Romance is in the details. Does she prefer tea with lemon or a boiled egg with a sliced apple? Whatever it is, show her you know her every desire with a simple piece of toast.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

5 Romantic Gestures to Turn Women On

Romantic Gestures to Make Single Women Attracted to You

Guys, follow these 5 romantic gestures to attract and romance single women:

1. Praise her regularly. Women love to give and receive compliments. It doesn't matter if you compliment the sparkle in their eyes when they laugh, or a new spice in the meatloaf. Just make it as specific and sincere as possible.

2. Touch her lovingly during everyday situations. Lay your hand on her lap under the dinner table or put your arm around her when watching television. Physical touch, without expectation, builds a connection and is the epitome of romance.

3. Call her by a pet name. Pet names are nicknames made perfect. A carefully given pet name sets your relationship apart from others. The right name shows you care enough to give her an intimate title suited to your special bond. No matter how silly, the key is to use the name with confidence.

4. Bring her something without her asking. For example, when at the gas station, buy her favorite drink when you pay for the gas. Hand her the beverage with a kiss on the cheek. Or simply bring her a glass of ice water on a hot summer day. This is more about being thoughtful than reading her mind - simple and romantic.

5. Glance her way. Romantic body language goes a long way during day to day activities. A special glance across the room while the kids, are playing creates a special moment. Do it just right, and a deep focused stare becomes an invitation for much more to come.

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com