Hi guys! Now, is the time to start getting your body in shape for the summer. You want to look your best when approaching women at the beach and at swimming pools. So, make a commitment now to exercise and eat healthy to tone your body.

Women are attracted to a man that other women find attractive. To understand this trait, one has only to look at what it says about a man when he is with a woman.

1. He must have things going for him or she wouldn't be with him.
2. He must know how to treat a woman.
3. He is going to be hard to get - a catch. After all, there is more than one woman vying for his time.

If a man is with another woman, or has a steady girlfriend, it makes him safe. He is not out on the prowl. Women love to flirt, to express their sensuality and to test their alluring abilities. But women want to be able to do this without being "hit on" or "come on" to. So who better to flirt with, and to feel comfortable with, than a man who is safe. Though most women will deny it, women are very competitive. They love to prove the superiority of their seductive abilities by being the one to catch the man that all the women want. Women love to show off their date when they know all of their friends are envious. The lure of competing for the popular guy is strong indeed.

Being seen with a woman is probably the single most important thing a man can do to help his image. It says that you have things going for you, that you know how to treat a woman, and that you are a catch and it states all of this without uttering a single word. But how does this help you if you don't already have a girlfriend or a date? Throughout the book, we will show you many ways to be seen with women and many ways to suggest that women find you attractive - even when you don't have a girlfriend.

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I can tell you that demanding a photo will dramatically decrease the number of responses that you will get. Some people will resent your preoccupation with physical appearances, others will not have a good photo to send. Some people are unwilling to part with the photos that they have. These are givens that you are just going to have to accept as the price you will pay for demanding a photo. But, if you don't want to risk going out with someone that you find unattractive, demand a photo. But be prepared to send them an accurate photo of yourself since they are probably just as concerned and preoccupied about how you look. It isn't fair to go out and buy a new wallet and send them the sample picture of the model that comes with the wallet either.

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I just wanted to pass along to you a great TV show to learn tips on how to succeed with women. The show is called, "Millionaire Matchmaker." It on the Bravo Channel on your cable. Check your listings to see when it plays. They have a lot of reruns of the show on the weekend. Good luck with the ladies (if you know what I mean)...Don

Listen up guys. I can't begin to tell you how important this tip is. After you have had sex with a woman you must call her the very next day (this is especially critical for a woman you have just met or very early in a relationship.)

So, what's the big deal? It's a very, very big deal to a woman giving her body to you. It's very special to her and she expects to hear from you the next day. If she doesn't she will feel used and that you don't have any respect for her. The bad thing about this is she may be so upset and angry towards you that she won't care to have intimate relations with you again and that's bad news for you.

You really need to call her the next day just out of respect, if for no other reason. There's an exception to the rule. That is if you really were just using her for sex and don't care to see her again. In other words, a one-night stand, which us guys are notorious for. Please guys, if it really was just a one-night stand, don't lead her on by misleading her into thinking that you care for her and want to start a relationship with her. Just don't call her at all.

So, what do you say when you call her the next day? Say something like this, "_____________(her name), I just called to tell you I really enjoyed making love to you last night and I want you to know that I think you are a very special lady." Just this simple sentence will make a good impression on her and make her feel special and that you care about her.

If you get her answering machine be sure thank her for an enjoyable evening and tell her that she is a special lady. Don't mention the making love part on her answering machine. Someone else may hear this message and it could be embarrassing to her.

In closing, guys please follow this advice. You will save a lot of broken hearts and make a lot of women happy. By not following my own advice in the past, I can't tell you how many times I would not call the next day and I would run into these women at the nightclubs I hung out at and when they saw me they would give me "go to hell" looks and be very cold towards me.

