This week I want to give you some valuable advice on not falling for the "Let's be Friends Crap."
If a girl breaks up with you and tells you, "I want us to be friends," don't take this literally. Don't think that she wants to spend time with you, do things with you, and be best friends that someday become lovers again. What she wants is for you to leave as a friend. In other words, she doesn't want you to hate her, but you being in her life at this time is going to cause her problems.
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What she is really saying is, "I don't want to hurt your feelings, and I don't want you to hate me, but I want you out of my life."
You're going to be frustrated when around her. Obviously, she is no longer enchanted with you, so she really isn't interested in being with you. Besides, you'll only be reminding her that she dumped you which will make her feel guilty and uncomfortable. Do both of you a favor. Be friendly.
If you play the "personals" I'm sure this has happen to you. You answer an ad of a single woman that sounds like the woman you have been searching for all your life for love and romance. You write her a real nice letter and enclose an attractive photo of yourself and you just can't wait to here back from her. And you wait...and you wait...and you wait. You're wondering, what in the hell is going on? Why haven't I heard back from her? Well, here's the top ten reasons you have not heard back from her:
1. The woman prefers to call the guys that responded to her ad rather than write. She got a lot of responses and you are on the bottom of the pile and she has not gotten around to calling you. Be patient, she just might call you.
2. She may be on a long vacation or perhaps travelling on the job. Hang in there!
3. She may be ill or perhaps had to have some surgery.
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4. A former boyfriend has come back into her life.
5. She is a chronic procrastinator. She may put you off for a long time or not even respond at all.
6. She's very busy with work, family, community activities, etc. and does not have much time to respond to ads.
7. She received just too many responses to her ad to handle and she only responds to the ones that hold the most promise and capture's her interest. Maybe you just go left out.
8. Before she got your letter, she met someone else she's interested in that she met through her ad.
9. They are in no hurry to answer replies and just have not gotten around to answering your letter. It's not a high priority in their life to answer replies.
10. They are just not interested in you. Don't worry about it, rejection is a part of life. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, as the saying goes.
In conclusion, when answering personal ads of single women, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Answer plenty of personal ads and don't pin all your hopes on just one woman.
I personally tried to avoid the old standard first date of going out to eat or going to a movie. Instead I took my date to a local comedy club. Why? Because, the comedians did the entertaining of my date for me. And laughing together makes for a very fun date. It puts both of you in a good mood too.
So, try a comedy club for a first date guys. I'm sure you will happy with the results and how good it makes your date feel.
Step by step I will guide you in the usage of successful body language using the following methods:
1. Develop a graceful, arrogant sort of walk. A walk that is free and easy with fluid movements. This kind of walk transmits a sexual message which will turn a woman's head.
2. When leaning against a wall or whatever, thrust your hips forward, with your legs apart. This position also transmits a sexual message.
3. While you are standing or especially when leaning and you are wearing pants or jeans, hook your thumbs in your belt just above your pockets and point your fingers down toward your crotch. Because of your fingers pointing toward your crotch area, this sends out a sexual message to a woman and you will be amazed at how many women pick up this signal.
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4. When talking to a woman, let your eyes linger on her throat and breasts. Also, while talking to her, wet your lips with your tongue. By using these two techniques, she usually will feel rather uneasy and excited, thus you will be in control.
In conclusion, try these methods of attracting attention from women and see if they work for you. They have worked successfully for a lot of men I know.
Remember, the more techniques you use to attract a woman the more women you're going to be meeting and that's the name of the game.
I need you to be aware of and be on the lookout for single women that will just use you for financial purposes. She's not interested in you, just what she can get out of you. I call these women Gold-Diggers and you need to avoid them.
This woman is only interested in taking you for your money and whatever else she can get out of you. Sure, you may get a few dates but it's only to eat at fancy restaurants, drive your fancy car, going on extravagant dates, out-of-town trips, to get nice gifts or money from you, etc.
She's just using you and stringing you along. After dishing out all this money and expenses, she may not even sleep with you either. It's all an act to tease you and use you. She may act like she's interested in you, but she's only interested in what she can get out of you. Look for these signs when you first meet this type. She will ask you questions like these:
What do you do for a living?
How much money do you make?
Do you own your own home?
What kind of car do you drive?
Do you have a boat?
What kind of watch are you wearing?
Questions like these could indicate that she's a Gold-Digger. If she finds out that you are not a man of financial means, she's not going to date you.
So, if you determine that a single woman that you are interested in is a Gold-Digger, move on to someone else. I don't know about you, but I hate being used by a woman for my money or a woman is just interested in my assets instead of me as a person.
Well, winter is upon us now and you know what that means don't you? It's time to crank up the fireplace to seduce women. A cozy fireplace with a roaring fire and soft romantic music in the background will just melt a woman's heart. Women get turned on by fireplaces. They think it is so romantic.
So, if you have a fireplace be sure to use this as one of your tools for seduction. Here are some suggestions:
1. Spread a blanket out in front of the fireplace and have a picnic.
2. Sip wine or champagne in front of the fireplace.
3. Give her a back massage in front of the fireplace.
4. Make out in front of the fireplace.
5. Watch a romantic movie together with the fireplace going. I would suggest renting, "Body Heat."
