When you first meet a topless dancer, do these important steps to create a bond. Be the first to extend your hand during your initial greeting. While shaking hands, give her a warm friendly smile and say, "Hi, my name is _____." That's the best way to open the channels of communication between you and the dancer. She will be impressed by you shaking her hand also because most men don't. You are showing her respect and making her feel special. It shows that you're a warm & friendly person and it helps to lower her defenses. It creates an atmosphere of receptivity between you and the dancer.

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When you shake hands, be sure your hand acts as your private diplomat. Use a firm grip to show strength and friendliness. A grip that's too hard seems aggressive. A grip that's too soft suggests that you're weak, retreating or indifferent. As soon as you feel her grip relax, break the handshake. If it's a very quick handshake it indicates an obligatory handshake. I'll bet you didn't think handshaking was such an art.

This is very important! After you have finished dancing whatever you do, don't let her get away after thanking you for the dance. Just simply say, "Can I join you for a drink?" Also, you could say, "Can I talk to you about something?" After this statement, she will say, "Talk about what?" Then you say, "I'll tell you when you when we sit down." After this, just start mak-ing conversation. Also, if she doesn't have a table and she is just standing like yourself, just say, "Can I talk to you for a little while?"

So, what you do after you finish dancing can determine the future of your whole night and whether you're going to become intimate with a woman or not. What I can't figure out is these men that dance with a woman and don't even look at or talk to her while they are dancing and when they finish, he says, "Thanks" and just walks away. Needless to say, you don't meet any women this way.

So when you have finished dancing, move right in for the kill. Don't hesitate, just proceed immediately with determination that you're going to make contact with this woman.

If the girl is working, like a waitress, receptionist, salesgirl, etc. several different situations can occur. First, if she is not busy or occupied with someone else, you can use a fairly basic approach, like, "Hi! looks like you have time on your hands! Aren't you usually busy this time of day?"

Then after she replies, you can get right down to business. Say, "You know, when I was walking past, I noticed you, and I decided I’d like to meet you. My name is. ..., what's yours?" If the girl has a co-worker nearby, within earshot, don't worry - just proceed as if they weren't there.

If she is busy, and you can't get to talk to her without other customers hearing, about the best thing you can do is say, "I'd like to see you later. Would that be possible? What would be a good time?" Then the girl won't be too embarrassed, since the customer doesn't know whether you already know her or not. A date can be made then, or later.

Being seen with women is probably the single most important thing you can do to help your image. Women are very willing to take another woman's word for it. In other words, if you are with a girl you must have something going for you.

When you are seen with a woman, it says all this without you uttering a single word:

1. You must have things going for you.
2. You must know how to treat a woman.
3. You are going to be hard to get. After all, there is more than one girl vying for your time.
4. You are something she can't have. People are afraid of commitments so who better to fall in love with than someone she can't have?
5. You appeal to her powers of seduction. Women love the chase while men are more interested in the trophy. If a woman sees two men at a party - one with a date and one stag, she will be most attracted to the one with a date. He is the one that stimulates her powers of seduction, and her competitive nature to prove her superiority over other women.

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Psyching yourself up and making preparations before you go out to topless clubs is very important. You need to feel at your best, so get a good nights sleep before you go out. Prior to leaving, eat a good healthy meal to put a lining on your stomach if you are going to be drinking. A couple of hours before you leave, put on some music that you are likely to hear in the topless clubs. The purpose of this is to get you in the mood for the topless club scene. Also, you need to prepare your subconscious mind for meeting and picking up topless dancers.

Here's how you do it. Make yourself a drink and sit down in your favorite easy chair, sofa, recliner, etc. Now, close your eyes and relax and picture in your mind meeting some hot & sexy topless dancer. See yourself talking to her, becoming intimate with her, her sitting in your lap and being all over you, see the glow in her eyes that says that she's attracted to you and desires you sexually. See yourself leaving the topless club with her after she gets off work and going to your place or hers or just meeting her somewhere for lunch or dinner.

You may think all of this is silly and what in the hell do I need to create all these images in my mind for? The purpose is to register all these images in your subconscious mind so that when you get to the topless club your subconscious mind will give directions to your conscious mind to act them out. Don't get discouraged if this does not work the first time because it takes a lot of repetition for this to be absorbed by the subconscious mind. Also, all day long on the day you're going to a topless club, keep telling yourself over and over "I'm going to meet and score with a very special topless dancer tonight." You will be amazed at the results you can have by psyching yourself up. There's another benefit to this by helping you develop a positive mental attitude and build up your self-confidence around the dancers.

So now you're out on the dance floor dancing to a fast song at a nightclub. While you're dancing with her, make eye contact. Just catch her eye and hold it momentarily, then look away. Repeat this process until you start getting a smile out of her or at least a look of interest. Of course, now some women won't look at you while you are dancing. They don't focus their eyes on anyone in particular and just look at their feet, the floor, or they're busy trying to show off in front of everyone else. Some women are self-conscious about everybody watching them, so they don't make much eye contact. Anyway, try to establish as much eye contact as possible. This will be to your advantage.

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While you're dancing this first dance together, be sure and make some verbal contact no matter how loud the music is. The first thing you should say is, "What's your name?" After she tells you her name, tell her yours. Now you have become formally introduced, just by dancing. Also, make a comment on how nice she looks or compliment her clothes, jewelry, smile, etc.

So now this first song is coming to an end. When it ends don't hesitate and look at her to see if she wants to dance to the next record. Just turn away from her while continuing to dance and look at her out of the corner of your eye to see what she is going to do. You see, by hesitating at the end of a song, you force a direct confrontation on whether to dance to the next song. If you just keep on dancing into the next song, taking it for granted that she wants to dance again, you'll be more successful in keeping her out on the dance floor. The longer you dance with her the better your chances of getting to know her.

If you are with another man it usually makes it a little easier to approach a girl (or girls). This is particularly workable in places like boardwalks, piers, carnivals, or in any type of hangout, where people go for the specific purpose of leisure. In these situations everyone tends to be more relaxed. They usually stroll along quite slowly, stopping here and there, looking at things. The opportunity for mingling is very good in these circumstances.

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Having a buddy along gives a little moral support, but going solo is no great problem either. The opening lines used should be similar to other situations: Comments on an interesting observation, requests for help and invitations to join, etc. Kidding around can be used very effectively as a means of breaking the ice in these places.

A very effective tactic for two or more men to pick up girls on a boardwalk, street, etc. (in a leisurely situation) is for the men to fall in behind the girls as they stroll along. They then can make playful remarks to the girls, or to each other, loud enough for the girls to hear them. The girls will usually join in the fun, and the men can invite the girls to join them, to walk along with them.