Getting Ready and Psyched Up

Psyching yourself up and making preparations before you go out to topless clubs is very important. You need to feel at your best, so get a good nights sleep before you go out. Prior to leaving, eat a good healthy meal to put a lining on your stomach if you are going to be drinking. A couple of hours before you leave, put on some music that you are likely to hear in the topless clubs. The purpose of this is to get you in the mood for the topless club scene. Also, you need to prepare your subconscious mind for meeting and picking up topless dancers.

 Here’s how you do it. Make yourself a drink and sit down in your favorite easy chair, sofa, recliner, etc. Now, close your eyes and relax and picture in your mind meeting some hot & sexy topless dancer. See yourself talking to her, becoming intimate with her, her sitting in your lap and being all over you, see the glow in her eyes that says that she's attracted to you and desires you sexually. See yourself leaving the topless club with her after she gets off work and going to your place or hers or just meeting her somewhere for lunch or dinner.

You may think all of this is silly and what in the hell do I need to create all these images in my mind for? The purpose is to register all these images in your subconscious mind so that when you get to the topless club your subconscious mind will give directions to your conscious mind to act them out. Don't get discouraged if this does not work the first time because it takes a lot of repetition for this to be absorbed by the subconscious mind. Also, all day long on the day you're going to a topless club, keep telling yourself over and over "I'm going to meet and score with a very special topless dancer tonight." You will be amazed at the results you can have by psyching yourself up. There's another benefit to this by helping you develop a positive mental attitude and build up your self-confidence around the dancers.

 

I am happy to announce that I will be publishing my latest book next month called, "Dating with Jesus: A Daily Spiritual Guide for Men on How to Meet, Date, and Attract Women." Here is an excerpt from the Introduction:

“Dating with Jesus” came about in March of 2017 while I was lying in bed about to go to sleep. I heard Jesus telling me to write a book for men on how to use the power of Jesus to help them meet, date, and attract women.

I just shrugged it off and just thought maybe I was just hearing voices in my head and just fell asleep.

All during the week when I would lay down to sleep I would hear the same command. Now, I was thoroughly convinced this was Jesus commanding me to write this book.

Then I was hearing his voice all during the day about writing this book and not just when I would lie down to go to sleep.

I am a man of God and follower of Jesus Christ, so when he tells me to do something I must obey him.

So, I started writing “Dating with Jesus” and prayed for Jesus to guide me in writing it and to put the words in my head. When I started writing I was amazed at how the words flowed from my head right down my arm to my pen.

I had no writers block whatsoever. Jesus was giving me the words to write. So, my writing of this book and you reading it is truly a gift from Jesus to help you meet, date, and attract women and to help you overcome any disappointments, frustrations, rejections, loneliness, and bad experiences in dating.

We were all put on this earth for a purpose and we all possess God-given talents. My talent is writing and my mission and purpose on earth is to help men like yourself succeed with women beyond your wildest dreams and fill your life with lots of love, romance, fun, and good times.

Let’s face it guys…It’s a jungle out there in the dating world for men now and for many men, the search for love and romance continues to be frustrating, disappointing, unfulfilling, heartbreaking, and lonely.

Also, their fear of rejection, lack of confidence, shyness, and fear of catching a venereal disease creates what seems like insurmountable obstacles to meeting women. And for those men that actually do go on dates, many of them never get a second date or the relationship is very short-lived.

Put your hope and trust in Jesus and allow me to be your personal dating coach and with the help of Jesus follow my dating tips, spiritual comments, and prayer suggestions in the book to turn your love life around. Jesus can open up his sky vaults and rain down favor for you to meet, date, and attract women who will love you and bring you much happiness and joy.

HINT #13 - Don't take one ounce of grief from a woman. At the very first hint of bullshit, call her on it. In the figurative sense, slap her on the wrist. Women can sometimes be like little children wanting to be disciplined. By being a nice guy, patient, and understanding, you are like the lenient parent trying to buy a child's respect - it can't be bought. By being soft, you are seen as being weak. From the very beginning, you have to be firm, letting her know that you will not take any bullshit of any kind from her. Don't forget, it's what she really wants.

By "bullshit" or "grief" we mean any kind of negativity that she may direct towards you, be it moodiness, unfounded criticism, breaking a date, general bitchiness - any type of behavior that you would deem undesirable or disrespectful.

As an example of this, we recall the time a friend of ours was at a shopping mall with his girlfriend. He bought a shirt at one store and then later in the day saw the same shirt at another store priced $1 less than he had bought it for. His girlfriend began nagging him to return the first shirt so as to save the $1. She argued that the first store was a rip off, he shouldn't let them get away with overpricing, and he should have shopped around in the first place rather than making an uneducated purchase.

             
Was she really concerned about the $1? No, she was testing him. Testing to see just how far she could push him. His reaction was to try and let it pass. He countered her arguments by saying it was really no big deal, and he would be embarrassed returning the shirt. She continued to tell him to return the shirt, and was soon demanding that he take it back. Finally he gave in and returned the shirt hoping that she would then be satisfied. In fact, she spent the rest of the day nagging him about anything and everything she could think of. It was as if he had been given a license to nag by her first victory. Returning the shirt only showed her that he would weaken if she nagged long enough.
 
