SIN #1 - Bragging about yourself and your accomplishments. There's no faster way of driving topless dancers away from you than by constantly talking about yourself and your own great accomplishments.

Forget about yourself. The whole art of conversation with a dancer is to become interested in her rather than trying to get her interested in you. Remember that most people are interested in themselves morning, noon, and night. Never forget this fact. After all, why should a dancer be interested in you unless you are interested in her first. Just put your ego aside and concentrate solely on her and her interests.

SIN #2 - Talking too vulgar and crudely. In the beginning, when you meet a dancer and you start talking sexual and making vulgar remarks, you are going to turn her off and you will get nowhere with her.

Don't tell her things like, "You sure have a great set of tits." or "show me your pussy." This is showing her lack of respect and she won't appreciate it. They want to be treated like a lady and not some whore.

Another mistake is propositioning her for sex in a crude manner with statements like, "Let's go f--k," or "I sure would like to f--k you."

Treat her like a lady and don't act like a horny dog with uncontrollable hormones. You'll make a lot better impression on her by keeping cool and calm and non-sexual and non-threatening.

You will stand out favorably from the other guys she's used to being around that act like animals.

These are great places for meeting women and salesladies and are literally just crawling with lots of young attractive women. Another factor in your favor is that women outnumber the men usually three to one.

Meeting salesladies is very easy. They are usually fairly attractive and are usually bored and would welcome a man like yourself approaching them and brightening up their day. All you have to do is simply pretend you are shopping for a gift for your mother or sister and ask her for assistance. After you have spent some time with her talking and making contact, ask her out to dinner on her lunch break or after she gets off.

As for the shoppers in the stores, let me offer some approaches:

When you see a woman loaded down with purchases, offer to help her carry her packages. This has drawbacks though because she might not trust a stranger carrying her packages. She may fear that you'll run off with them. It's worth a try though. All she can do is say no and think of the possibilities if she says yes.

Another approach is to walk up to a woman pretending you need help with a purchase. For example, if you're in a jewelry store, approach a woman and say, "I'm shopping for a watch for my sister and I was wondering if you would try this watch on so I can see how it looks?" 99 out of 100 times she will help you. After that, just turn on your charm and conversational skills and ask her out.

A good place to approach women is at the cosmetic counters. Women tend to hang around this area of the store more than any other location. Make-up and perfume are very important to women and she will tend to take her time in this department. Your approach? Look for a woman trying on some perfume and get next to her and give her your opinion of that exotic scent she just tried on. Don't forget to approach the salesladies also!

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You will probably have noticed that we are suggesting a lot of talking during the FIRST PHASE of "moving" situations (other than when requesting help). We believe this is best, since you are often in a tenuous situation. You have managed to stop the girl, but she may be uneasy, a bit embarrassed, and inclined to go on her way to prevent further embarrassment. However, as long as you keep talking, she feels compelled to remain and listen. Your talking has a soothing effect, and after a little while she will settle down and be more at ease. It is good for you to talk with a rambling style of sentence structure, inviting comments from her, and try to stimulate her to relate to what you are saying. This should be done after your opening line, but before you introduce yourself.

You cannot be a man of few words in this situation (not usually). You should be prepared to carry the initiative for a while. That is, keep it rolling. If you dry up after saying just a few words, there will be an awkward silence, and she will be gone. Words are the lubricant that keeps the FIRST PHASE of the pick-up operation rolling. You should have a good supply ready. Clichés are just fine for this purpose. Just about anything is O.K., but a good idea is to hover around the subject of justifying your pick-up attempt.

Things like: "You know, a lot of people might be offended by someone trying to make friends (NOTE: Do not use the words "pick-up") with a stranger in public. But really it is just like meeting someone at a party," and" I like to think of it as a self-introduction. And why not? If you are impressed or attracted by someone, why shouldn't you come forward and say so?"

And "I've been around this area quite a while and I've noticed that people are a lot more casual in their way of talking to people. I mean, things are more open now. I suppose it is the permissive society we hear so much about." You should memorize the gist of some of these “filler" lines, or others like them. You probably can think of plenty others yourself.

Playing hard to get is very important. You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to "catch" you. The important thing is that once you know a girl is interested in you, and then you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don't call her every night. Don't make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear to be interested, yet still holding back a bit - not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.

1. She asks your age - Always be honest and tell her your age.
2. She asks you if you go to topless clubs much - Always answer, "Very rarely." You don't want her to think that you cruise topless clubs all the time looking for topless dancers to pick up.
3. A dancer asks you for a dance - You tell her, "No" and she will ask why. Always answer, "My previous girlfriend was a stripper and I understand how you make your money. I would rather buy you a drink and talk to you and get to know you better. If you need to leave and go make some money I'll understand. After you've made your money come back over and party with me."

4. A dancers age may come up - She may ask you: "Guess how old I am?" or "How old do you think I am?" Always tell her 23 or 24. Why? Because if she's younger it will be a compliment to her that your thinking that she's more mature. Of course, if she's older it will be a compliment to her, you thinking that's she's younger. Women have this dread of getting older.
5. You ask her if she has a boyfriend - She says she does. You counter her answer with telling her that you have a girlfriend too, but let's get to know each other and become good friends. Always ask, "How long have you been seeing each other?" If they have been dating a long time, it might be serious and your chances of scoring with her flies out the window.

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Of course, she just might be bluffing. She may tell all of the guys that to keep them from hitting on her. You will just have to figure out if she really has a boyfriend or not.

In closing, always answer questions honestly. If you get to know each other intimately the truth will come out in the open eventually. For instance, if she asks if you're married, don't try to hide it.

Art Galleries

Go to any art gallery (especially on the weekends) and you'll see plenty of women. Some of these women aren't just there because of their appreciation for art. They are there to meet a guy like yourself.

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An art gallery provides a perfect setting to approach women. The atmosphere is very friendly and the women aren't going to feel uptight and threatened when you try to meet them.

Approaching a woman in an art gallery is very simple. All you have to do is walk over to a woman standing in front of a painting and make a comment on the painting. Another variation to this is to stand in front of a painting yourself and when a woman passes by, you make a comment to her about the painting. After you've made contact say, "Would you mind if I tour the gallery with you?" Afterwards you can invite her out to get something to eat or to go have a drink somewhere.