The oldest, and still perhaps the best, tactic in existence to meet women is to ask for help. You can ask for directions (this is good because if you ask about a place along the way she is walking, you can walk with her). You can ask for other types of advice, like where you could buy some particular item. If you are very impressed by the dress (or shoes) she is wearing, ask her where she bought it. Or ask about women's clothing details (you are buying something for your mother, sister, or a friend). You can probably think of many other ways to ask for help.
The only problem is that having given the help you requested, she is ready to move on. But you have a small advantage -she is stopped and talking to you. It is not yet time to introduce yourself (unless she appears very friendly), but you must follow up on your advantage. It is a good time for one of those very commonplace, casual remarks like, "Do you work around here?" or "Do you live here in..?" After her answer you can say, "By the way, my name is ..., what's yours?" Never be afraid to tell her you only asked for help to meet her. But wait until after you have introduced yourself.
Asking for help definitely is the best all-round opener for a pick up. It works well, both in "stationary" and "moving" situations.
A friend was having a party, and the day before the party, he went to a neighborhood swimming pool to try to find some friends to let them know about it. While there, he sat down to talk to someone he knew and noticed a very attractive girl who he had been trying to meet for some time. After a while, the girl and two friends got up from their chairs and went to swim laps. He got a piece of paper and wrote: "Party Friday Night, Drinks are Free, Bring Something to Eat, (His Phone Number), Call for Directions." He put the note on her chair and left the pool.
Sure enough, he got a call that evening from a very curious and intrigued girl. She asked who he was, and what he had been wearing at the pool. When he told her, she remembered him, and was very positive. Finally, she asked, "Do you always leave notes on chairs?"
His reply was a great example of shocking a girl with the truth. "No, I did that because I wanted to meet you, and if I'd gone up to you and told you that I had a big party for you to come to, you'd have thought that I was handing you the oldest line in the book. So I left the note. I was banking on you being curious enough to call and come to the party."
Indeed, she did come to the party with two of her girlfriends, and he had all evening to get to know her.
1. If you're with two topless dancers, ask them how did they get to know each other?
2. "Do you even get nervous when you're up on stage?"
3. "Is this your only job?"
4. "Where do you like to shop for clothes?"
5. "Where do you like to go on vacation?"
6. "What's your favorite romantic restaurant...Where is it located?" (Later you can ask her to meet you there for a lunch or dinner for your first date).
7. "Are you having a pretty good night?"
8. "What kind of man are you attracted to?" (Her answer can give you a clue on how to act around her to get her interested in you).
9. "Where did you attend school?"
10. "Have you been to any good concerts lately?' (Also, find out who her favorite groups are so you can ask her out when they come to your area).
Take a look around at the tennis courts. What will you see? Plenty of women. That's what. Tennis is very popular and attracts a lot of women. Lots of women go to the tennis courts to meet men. Perhaps not openly, but subconsciously.
Tennis is a one-on-one sport and this allows for a lot of mental concentration between you. It sure is a good way of getting to know someone. Just the two of you having fun together. What's good too is that after you have played a match, it's quite natural to cool off and talk to each other and perhaps go and have a drink or get a bite to eat.
How do you approach women at the tennis courts? There's a lot of different approaches. You can say, "Do you need a partner?" Or you could reserve a court in advance and say to a woman, "Would you like to play on Court 9? My tennis part-ner didn't show up."
You might want to arrive early to shoot the bull before you play tennis. Just talk to any and every woman you see. This way you can meet women before you even make it to the courts.
If you don't play tennis, by all means take lessons. This opens up another avenue for meeting women. Tennis lesson groups are comprised mostly of women and you'll be in the limelight. Let me say that you don't have to become an expert. Basic skills will get you by because most of the girls you'll be playing later won't be that good either.
I would suggest playing at public tennis courts. You'll see more of a variety of different women there. Tennis clubs are very expensive and you'll see the same old faces a lot.
A word about tennis attire. It would be worth it to invest in some nice pro-type tennis wear. It will make you look like a tennis pro and these outfits really turn some women on.
In conclusion, I want to tell you about a device to use to attract women and makes you popular. When you play tennis always bring a large jug filled with lemonade, kool-aid, or Gator-Aide. Also, you can even bring a small ice chest filled with cokes. All you have to do is ask a woman on the court, "Would you like something cold to drink?" After you've worked up a sweat or if it's a hot day, something cold to drink really hits the spot and is hard to turn down.
Well, winter is upon us now and you know what that means don't you? It's time to crank up the fireplace to seduce women. A cozy fireplace with a roaring fire and soft romantic music in the background will just melt a woman's heart. Women get turned on by fireplaces. They think it is so romantic.
So, if you have a fireplace be sure to use this as one of your tools for seduction. Here are some suggestions:
1. Spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace and have a picnic.
2. Sip wine or champagne in front of the fireplace.
4. Make out in front of the fireplace.
5. Watch a romantic movie together with the fireplace going. I would suggest renting, "Body Heat."
If the girl is working, like a waitress, receptionist, salesgirl, etc. several different situations can occur. First, if she is not busy or occupied with someone else, you can use a fairly basic approach, like, "Hi! looks like you have time on your hands! Aren't you usually busy this time of day?"
Then after she replies, you can get right down to business. Say, "You know, when I was walking past, I noticed you, and I decided I’d like to meet you. My name is. ..., what's yours?" If the girl has a co-worker nearby, within earshot, don't worry - just proceed as if they weren't there.
If she is busy, and you can't get to talk to her without other customers hearing, about the best thing you can do is say, "I'd like to see you later. Would that be possible? What would be a good time?" Then the girl won't be too embarrassed, since the customer doesn't know whether you already know her or not. A date can be made then, or later.
If she is busy, but there are no strangers within earshot, you can ask her name and introduce yourself, and ask her if she is busy later. This is suitable with waitresses, receptionists, office workers and some others. A date can be made then, or later.
In both cases mentioned (with the girl busy), if she should say "No," you should be a little persistent.
You should say, "Oh! Come on now. I only want to talk to you for a minute or two. You can't be that busy, all the time." Her "No" may have been a knee jerk reaction, because you took her by surprise. She will usually relent, unless she has a strong feeling about not wanting to meet you.
A friend once told us that just as he was getting into the checkout line at a grocery store, an attractive girl walked by him on her way to the produce section. She got in line directly behind him with one banana in her hand. He did not look at her until his food was being checked through.
He looked at the girl and said, "One banana?"
She shrugged her shoulders, not really giving an explanation, as she found herself on the spot.
Just then, the attractive checkout girl said, "Will that be all for you?"
He looked at the checkout girls and said, "No." Then, looking at the girl behind him, he picked up the banana, put it on the scale, and said, "Let me get that for you."
The checkout girl rang it into his total, and he paid the bill. The checkout girls were in stitches at the spontaneity of the event. The girl was stammering at such an unexpected gesture. Even a young woman back in line was watching and laughing with approval of someone being so friendly, witty, and original. At this point, our friend turned to accept the girl's thanks, then turned back to the checkout girl and gave her a smile, acknowledged the young woman's verbal appreciation of his gallantry, and finally, gathered his groceries to make a slow exit, so no one would think that he was trying to chase down the girl with the banana to put the hustle on her.
He got three girls' undivided attention and interest, and it cost him a total of 13 cents. A spontaneous action that told three girls that he is an interesting, clever person that they would like to meet.