What should he have done? At the very first hint of her nagging him to return the shirt, he should have very firmly told her that he had no intention of returning it. That he had gone shopping to enjoy himself and find some nice clothes, not to act like some cheap, tight-wad chasing around to save a dollar. His time was worth more than the dollar and he didn't want to hear another word about it. This was his only viable option.

 

 

 

 

Should a woman know for sure that you are not seeing any other women? No. If she is wondering, then she is a bit insecure and the hint that other women find you attractive will intensify her interest in you. Please note that we do not advocate infidelity. We are merely saying that she will find you more attractive if she suspects that other women find you attractive.

If a woman confronts you with the question: "Are you seeing another woman?" maintain stout denial. She will still be wondering and that is real good.

Once, while looking at a magazine centerfold, we found this interesting comment. It was on the back of the picture - the part that gives the girls biographical information. Under the heading "likes and dislikes" she stated, "I'm not interested in men who let me walk all over them." At first glance, this seemed reasonable and not much was thought of it. Then one of us asked, "Why does she try to walk all over men in the first place?" We began to think about this, and found in our observations a very interesting behavior in women.

We found that women will test men. They will try to walk all over men to see how far they can push them. Why are they doing this? Literally, they are testing the guy's manhood. The more grief a man will tolerate from a woman, the worse he scores on the test. Women are testing because they are looking for a man who will not let them get away with any bullshit. It is a situation where the more understanding and patient you are, the weaker you are seen. The worse you score on the test.

This article is from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

I would like to share a few tips from one of our readers:

Being 40+ and single again has it's curses and blessings, I wont linger on the former but would like to share with you and your readers a great little place to snag babes. Bookstores, yep bookstores, not only do you get to screen what her interests before moving in, but you already have a common ground, something to talk about right away instead of fumbling around for something that interests you both. Depending on whether you are an expert or a novice on the subject matter you can opt to enlighten or be enlightened and believe me, a woman will never miss an opportunity to show that there's "more than T&A in the DNA."

"All that and a great mind too!" usually will get a smile, and a phone number.

Libraries are also great places if you've got the time. A little tip is finding an attractive lady at a table, look at what she's reading, grab some of the same subject matter, and plop down across from her or near enough to start exchanging thoughts.

I have enjoyed quite a few successful encounters thanks to your tips and advice but if there is one little tidbit that everyone needs to carry with them it's that rejection is a part of the game. Hell, Ken Griffey Jr. doesn't get a hit but once every three at bats and he's on his way to the Baseball Hall of Fame so don't be afraid to swing away. Thanks.

This will help you to meet and pick up women by influencing the subconscious mind by means of suggestion. Using the method of autosuggestion, you will be giving yourself positive suggestions to meet women.

              This method is very simple and very effective. Repetition is the main rule in making suggestions work. They should be repeated three or four times, or even more. These suggestions can be made verbally, though it is not necessary to say the words aloud. Just thinking them is enough. Some people respond better if they are said aloud, so you might want to experiment to see what works best for you. To make the suggestion more potent, you may form a visual image while making the suggestion verbally. There is a tendency for the subconscious to carry out any prolonged and repeated visual image.

              You will be phrasing your suggestions using the words, "I can" or "I will." Start out using the words, "I can" and if no results are shown, switch over to the words, "I will." Remember, in giving yourself suggestions, acceptance by the inner mind is necessary or it will not be carried out, no matter how badly you may consciously want this.

             

Now I will recommend these suggestions for you to use. Pick out the ones you like the most or even make up your own. Any of them will work.

"I can walk up to any woman and start talking to her."

"I can move into action quickly and easily when I see a woman I like."

"I can approach a woman, totally free from all negative feelings such as worry, inferiority or nervousness."

"I can make the first move when it comes to sex and follow my sexual urges and proceed to seduce my date whenever I feel the time is right."

"I can bring a woman home with me if I choose to do so, when I go to nightclubs."

"I can meet up any woman I desire."

              It is recommended that you shouldn't burden your subconscious mind with too many suggestions at one time. Try to work on one suggestion at a time and never more than two. If using two suggestions, start with the first one and repeat it three or four times, then repeat the second suggestion three or four times, then go back and repeat the first suggestion.

              Use this method daily and you will be meeting and picking up more women than you ever dreamed possible. You will be more confident than ever and meeting and picking up women will become natural and easy. Try this and see if your love-life doesn't improve dramatically.

              Also, I might add, you can use this method to obtain anything you want. It doesn't have to be applied to just meeting women only.

              In conclusion, remember the need for repetition and suggest results, not means.

The key to successfully meeting topless dancers is to not come on to them all hot & horny and wanting to jump their bones. Become their friend and exude warmth and friendliness. The worst thing you can do is treat them like a sex object. Make her feel special and appreciated.

Believe me; you will stand out in her mind as a special guy that's different than the rest of the men who come in the club. After all, the name of the game is to get her truly interested in you and attracted to you.