Don't make fun of, criticize, or judge a topless dancer because you don't think a dancer is attractive or something about her looks turn you off. Dancers have a sixth sense about them and will pick up on the negative vibes you're sending her way. Just focus on her good points such as beautiful hair, sexy eyes, beautiful smile, or kissable lips. Find her other good qualities and concentrate on them. Don't think any negative thoughts towards her, period. She just may pick up on them and this will make a bad impression.

 

In University towns, the libraries are excellent meeting places for soon to be lawyers and doctors and other assorted professional types. Ideally, you should be in the University library as opposed to the public one. This could necessitate enrolling in one course to get the card entitling you to use the library. Take something fun and easy.

There are loads of opportunities to meet eligible, well-to-do women while working as dental assistants, receptionists to doctors and attorneys, businessmen and the like. The pay isn't always the highest but it affords you the opportunity to meet a lot of different people including female executives, etc. Salesmen in prestigious car dealerships like Mercedes, Cadillac, etc. meet a lot of well-to-do women looking for cars and maybe you. There's also the opportunity here to make a good living. Real estate is always a good avenue to follow in pursuit of a good career and chances to meet well-to-do women. You will meet successful women looking to buy a home. The economy is currently not as generous to realtors as it once was but this too will pass. For the moment, get to night school and get that realtors license so you'll be ready to meet those women looking for a home when that market starts to loosen up. Airline stewardesses meet a great many successful women. Airline ticket persons meet the same people but usually don't have the time to start a relationship because of the lines and the need to get these people out. A stewardess can get more exposure to the well-to-do passenger and perhaps start a relationship that will continue after the plane has landed.

Top waiters in better restaurants meet a lot of successful types who would love to get married and take care of you in a style you'd love to get accustomed to. Male hair stylists in styling salons and other types of women's beauty care centers will invariably meet the well-to-do women.

The basic idea behind meeting a well-to-do woman is to be where they are in one capacity or another. If they see you with a certain amount of frequency, things will take their natural course. You will never at work if you work on an assembly line, in a man's clothing store or as a telephone oper-ator. In short, you need exposure either at work or at one of the previously mentioned clubs, golf courses, etc. The more familiar you become to them as when you're seen in their office, club, hair salon, etc., day after day, the better. The most important single thing is for YOU to be seen by them. Familiarity breeds relationships! Good luck

HAVE ACTIVITIES READY

We believe this is one of the most important preparations a man should make if he is interested in girls.

At times when you might be likely to meet a new girl, you should always have some activities in which you might ask her to join you ready for right then, or later on a date. Suitable restaurants, coffee shops and ice cream parlors are a good start. It is a good idea to know the location of these in advance. Other places (according to taste) might be discos, bars, gyms, concerts, sporting events, swimming pools, skating rinks, beaches, etc. You might ask her to drive somewhere with you. Or, if you are involved in sports or athletics, you can invite her to participate with you. Tennis, bowling, golf, skiing, skin diving, boating, jogging, horseback riding, and surfing are all likely suggestions. Amateur theatricals. musical activities, art groups, photography, cinematography, car clubs, and all types of flying are also very good.

In fact, many men take up one or more of these activities largely for the social opportunities they offer, both as a place to meet girls, and as an outing to take dates they have met elsewhere.

TIP #1 - SOME SINGLE WOMEN CRAVE A MAN WHO IS DOMINATING, "MACHO," AND EVEN JUST A LITTLE BIT CRUEL! - It's important to sensitively explore the unfulfilled needs of the woman you have met. At times, in the nature of being just a wee bit unpredictable and complex, you may act dominating, bossy, even slightly sadistic.

Watch her reactions closely when you do! If you see a glint in her eyes, a pleasurable submissiveness, a suddenly more positive response to you - you may be dealing with a single woman who has a masochistic need to be dominated and mistreated. If such behavior comes easy and natural for you, it can be exceedingly effective with such a woman.

TIP #2 - OPEN YOUR EYES TO THE UNCONVENTIONAL BEAUTY AND SEX APPEAL of the "plain-looking" single woman. Taste in beauty and sex appeal is often a purely subjective quality. Many single women whose faces and figures attract no public attention or enthusiasm may exert a provocative, tantalizing, even aphrodisiacal effect upon you personally...if you open your eyes and find those subtle elements in her which only you can appreciate and cherish!

