To be more correct, women don't want sex - they want good sex. Women's sexual desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very, very discriminating and choosy in picking partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that 1) sexually arouses them, and 2) promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed." Women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.
The fact that women are choosy about who they go to bed with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because of sex exists only as long as the sex is good.
These are topless dancers that hate men for various reasons. If they hate men so much, why would they be involved in a occupation where they are constantly exposed to men? They do it for the almighty dollar. That's why. I will explore the various reasons why they hate men.
1. Quite simply they are burnt out on men. They get tired of all the men talking crude to them, propositioning them as if they were whores, men acting like animals and showing them no respect, etc. Not to mention, having to put up with drunks and men with their brain between their legs daily. It all takes its toll over a period of time and they begin to hate men and don't even care to date men. Sometimes they even loose respect for themselves, which in turn makes them lose respect for men.
However, if you're patient and show them that you're different than the other guys and gain her trust maybe, you can undo some of the damage that has been done by all the jerks proceeding you. Just don't get your hopes up too high. You're better off pursuing the desirable type, described later.
This woman is mainly interested in how much material wealth and money you have. Upon meeting you, she will ask personal questions like, "What do you do for a living?", "How much money do you make?", "What kind of car do you drive?", "Do you own your own home?", or "Do you have a boat?"
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If you're not a man of financial means, she won't have anything to do with you. She will consider you too low-classed to associate with. If you are a man of financial means, then you will probably hit it off real well with this type of woman. This can have its drawbacks though, because she may just like you for your money and not for yourself.
1. Use compliments whenever they are appropriate.
2. Try to be exciting, and not dull.
3. Get introduced and call her by name as soon as you can.
4. Be polite and apologetic in FIRST PHASE. Be more positive in SECOND PHASE.
Talk more in FIRST PHASE. Listen more in SECOND PHASE.
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5. Remember, you can ease into it, and put the pressure on later.
6. Be ready to respond if a girl gives you a "come on.”
Women have a much higher level of sexuality and sensuality than men do, and love opportunities to express it. One only need observe a dance floor at nightclubs to confirm this. The men are usually very conservative, bobbing back and forth, while the women are very expressive with their bodies, making exaggerated moves - not afraid to offer sexual connotation to their dancing.
The important thing here is that women love an opportunity to express their sensuality, and are attracted to a man who offers that opportunity. Be it because he is a real good dancer, or is into yoga and massage, or is a photographer looking for a model, a woman is drawn to a man that is comfortable with sensuality.
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Now this does not mean that you'll have to go out and become an Elvis Presley clone to attract women. There are many subtle ways a man can add an element of sensuality to his personality. In later chapters we will give you ideas on how this can be done.
The article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."
When going to a topless clubs to try and pick up topless dancers do not sit in these two places:
1. NEAR THE BAR - There's just too much traffic actively going on in this area, so I'd recommend that you not sit near the bar. Sit at the bar only to check out the action.
2. THE ENTRANCE - Don't sit near the entrance to the club. There's men coming and going and too many distractions. The dancer you're with may even be checking out the guys that are coming in. Then if she sees somebody she knows; a regular customer she makes money with, current boyfriend or ex-boyfriend, etc. , she will leave you to see this person and that's not good. Also, the men coming and going out the entrance may flirt with your girl, since you are sitting in a high traffic area.
These are groups of women who come to the nightclubs to socialize among themselves. They may be all single, married, or both. They came to the nightclub to have a few drinks and shoot the bull. Some just want to socialize among themselves and don't want to be bothered by any men.
It's rather difficult to meet women who are in a group like this, much less make contact. Some of them may dance, but after the dance they go rushing back to their female friends and just ignore you. If you can determine a woman is part of a group like this and she ignores you and seems like she's just interested in her friends, don't waste your time and move on to greener pastures.
If you find out she's married and with a group of married women, you're really at a dead end street. They should not even be there in the first place. I strongly recommend not having anything to do with a married woman at a nightclub. What if hers husband walks in the nightclub and sees his wife with another man? This can only spell trouble. Let me warn you and take my advice, STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED WOMEN!
This is an excerpt from my book called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" which is free for you to download.
