“You look so familiar, do I know you?”

“I just got a new kitten/puppy. Can you help me think of a name for it?”

“Did you know you are torturing me by making me all hot & bothered?”

“Do you have a map? I just keep on getting lost in your eyes.”

Here’s one to use when you’re cruising in your car and you see a girl walking or waiting for a bus: “Hi! I know you may be a little scared to accept rides from strangers, but I can assure you I’m a well-mannered gentleman. Can I give you a lift somewhere?”

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I would like to focus this week on some vocabulary habits that can turn single women off and hurt your chances for getting women attracted to you for love and romance.

Some women will judge you by how you talk to them and what you say. Unfortunately some men have a very small vocabulary and use certain words over and over again between sentences that can become very annoying to women.

What are these words that men mistakenly repeat over and over that are a source of annoyment and can actually make you appear to be stupid because you lack a vocabulary? Here are the main ones and you must try to eliminate them from you vocabulary when speaking to single women:

"'you know"
"you know what I mean?"
"you know what I'm saying?"
"do you understand what I'm saying?"
using the word "like" to begin a sentence
"I know that"
"I already knew that"
"umm"
"yep"
"nope"
"and dah"

These phrases are ok to use every once in awhile. What I'm talking about is repeating these phases in almost every other sentence. I'm sure you know people that have these annoying conversation habits. Maybe this is even you?

Also, I might add that you should never use cuss words in your conversation when you first get to know a woman. If she's offended by foul language, this can turn her off to the point that she will have no interest in dating you.

Please don't mumble your words either. Speak clearly and don't talk with your hand over your mouth. And of course, if you're out on a lunch or dinner date, don't talk with your mouth full.

P.S. - In all fairness, if the girl you're with makes these same vocabulary blunders you do, then you will share something in common and your blunders are not likely to turn her off.

TIP #1 - THE POWER OF "RESPECTFUL AGGRESSIVENESS" IN LOVE-MAKING. "He who hesitates is lost!" is often sadly true of the would-be lover. Aggressiveness, assertiveness, courage, and persistence are often essential in meeting the woman you want and in developing a satisfying love affair. This is not to say that brutal aggressiveness or boorish assertiveness are recommended. But you must be aggressive enough to start the action and pursue it, even if given little encouragement initially, unless you are definitely and decisively refused.

But that is rare. Don't look for rejection. Don't expect failure! You have to exercise enough assertiveness to keep moving forward, from asking a girl for a date, or beginning a conversation with a stranger, through all the successive stages.

TIP #2 - GET A PART-TIME JOB WHERE YOU ARE BOUND TO MEET A LOT OF SINGLE WOMEN! Even if you now have a very good job, consider trying this: Get yourself a temporary part-time job, evenings, weekends, or whenever you have spare time, regardless of salary or previous background, where you will come into contact with single women.

Department store sales jobs are ideal for this purpose, but almost any selling job, even canvassing can be helpful both in building up your confidence in meeting and dealing with people, and in actually giving you more opportunity to meet attractive single women from much wider horizons than your own neighborhood or job might provide. A job in a cafe, restaurant, or any job where you constantly meeting and dealing with the public is excellent for this purpose if you make it your business to use it in this way.

TIP #3 - THOUSANDS OF BEAUTIFUL SEXY SINGLE WOMEN ARE READY TO GIVE THEMSELVES TO THE FIRST MAN WHO IS SENSITIVE, SYMPATHETIC, UNDERSTANDING: Loneliness, feelings of inner emptiness, a yearning for a sense of personal importance are so universal that millions of lovely women, single and married, are psychologically ready to throw themselves, passionately and completely, at the first man who shows them tenderness, affection, devotion...at the first man who makes them feel wanted, loved, important, and lovable!

TIP #4 - AVOID FALLING INTO THIS RUT WHICH CAN PREVENT YOU FROM MEETING SINGLE WOMEN. Most men are defeated by ego-deflating imaginations before they have even begun: The fear that you will not be liked, that you haven't a chance, that it's no use even trying because "she" could never possibly go for you are your chief, self-imposed obstacles. You use your imagination to erect barriers and obstacles rather than help your cause!

Yes it does! Particularly if you are not a pushy type of a person. The actual opening lines can be quite simple, but it takes real courage to approach a stranger and push your will upon her, by claiming her time and attention. It is the type of confrontation that most people try to avoid. But it is best that you face up to the facts, so you'll know what to expect. Don't let anyone tell you it is an easy thing to do.

It is like some other unpleasant little chores you sometimes have to perform. You must resign yourself to the task, grit your teeth, take a deep breath, and then plunge in.

But it isn't all that bad. Particularly if you consider the rewards. Besides, we will show you a few wrinkles that remove some of the pressure.

But don't fall into the trap of thinking you can dodge the confrontation by taking some easy way out. Something like waiting for an attractive girl to give you some form of encouragement first. Wouldn't that make it all so much easier? Forget it. It rarely happens. You have to be bold enough to make your own opportunities. Or be prepared to settle for less desirable female companions.

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Here are the top ten flirting gestures, body language, and actions that let you know a single woman is interested in you:
1) Eyebrow flash: She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, followed by a rapid lowering to the normal position. The flash is often combined with a smile and some eye contact.
2) Lip lick: Very common. Some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area.
3) Short darting glances: Usually occurs in sets, with an average of three glances each.
4) Hair flip: She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one hand movement or more of a stroking motion.
5) Coy smile: She gives you a sort of half-smile, showing little if any tooth, combined with a downward gaze or very brief eye contact.
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6) Whisper: She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear, just like in junior high school.
7) Primping: She pats or smoothes her clothing, even if it doesn't need any adjusting.
8) Skirt hike: The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
9) Object caress: Fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass, playing with toys or other things on the table. Very sensual.
10) Solitary dance: While seated, she moves in time to the music, with
her eyes on you.
This article was contributed by Deb Levine, author of, "The Joy of Cybersex."