Here are some great places to take a date to really impress single women:

1. SPORTING EVENTS (PROFESSIONAL) -This is always a good option for a date, especially if your date is into sports.
2. SPORTS BARS -This is a lot better than sitting at home watching sports. It's an experience almost equal to being at the game, fight, etc. You have the excitement of the crowd pulling for the home team. Also, you can watch the games on big screen TV's. Also, the sports bars offer food and all kinds of drinks. Some even off free popcorn.
3. SQUARE DANCING -Do you know how to square dance? If not you can always learn and make a date of it.
4. STAR GAZING -Have you ever looked at the universe through a gigantic telescope at an observatory? Well this is an out-of-this-world experience you and your date will never forget. If there's an observatory in your area, check it out for a close-up view of the planets and stars.
5. STATE PARKS -Do you have any State Parks near you? If you do this is the perfect ideal place to go to enjoy the great outdoors. You can go for a daytime date or camp overnight.
6. SURFING -This can be a fun thing to share even if you don't know how to surf. Just buy a surfboard or rent one. Along the beachfronts you will find places where you can rent a surfboard. Even better, borrow one from a friend. What I like to do when I go on a surfing date is for both of us to get up on the board together and ride a wave. It's not that easy to do but lots of fun trying.
7. SWIMMING -Just invite her to go swimming at your apartment pool, public pool, a friend or relatives pool, or just go swimming at a lake, river, or ocean.
8. TATAMI ROOMS -These are private rooms at Japanese restaurants where diners sit on the floor for a very unique and romantic dining experience. Call your Japanese restaurants to see if they have these rooms available.
9. TATOOING -Have you ever heard of a tattoo date? Why not the both of you go to a tattoo parlor and get a tattoo together? If you're embarrassed by tattoos, you can always have one where it will be hidden by clothes.
10. TENNIS -This is a good way to have some fun and get some exercise. You can join a tennis club or just use a public tennis court. If you can afford it, join a private tennis club. They offer state of the art courts, lighted courts, pro shop, lessons, leagues & tournaments, fitness center, nursery, etc.

This week I want to share with you some great personal ads to use to attract single women like crazy and increase your responses to personal ads that you place in singles publications, on the net, newspapers, etc. Try these personal ads (just fill in the blanks for your personal data and the kind of single women you are looking for) guys and I'm sure you will be pleased with the results:

Handsome SWM, 40, slender Hare seeking cute little bunny 25-35, romantic and slender to share my carrots with. Let's hop all over town and have some good times and have a hare-raising experience. If you like to lay in clover and nibble, a plus.

Good Morning My Lovely. My name is Don. I'm a SWM, 6', with a muscular build. I have been told that I am very nice-looking, sensitive, communicate well, and fun to be with. I feel 35 (but I'm not). I also act as though I enjoy single life (but I don't). What I am is 45 and tired of playing games. What I want is to be able to find someone to share those experiences in life which are best when shared. It would be nice if you were as beautiful physically as you are emotionally. However, the important word is "sincerity" and a willingness to give 100% in a relationship (as I am). I hope that we can become friends, that you're a non-smoker, and that you'll be considerate enough to send a recent photo. In the meantime, smile, and remember: Happiness is something we do deserve.

Have Life Will Share - Have hands, will hold. Have arms, will cuddle. Have ears, will listen. Have mind, will communicate. Have imagination, will share. Have heart, will give. SWM, 40, slender, 6' 1", 200 lbs. In search of SWF, 25-35, slender, romantic and affectionate, who has as much to give.

'70 Coupe - Sports Sleek White Body. Comes with black flat top, looks great at 170, stands 5' 11" and loaded. One owner is non-smoking, degreed professional male. Seeking attractive female buyer, 25-35 who knows an exceptional deal. Lease/Purchase options available. Write for complete details.

Big-hearted Teddy Bear - DWM, 46, 6' 2", 240 lbs. Some of life's pleasures for me are cooking, working on cars, fishing, camping, traveling. I love holding hands, sending flowers, good music of all kinds, and long talks by the fireplace. I'm looking for that one special lady who shares my respect for honesty, openness, and the need for communication. A lot of good loving is being wasted here.