This is a woman in nightclubs who is either high on liquor or drugs or even both. After a few drinks or under the influence of drugs, she will be feeling rather loose and perhaps even horny. Naturally, this is to your advantage because it makes your prey easier to catch.
How do you spot this woman? By simple observation. Her walk will be unsteady, while perhaps bumping into people while she is walking. If she has been drinking heavily, she will make several trips to the restroom. By standing next to the women's restroom, you can observe who's going back and forth to the restroom. An exception to this is a woman that has a kidney or bladder problem.
If she's under the influence of drugs, her pupils will be very large. If she's loaded on downers, she will walk as if she were drunk and her speech will be somewhat slurred.
Don't come on real strong and act real aggressive with this woman. She possibly may think that you are trying to take advantage of her because she's loaded. Just be nice and gentle with her.
The practice of picking up girls is quite old. Back in the days of the European royal courts, the nobility and other upper class people would take walks in parks and on the public avenues. This promenading gave the men an opportunity to look over the available females. The young girls were always chaperoned, but a lot of suggestions were made by winks, glances and other signals. If a man felt encouraged, he could communicate by written messages, which could be passed on by helpful servants or friends. Secret rendezvous and lovers' trysts were often arranged and, by all accounts, there was substantial clandestine sexual activity. The technique of the pick-up was different, but the overall courtship followed the same general principles as today.
Then came the European coffee houses which were a common hang out and meeting place for men and women looking for sexual adventure.
World War I saw millions of young Allied soldiers in Europe. Separated from their womenfolk and away from the restraints of their own communities, they became sexually uninhibited. Girls in France and other parts of Europe responded and were picked up in great numbers. It is interesting that soldiers can usually pick-up girls, even if they do not speak their language. These were not prostitutes either, but decent respectable girls.
The roaring twenties, World War II, Korea and Vietnam all brought further relaxation of sexual and moral standards.
The last thought in this section is something that we have come to realize is a cardinal rule to be used in reading women. That is: WOMEN HAVE SEX WITH MEN WHO THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH. At first, this phrase may sound too simple and obvious to have any wisdom to it, but let us expand on it. The meaning behind it is that if a woman decides that she would like to sleep with someone, she will pursue that person relentlessly. And on the other hand, if a woman has decided that she is not interested in sleeping with someone, no amount of pursuit or persuasion is going to move her. Many men have wasted their precious time and energy by ignoring this reality. We will discuss different applications of this rule in later chapter. We will show you how you can read women well enough to know whether or not to continue interest in her, or to bow out and put your energies into women where the odds of success are greater.
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On a final note to this chapter, we have a word on the Women's Movement and its effect on what women want. In the last ten years women have come to no longer be just looking for all that we have discussed - they are demanding it. Women are now openly comparing and judging men. Magazines with male centerfolds, male strippers and male exotic dancers are now a part of the women's world. Las Vegas shows now have men in "G" strings as well as topless girls. TV has more male sex symbols than females. Businesses that sell sexuality (be it advertising, TV, magazines, entertainment, etc.) are now catering to women, and women are buying it.
This article is an excerpt from our best selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."
Accept the fact that some topless dancers are lesbians and when you find this out, drop them like a hot potato. Move on to greener pastures. They are interested in other women and not you. They will just milk you for all the money they can make off of you and you get nothing in return. And don't even think about getting her to change her ways. You'll just be wasting time. Some of the dancers may swing both ways. They are attracted to and make love to both sexes. Should you pursue them if you find out they are bi-sexual? I'd say no. Do you want to compete with another woman for the object of your desires & affection? Probably not. Plus, you have the competition of other men also.
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Use your own judgment, but I would avoid bi-sexual dancers.
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This woman goes to nightclubs with one purpose in mind. To meet men and get approached by you. This is one of the easiest types to meet because there are no hassles involved. You meet, have a couple drinks and dance, and she's ready and willing to pursue the relationship further and she may even go home with you. She may come right out and tell you, "I want to make love to you" (don't get your hopes up on this one, it's very unlikely ) or "Lets leave and go to your place." An aggressive woman may scare some men off but don't let it bother you. Admire a woman having courage to go for what she wants.
Some of these women may be very active sexually and like to play musical sex partners. They need sex constantly and with a variety of sexual partners. It's nice to meet a woman like this sometimes, but most likely it will turn into a one-nighter. She wakes up the next day and gets dressed and walks right out of your life.
One possible drawback from meeting a sexually active woman like this is contracting a social disease. Of course, how are you supposed to know she has been sleeping with every Tom, Dick, and Harry in the city. You just have to be careful who you sleep with these days.
These types are usually easy to spot. They actively flirt and smile at the opposite sex and are extremely friendly. They will just stand around the dance floor where they encourage men to ask them to dance. They of course, may ask you to dance. I really admire a woman who takes the initiative to ask a man to dance. Some men are so shy about asking a woman to dance in the first place.
Also, I might add, these women usually come to the nightclubs alone. However, they come with a girlfriend occasionally. A woman alone will get approached more often by men. So, for the Man-Hunter, it's really an advantage for her to go to the nightclubs alone so she will be approached more frequently.
These are the things you should not do to be successful in meeting and impressing girls:
1. Don't be afraid of rejections -some are inevitable.
2. Don't hold back from approaching a girl because she hasn't smiled at you.
3. Don't give up too easily if she says "No."
4. Don't be a bore in conversation.
5. Don't be over-awed by a girl.
6. Don't be self-conscious.
7. Don't worry if you are shy.
To be more correct, women don't want sex - they want good sex. Women's sexual desires are much greater than most men realize. But, unlike men, who are just after sex, women are looking for great sexual experiences. Women are very, very discriminating and choosy in picking partners. They are only interested in having a sexual encounter with a partner that 1) sexually arouses them, and 2) promises, by his manner or image or personality, to be "good in bed." Women want exciting, provocative, imaginative partners who will lead them through great sexual experiences. Though their sexual desire may be very high, they will pass up just any sexual encounter waiting to find the one that promises to be special.
The fact that women are choosy about who they go to bed with is a dilemma for men, but there is one good aspect to this trait. Women, once they do choose, tend to stay with him, and are reluctant to change partners. Women know that good sex is hard to find, so once they have it, they would rather hang on to that relationship than go back out into the market place. Keep in mind this propensity to stay in a relationship because of sex exists only as long as the sex is good.
