Tips on Talking to Topless Dancers

Listen to what she is saying, decide why it is being said, and then restate it in your own words. For example, if she tells you, "men are always hitting up on me, propositioning me, or asking me to go home with them, you might say, "it sounds like you're getting tired of being treated like a sex object."

It's best to restate occasionally, after she has expressed a particular point. You can restate by saying, "So what you mean is...." or "Now if I understand you correctly...." Summarizing in this way makes you listen carefully, lets her know if the message was communicated correctly, and eliminates any misunderstandings.

People often stray from the main topic. As a listener, it is helpful for you to keep this central idea in mind, and from time to time put the conversation back on tract. Summarizing will allow you to do this. You can say, "It sounds to me like you are saying....Am I right?"

How to Meet Women Using Your Friends, Relatives, and Co-workers

This is an ideal way to meet women. Just make a list of all your friends, relatives, and co-workers. Then contact them by phone or in person and ask them if they know of any single women they could introduce you to. It's nothing to be embarrassed about when asking. You're just wanting some female companionship.

Meeting women this way is very natural and these people can usually tell you a lot about the woman. Some will really enjoy playing the role of cupid. Who knows, you may meet the love of your life, just by asking around.

In conclusion, here's the script to use when contacting these people: "I am expanding my social circle of female friends. Could you introduce me to some of your single female friends?"

Pick-Up by Appointment

An interesting tactic can be employed if you see a girl regularly, but have never met her. Such situations often occur at and around a girl's place of employment. It can be called a "pick-up by appointment."

You approach the girl with a complimentary opening line and mention that you have seen her around. You can also tell her your name. But instead of continuing with your approach, you ask her if she will be there (at the same place) on the following day, or whenever. You then say, "I'll probably see you then." No need to tell her why you are putting her off, but shortage of time can be implied.

This is a very effective tactic, particularly if you are at all attractive in appearance. In the time between meetings the girl will probably think quite a lot about the future meeting, and be ready for it. Her imagination will magnify your attractiveness. One of the first things you should say on the second meeting is, "By the way, what's your name?"

What to Say Next to Topless Dancers You Meet

Don't worry about what you should say to her next. While you're thinking about this, you aren't listening! You'll know what to say by listening carefully for key words, main ideas, facts, opinions, and feelings. Listen most of all for free information on which to base questions. If you are told, "I was in Las Vegas just last week to party and do some gambling, you can offer information about yourself: "Oh, I was brought up in Las Vegas!" or "I enjoy gambling too." You can also ask:

"Do you enjoy going to Las Vegas."
"Were you brought up in the Las Vegas area?"
"Where do you like to go in Vegas?"
"What kind of gambling do you enjoy in Vegas

HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT WOMEN

Which women should you pursue? The answer is: The women that are interested in you. If a woman is not interested in you, then loving her from afar is not going to change that. Neither is calling her up every night asking her out, or being like a puppy dog, following her around, telling her how much you like her and that she is pretty. This kind of behavior is not what a woman is looking for in a man. Remember the eight elements. You aren't portraying an image of power. You aren't someone who is hard to get. Other women must not find you attractive, or you wouldn't be wasting your time with someone who treats you with disinterest. She doesn't need to use her powers of seduction on you. About the only thing you are to her is a pest.

The cardinal rule is: NEVER STAY ANYWHERE WHERE YOU'RE NOT APPRECIATED. If a girl is not interested, then that is that. Don't waste your time with people who aren't interested in you. Even if she looks like the girl of your dreams, it will lead nowhere if she's not interested. So move on to someone who is interested. By hanging around, you portray an image to her, and everyone else that you are a person who is found unattractive by women and worse - you are desperate.

What this all means is that, pursuing women who have shown an interest in you is going to increase your percent of success. It is, in fact, the only course of action that is going to lead to success. And that brings us to a very important skill that you have to develop. You must become perceptive enough to separate those women who are interested in you, from those who are not. This is a skill that is developed with a lot of practice and experience. Sometimes it is very difficult to recognize disinterest until you have experienced a girl who is interested in you. After all, most women try to spare men's feelings. People have to say no, and men often confuse politeness for interest. Believe us, if a woman is interested, she will make it very obvious. You will know for sure.

Some Fall-Backs For Shy Men

If you're shy and have trouble talking to topless dancers, it helps to be prepared with things to talk about. Besides the things that are most important to you, here are sources for conversational fuel:

1. Come up with 3 or 4 interesting or exciting things that have happened to you recently. Practice telling these stories on family or friends, or practice in front of a mirror or with a tape recorder.

2. Read current newspapers and magazines, and be prepared to talk about events that interest you.
3. Collect a couple of sure-fire, inoffensive jokes.
4. Become knowledgeable about what's going on in your city. People always want to know more about what's happening locally.
5. See current movies and read current books. You're bound to find dancers who have seen the same movies or read the same books.

This is an excellent way to meet hot, sexy female tourists and these tours have some lonely attractive females.

Every major city has walking or bus tours. Cities on the water usually have boat tours of some type. Check the yellow pages under "tours" to find out information on the tours. Sign up for one of the tours on the weekend.

Meeting these women on a tour is easy as pie. All you've got to do for openers is to make a comment on what the tour guide is showing you. Also, it would really be a good idea to bring a polaroid camera along with you so you can take a picture of her to take back home with her.

After the tour is completed, ask her if you can take her on a personal guided tour of some unique places in the city. Being that you live there, I'm sure you can think of some great places to take her.

So why not try this method of meeting women. It's a uniquely different way of meeting women and some of the tours are very interesting. The atmosphere is great and the people are relaxed and friendly.