A Guide to Picking Up Women in Nightclubs

Do you stand on the sidelines at nightclubs watching other men meet and pick up women? Have you ever been at a nightclub and seen a beautiful woman that you were dying to approach but you couldn't get up the courage? Do you continually strike out with women? Are you shy and don't know what to say to women in nightclubs?

Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert) has written a new ebook called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" that will help you overcome these problems and you'll be meeting more women than ever before and you will be transformed into an expert picker-upper and seducer.

You Will Learn:

• Confidence-building techniques that will get you off the sidelines and have you scoring with women, night after night.
• Confidential interviews with nightclub women - They tell you exactly in their own words what it takes to pick them up and take them back to your place.
• Complete game plan for seducing women from "Hello" to romance.
• How to use mental telepathy to make women do anything you mentally command them to do.
• Step-by-step procedure on how to seduce a woman on the dance floor.
• Foolproof methods to get her to leave the nightclub and go to your apartment.
• How to recognize female body language that says she wants to be picked up.
• A method that will make women approach and pursue you in nightclubs that is guaranteed to work and never fail.

Now that's just a small sampling of what you'll find in this tells-all (27 chapters) free ebook on how to successfully meet, attract, and seduce women in nightclubs called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs." There's much, much more...

"How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" will teach you a whole new system for meeting and picking up women - a system that is so complete...and so absolutely foolproof...you'll soon be picking up women automatically!!!

Yes, this incredible ebook will heal all the negative images you have of yourself. After reading this book and applying the techniques, you will see yourself as a new person - not a guy that stands on the sidelines or an average Joe, but a charming, sexy, and desirable male - a guy truly deserving of lots of love and romance from all those hot & sexy women in nightclubs.

Christian Dating Should be Pursued

The Leap of Faith into Christian Singles Dating

For devout Christians, entering the dating scene can often be a confusing and sometimes unsettling experience. Let's face it, there are lots of things for the average dater to be concerned about when trying to find a suitable partner, but when it comes to Christian singles dating, matters can become even more complicated. Despite being interested in establishing a long-term relationship with another like minded person, some Christians are afraid to barely even dip their toes into the dating pool. For some, the fear that "it can be a jungle out there" is a concern that paralyzes them, but that too common fear is more than likely largely unfounded. While advances in technology such as online matchmaking services have made the dating experience more convenient and efficient for many people, when it comes to Christian singles dating, tradition cannot be overlooked as a factor in a single person's attitudes toward meeting other like minded singles.

It can be difficult to put aside religious convictions when venturing out into the dating world, but in fact it isn't at all necessary. For most devout Christians, finding a person of similar religious beliefs is important because so much of their makeup is based on the way they were raised or taught. A strong religious foundation more than likely comes with a strong family presence and influence, so Christian singles dating other singles will likely find themselves having to satisfy their own attraction as well as satisfying their family's expectations of who they choose in a mate. Of course, if dating another Christian single, those expectations are likely shared, or at the very least well understood.

Religious upbringing can be looked upon as both a positive and a negative when it comes to dating.

From the positive side, a person with a strong religious foundation is likely to be grounded and firm in how they approach the world and issues they face along the way. Their faith provides a strong base from which they've grown their values and morals. Christian singles dating programs certainly exist online as well as offline, and many single Christians choose to explore their dating options through the help of technology. However, many Christians still rely on the old traditional ways to meet other singles. That means their local church and church groups may be their primary way of meeting other Christian singles.

Conversely, those who are uncompromising in their Christian beliefs can, at times, be considered uncompromising or inflexible. That means that they may be considered too picky by some who don't understand just how important their religious beliefs are in establishing the person who they've become. In a nutshell, Christian singles dating options may be narrower than the general dating population, but that doesn't mean the quality of dating prospect is any less. In fact, Christian singles dating within their own set of beliefs may find that their relationships have a richness that others don't have the pleasure of experiencing.

Inital Stages of Conversation with Women

How to Approach Women

EARLY STAGE CONVERSATION

You have just met a girl. Now you would like to convince her to enter into a relationship with you -date you, go out with you, or whatever.

In the language of a salesman, you have a prospect. You have your foot in the door. Now you must do a job of selling to get her to accept you.

She might have some doubts, and fears for her safety. For all she knows, you are not a safe person to be with. You could be trying to entice her to go some place to assault her. You must win her trust and confidence.

You must also impress her enough that she will want to see more of you. You have gained her attention. Now you must hold it.

In the FIRST PHASE we said you should not be misled by the girl's reactions. Now, this changes. Many of your actions at this stage will depend on her response to earlier actions. Feedback now becomes very important.

