Your conversation is the SECOND PHASE of your approach to a girl has three basic objectives:

1. Killing time by "small talk" to make the girl more at ease in your company.

2. Drawing the girl out to speak of herself.

3. Impressing the girl by talking in an exciting, interesting manner.

Generally, correct, polite, logical and serious conversation is best in business situations. But aggressive, frivolous, showy conversation is usually more effective when talking with girls. You should tend toward being an extrovert. If you can remember a time when you were very outgoing at a party or other occasion and impressed people, try to recapture that same spirit.

 It is a good idea to watch other men in conversations to see which tactics are most effective. Notice how many men talk too much on uninteresting things, and try to avoid this fault in your own conversations.

Also it is a good idea to note (even write down) effective jokes and expressions you may hear. Your source might be TV, comedy records, or other people you meet.

Your conversation should be a mixture. You should mix small talk, exciting subjects, interesting serious subjects, and sexy talk. Don't talk too long about serious subjects; break into something lighter. Be on the move all the time in your choice of subjects.

Now, I will discuss the best place to meet flight attendants, and that's on the ground. Particularly in the bars of hotels that have regular limousine service to and from the local airport.

Where  do  flight  attendants  hang  out  between flights? It may surprise  you but  usually they stick around  the hotels they stay  in. You might think they would  be  out  partying  till  the wee hours between flights. This is just not  so and here are reasons for this.

Being a flight attendant is not all glamour. It's a hectic physical  schedule and it  takes its toll  on the  body. For example, a  flight attendant typically works only a couple of weeks out of a month. She will spend up to six to eight  days at a time flying here and there  which  includes  within  the  United States or internationally. Then she will be off another six to eight days to recuperate her body from jet lag.

When  she's working  the stretch  and she  gets off work, she's usually tired and  catches a limo  for the hotel and then straight to the bar.  This is where you want to be to approach her.

OK, now you're in  the hotel bar and a  couple of flight attendants  walk in. By  the way, I  might mention  that  flight attendants  are  usually paired together when staying in hotels. Take your pick of the one  you want  to approach  and approach her. Keep in mind  that they are  there for a  few quick drinks and then  it's  off  to  the  sack  for  some shut eye and relaxation. You've approached her  and you open up  with, "Hi my  name is                Can I   join  you for  some  conversation?"  In most cases she  will say yes. Now you will follow up with your conversa­tional skills. Follow my techniques described in my chapter on conversation. Be sure  and  don't  come on  with a  lot of  B.S. about  yourself.  Revolve the  whole conversation around herself and her interests.  Try to  avoid talking  about her job. This  will probably turn her  off because it  may just seem like  one big long drag  for them.  It certainly won't hurt to sympathize with her hectic  schedule and duties such as cleaning up air sickness bag overfill.

You're  hitting it off real well with this flight attendant now. Hopefully, if she is with another flight attendant, the other attendant  will excuse herself to head  for the room to get some sleep. Once she's out of sight say, "I  have a nice warm bed, clean sheets, and a potent nightcap at  my place. So why don't  you stay over at my place tonight?" "I'll sleep on the couch and you can have my bed if you like."

Your  own  your  way  now  to  total  heaven now, providing she accepts your invitation.

The  next  morning  you'll  probably be up early. Don't  be surprised  if  she's  a  little  grumpy  and irritable when she gets up in the morning. Her body and mind  are just depleted from jet lag and being on her feet. Just be warm and affectionate towards her.

When you drop her off at the airport, be sure and give her your business card (if you have one) and your home  phone number.  This way  the next  time she is in town she  can give you a  call if she would  like a nice warm bed for the night and some hot passion.

One sad  final thought.  She may  disappear out of your  life for long periods  of time. Just accept this because it's a fact of life. When you least expect it, she  will call and  say, "I'm in  town on a layover and I'm just  dying to see  you!" What she  probably really wants is some good food, conversation, and sex. So why not give it to  her, even though it's most  likely not going to lead to something serious.

Avoid Dull Subjects

Sometimes it is the girl who keeps the conversation on a subject uninteresting to you. If she is really interested in it herself you can cater to her for a while, but you should eventually try to change the subject rather than suffer too much boredom yourself. You can probably find something interesting to both of you.

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Don't always do what women expect you to do. Someone who does exactly what is expected on cue is boring. By being a little unpredictable, you become elusive, you keep women on their toes, wondering about you, and slightly insecure with respect to where they stand. If they expect you to try and make a move sexually - don't. If they expect you ask them out for Saturday night, ask them out for Tuesday night. If they think you aren't interested, call out of the blue. If they expect you to call that night, call the next day.

You must convince a girl that she would be lucky to be with you. You may do this to a great extent just by properly presenting yourself with your image.

EXAMPLES: Dress as well or better than her. Be knowledgeable about the movie, the dinner, the wine, politics, or whatever. Use all the methods you learned in the chapter on image, but above all don't brag about yourself. They've heard "bull" before and they won't fall for it. Let your image speak for you. By keeping the conversation aimed at her, you say a lot about yourself.

If you are a celebrity, movie star, rock star, wealthy, don't try to hide it. Exploit it to the max, but be cool and don't brag.
            
Your celebrity status will attract topless dancers like a magnet. If you have a yacht, mansion, Lexus, airplane, etc., let her know about it. It will make a big impression on her because these girls are obsessed with money and material things. They are true "Material Girls."

             
Just overlook the fact that she may just like you for your material wealth or celebrity status. Just have some fun with her. Wine and dine her and fulfill your sexual fantasies. Just imagine the thrill of a huge boner when she does a "private and seductive dance" for you totally nude in your bedroom. You will swear that you have died and gone to heaven!

Here's  how to approach  them in the  air, if you want to  give it  a try:  After you're  in the air and things  have calmed down and  things are slow, ask the flight  attendant  for  some  coffee. Try  to establish  some  eye  contact  while  she's taking your order  and be sure and give her a warm and sexy smile. Literally try to melt her  with your bedroom eyes and tell her, "You sure look great today." When she returns with your coffee  say, "Being a flight  attendant sure is  a demanding job  isn't it?" This sure could open up an avenue  for some  prolonged conver­sa­tion. What you're trying to do  is establish as  much verbal contact  as possible.

 After you've  finished your  coffee, call  her to pick  up your cup. This is  when you're going to "move in  for the kill."  Ask her, "Would  it be possible to talk  to  you  in  private?"  She will probably respond with, "About  what?" Just  say it's  personal.  Whether  you  get  to  talk to  her in  private or while in your seat, this is the approach to use: "I'm very attracted to you and  I'd like to get to know you better. Can we have dinner  or a  couple of drinks together?" That's all there is to  it and hopefully she will say "yes."  If she doesn't, you can't say you didn't try.

Also, if you don't get to speak to her in private and you have to speak to her from your seat and you're sensitive about other passengers listening  in on your lines,  just have her  put her ear down to your mouth and whisper in her ear.

You might  try this  if you  get turned  down for dinner  or drinks.  When  you're  getting  off the plane, be sure  and say  on your  way out,  "Are you sure you still  don't  want  to  have dinner  or  a  couple of drinks?"  You  never  know,  she  just might change her mind.

In conclusion to approaching  flight attendants in the  air,  be sure  and  do it at the beginning of  the flight. Don't  wait until mid-flight or at the end of the flight. The reason for this being, that  she  may  be  tired  or  fed  up  with  difficult pas­sengers.  So strike  early  and  get a jump on any possible competition.