When selecting a club, you want to select one where most of the women are. To do this, you can try and hit as many clubs as possible and check out the action for yourself or you can ask your friends that frequent the nightclub scene. However, what they consider a great place to meet women may not necessarily be the best place to go. You might also ask the door man upon arriving, what's the best night for action. Also, while you're there, inquire if they have a ladies night when ladies drink free or get a discount on their drinks. These specials attract women to clubs like crazy! So, don't stay home when there's a ladies night!

When shopping around for a club, don't make the fatal mistake of judging a club on the basis of one night. Certain nights can just be an off night. This is normal and happens at all clubs.

Don't waste your time going to a club where there's mostly men. The more women there are, the chances are greatly increased of you meeting someone.

You may be shocked and frustrated when you notice that many rough mannered men of seemingly lower intelligence are successful in picking up girls. They are so effective because they lack the inhibitions you have, and simply try more. Many girls would prefer men of your type and quality. But the other guys are the ones making the offers, while you stand and watch. Don't blame the girls for going with the men showing the initiative.
You may be a terrific guy, but if you don't get out and tell girls about yourself, they will never know. Even men who are quite handsome find that most attractive girls will wait for them to make the first move.
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Girls often say: "I liked the look of that guy, but he didn't say anything. I suppose he wasn't interested in me." In fact, the man may have been very attracted to her, and just couldn't get up the courage to come forward.
Or, a girl might tell a man, years later, when they are both married to someone else, "Sure, I'd have gone out with you. You only had to ask."
The message is quite clear, men. START ASKING...

Now let’s find out what women are really attracted to.
Much is being written about women wanting sensitivity, love, understanding, and romance. Women's talk shows go on the air daily, discussing a woman's need for caring relationships. They all make it sound so simple - all you have to do is care about a woman, tell her you love her, show your affection, and she will be happy. We agree that women want love and caring. But what about the men who are saying, "Hey, I'm loving, romantic, sensitive, and caring. If that is what women want, then why aren't they throwing themselves at me?" Sensitive, loving men are sitting home alone because there is a catch. Yes, women want to be loved but they are choosy as to whom they want that love from.
What we are telling you is that offering a girl love and affections is fine, but she only wants it from that certain man that she is attracted to. And in order to be found attractive by a woman, in order to be type of man that she wants to have love her, you must address yourself to the eight elements that make up this chapter. Power and leadership, what she can't have, what other women find attractive, affirmation of powers of seduction, something different, romance, sexuality, sensuality, and sex are the things in men that are found attractive by women.
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Loving a woman and following all the hints you learn from the "how to be sensitive" books will help you only after a girl is attracted to you. They won't help you get that girl attracted to you in the first place, and they won't help you keep her attracted to you.
It would be nice if life were such that love was all women were looking for. But you know this isn't true. You know it, and we know it. There would be no need for this book if it were. What this book tells you is what no one else will. We have no intention of sugar coating reality. In reality, what women find attractive is all of the things that make up this chapter.

A word about VIP Rooms. Some clubs offer what is called a VIP Room. This is just a gimmick for them to charge more money. The cover charge is higher to get into the VIP Room. Don't waste your money! There is nothing going on in the VIP Room any different than the regular club. There are no wild orgies or topless dancers pulling down their G-Strings. The only advantage to the VIP Room is a little more privacy (This is especially important if you're a well-known celebrity). Also, you will see the same dancers because they rotate between the VIP Room and the regular club.

You are going to see some really "Hot" bodies in the topless clubs. A lot of these girls work out and take a lot of pride in their bodies. A beautiful body can help them make more money and better tips. Then there's the pposite end of the spectrum.You will see unappealing bodies (flat-chested, sagging breasts, stretch-marks, flab, big hips, big ass, tattoos, ugly faces, etc.). You will see a variety of bodies of which I'm sure you'll find one that turns you on and want to share your bed with.

You've got to take action to get the things you want out of life! Don't sit around waiting for "the woman of your dreams" to come into your life. If you leave the business of finding love with the right woman to chance, chances are it will pass you by.

Sure, this is going to involve some risk-taking and courage to be aggressive in meeting women. With practice, it will come natural and besides, this is an investment in your future happiness.

When you are approaching a strange girl, whatever your intentions may be, any person watching, or the girl herself, really does not know what your intentions are. They cannot know if you are interested in getting her to bed. Not for sure anyhow. You can make your intentions known to the girl when you choose.

This takes a lot of pressure off of you. You are not appearing in public, proclaiming to everyone that you are out looking for sex. You are simply a friendly, courteous individual saying "Hello" to a girl.

I have found that women fully expect a man to be a master of the art of understanding a woman's needs. Women expect a man to know exactly what to do in every situation. After all, "Humphrey Bogart" knew how and you should too. And if you aren't perfect, if you don't know exactly the right thing to do, you are being judged. And one of the truly unfair things in life is that there is no defense for failure. It's part of filling the man's role and that's that.

So where do you learn this art if you aren't born with it? How do you learn where on the spectrum to be for any one situation? We learn from women. But, what women do and what women say has been confusing men for centuries. Our book, "A Man's Guide to Women" is meant to translate female behavior so that with an understanding of women, you can master the art of dealing successfully with them.