TIP #3 - OCCASIONALLY BE UNPREDICTABLE! Many women, however much they value reliability and security in their man, also tend to take for granted, and to undervalue a man who is too ordinary, too conformist, too dependably predictable. Don't do it too often, and don't hurt her needlessly, but occasionally demonstrate unpredictable and unexpected qualities.

Leave at least a slight touch of mystery and romantic secrecy about your innermost self. For example, suddenly take a trip without advance warning and write to her from your temporary distant stopping point. Take her on a date to some place she has never been before and which she could not have expected from your previous behavior.

Use your imagination to display other romantic touches of mystery and unpredictability. For example, you may suddenly send her a present which opens up a completely unsuspected but attractive facet of yourself to her admiring contemplation!

TIP #4 - LOFTY, DRIVING AMBITION IS ATTRACTIVE TO SOME SINGLE WOMEN. Spin beautiful dreams of the future for her, and weave her into them! Express your highest, most dramatic ambitions and goals to her. Express them vividly, as concretely and confidently as possible. Give her the feeling that she will go along with you and share the heights, the glory, the success, and your mutual happiness!

Playing hard to get is very important. You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to "catch" you. The important thing is that once you know a girl is interested in you, and then you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don't call her every night. Don't make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear to be interested, yet still holding back a bit - not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.

Poor hygiene will really turn a topless dancer off or any woman for that matter. Keep your hair and teeth clean and your breath fresh. Be sure and bathe, wear a good cologne, and wear a good deodorant. Don't forget to shave either. Be aware that facial hair will make you look older. Also, most dancers are not attracted to beards. If you insist on wearing a beard, keep it neatly trimmed.

If you are going bald or have a receding hairline, don't try to disguise it by combing it a certain way. This makes you look silly. Dancers are not going to judge you because of your lack of hair. If you're getting thin on top, just cut your hair short all over. This will give you the appearance of having more hair.

Another word about hair. If you have a chest or back like a hairy gorilla, trim it. The majority of women are turned off by too much hair. A word about gray or graying hair. This will attract dancers like a magnet, provided that you have a slender body to match it. If you're overweight, she will see you as just a fat old man, which will be a turn off and don't die your hair either because this is not good for your image either.

If you are an older man, wear your hair short. It will make you look younger. Study the models in the magazines for some nice hairstyle ideas. Finally, it won't hurt to have a nice tan either. Dancers love the beach, so it will certainly help for you to have that tanned beach-hunk look.

One of the cardinal rules in your search for the well-to-do woman is to forget the bars. The person you're looking for isn't wasting time in them. You have to go where the rich and soon to be rich spend their time. If you like boating and water, many yacht clubs allow people to join on social status who don't even own boats. What better way to meet a well-to-do woman than to be a member of this club and be present at the various social functions the club provides. This allows you to mingle with a lot of people of means without having a large cash outlay yourself. If you're a horse lover, find an exclusive stable or riding club and join up. This doesn't mean you have to have a horse of your own to learn to ride.

If you can afford the membership dues in a country club or if you can afford to borrow the money to join up, do so. If you are an aspiring golfer, most areas have places you can even rent the clubs. On public courses without restrictions, make sure you're playing during the middle of the week whenever possible. It's a common joke your doctors and lawyers are on the course during this time. Usually they play the country clubs but they have been known to play on public courses. The private clubs often have "men only" during certain hours. Find out if this includes the club house as well. If the restriction lifts at four or five in the afternoon, make it your business to be there.

Better supermarkets are excellent meeting places for the upwardly mobile, as are better department stores. You can be working there or shopping there, just as long as these eligible women see you. Some of the really large stores such as Bloomies in New York have entire departments devoted to party needs such as wine, cheese, crackers or hors d'oeuvres, etc. Want to meet a nice on-the-way up type of woman, she's here buying for a fun party. It's a sure bet if you're looking around this type of party center, conver­sation will develop if you let it or even better, start it.