How to Approach Women and What to Do

How to Approach Women

What you should do is to think your way through your body language moves the same way you think your way through your spoken approach. When you first approach the girl you should endeavor to look directly into her eyes and smile. Try to hold your gaze evenly and calmly while you talk. But you need not look directly into her eyes all the time. You can move your gaze towards other parts of her body and to surrounding objects. But always return your gaze back to her eyes. All eye movements should be careful and unhurried. In fact, all your movements should be deliberate, not jerky and nervous. Your speech should be calm and well paced. Try to act cool. Try to place your body mostly facing her squarely, with feet a little apart. You can shift weight on your feet occasionally (and change your footing) to relieve monotony. Consciously prevent yourself from keeping your hands together (except momentarily). Keep a distance just a little closer to her than feels normal, lean a little towards her.

All this may seem a little much to remember in full detail. But the main thing is to get the general idea: think confidence into your actions.

If you are able to discipline your body language in this way, your whole approach to the girl will seem right. You will know you are giving a convincing performance. Thus your confidence will be raised, and you will feel like you want to continue, even if the girl is showing signs of reluctance.

The example given was typical of a situation where the pick-up moves were commenced immediately on approaching the girl. But in situations where a more casual approach was made first, such as in waiting situations, the more positive body language should be delayed until you make your serious approach.

How to Pick Up Women Using Body Language

Body Language

Many people have a big problem with their body language, but they don't realize it since they don't even know body language exists. Their problem is that they send out false signals that contradict what they really want to say.

For example, a man is approaching a strange girl in public. She is very attractive and he would really like to get to know her. But he is very self-conscious. As he starts to speak to her, he feels insecure. He has decided what to say, so there is no problem there. But his feeling of insecurity causes him to show body language that is unsuitable. He stands a little sideways, with his hands clasped in front of him. He meets her gaze only fleetingly as he talks. He is smiling, but looks uncomfortable. He tends to talk a little quickly. He knows he is giving an unconvincing performance. He is telling her how much he would like to meet her, but he is acting like he wishes he were someplace else. In fact, if the girl gives him even a mild rejection, he will be inclined to accept it and retreat.

Of course, to give up that easily would be a mistake, since, as we have already mentioned, the girl would not be offended by his lack of confidence during his first approach, and some form of token resistance should be expected. So, if he continued with his approach he might still be successful. The real problem is with the man's confidence. If his feeling of insecurity remains, he may continue to act in an awkward fashion. Even if she agreed to walk with him, or dine with him, he might still go on acting like he felt out of place. This would definitely make a poor impression on the girl.

But there is a way out. He can discipline himself to display body language consistent with his desire to meet and impress the girl, and not with his feelings of insecurity. You see, he has mixed feelings and he is allowing the wrong feelings to dictate his body language. His feeling of insecurity is probably stronger than his desire to meet the girl, and if unchecked, it will prevail.

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How to Dress to Impress Women

How to Dress for Success with Women

Your location has much to do with your choice of clothes. Showy clothes, of course, are more acceptable at parties, singles bars and other places of entertainment. But they are not as acceptable in the street, parks, stores and general public areas. Also, in the Western and Southwestern states, men wear showy clothes more than in the East. Suitability of clothes according to surroundings is an obvious factor in a choice.

It is important that you should be well groomed when approaching a girl: shoes should be shined, you should be clean shaven (with neatly trimmed moustaches, etc.) and personally clean in every way. Be careful not to use a strong smelling aftershave or deodorant. Strong smelling perfumes are a real turn off. A fresh-scrubbed smell with a hint of soap is much better. Fingernails should be clean and trimmed. It is not easy to advise about hair. All hairstyles are fine, if they suit you. We can't say that hair should necessarily be combed and neat. Some like a tousled hair effect. Really, you can't make any rules about hair; individual tastes vary so much. Another attractive feature is to cultivate a suntan.

An extension of your clothes and grooming is your car. It helps you play your role. It can suggest wealth and quality, sporty flair, or a casual, practical personality. Your car should be as groomed as your person.

Perhaps the most important reason for being well dressed is the effect it has upon you. Certainly you are aware of how much better you feel when you are dressed up and kissin' fresh. Your confidence really soars. If you know you look sharp, your self-esteem is increased dramatically.

I have noticed that when I am well dressed, people definitely are friendlier and more receptive to me. Whether it is their favorable reaction to my appearance, or a reflection of my own confidence, I can't be sure. But the effect is very real, and a very important asset.

Nevertheless, you may sometimes find an opportunity to pick up a girl when you are in working clothes (and with some occupations you may get quite dirty). You should try anyway. Men are often quite successful in these situations. In fact sometimes the only opportunity you may get with a particular girl may be while working (or just after work). But we still feel that being well dressed and clean is an advantage; and you should strive for it if you have any choice in the matter.