I've personally known two other guys who've done this and they're okay guys. And I don't think I'm all that bad myself. For example, how many "nerds" or "losers" do you know who practice karate, skydive, ride horses, and own their own businesses?
As for "desperate," well there have been times when I've been desperate for company, but I've had a number of lovers in my lifetime. I've even turned down women who wanted to be with me. I'm a little shy but I've usually done okay.
There are many reasons for a guy to use personal ads:
1. It may be that he can't meet single girls any other way.
2. But it may also be that he's really gorgeous and wants a chance to meet a woman who'll get to know him before finding out what he looks like.
3. It may be that he's shy.
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4. It may be that he has a busy career and has no other good way of meeting people.
5. It may be that he's got kids and doesn't have much chance to get out.
6. It may be that he has a hard time finding intelligent single women in his everyday life.
7. Or it may be that he's just trying something like this for the hell of it, just to see what happens.
Basically, there are many good reasons to use personal ads. There's nothing at all weird about a man using something like this. It's just one more way of meeting people, and a pretty good one if you do things right!
This article is reprinted by permission and is Copyright 1995 and 1996 by Dean Esmay.

Guys, try these pick up lines. They worked great for me:

“Come with me. I’d like to show you something.”

“Say, I’ve got a great idea. Why don’t we go out for a cup of coffee?”

“Weren’t you on the David Letterman show a couple of weeks ago?”

“I think you’re the light at the end of my tunnel.”

Bring your camera with you and when you see a pretty girl you’d like to meet try this: “I would like to take your picture.”

Let's talk about winners and losers in the game of love and succeeding with women.
Do you know what the difference is between the guys who are winners and losers? The guys who are winners with women do the things losers don't want to do to take action to meet, attract, and seduce women.
Guys who succeed with women don't just think about it, they take action to meet and attract women. They do what it takes! When they see a woman they are attracted to, they pull the trigger. They don't procrastinate, stall, ponder, or make excuses; they approach her right then and there. They don't put it off.
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Always remember that to have that woman you want, you have to do whatever it takes. Also, nothing in your love and sex life will change until you begin to do something about it.
The bottom line is that if you do nothing to meet women, you're going to be a very lonely and frustrated man. That woman of your dreams is not going to just drop out of the sky. You've got to pursue her!

I'm sure you can relate to this...I was moving heavy stuff out of the garage Saturday. I woke up at 5:20 a.m. this morning in excruciating pain in my lower back. I thought I was going to die...the pain was so intense...I took some ibuprofen, heating pad, and walking for ten minutes every 3 hours. Much better now and taking it easy.

Please follow these steps to make a favorable sexual impression with single women:

Have you got any sexual problems? If you do, be sure and discuss them with the woman you're with before you start making love. This way she is more inclined to be understanding and helpful if you tell her in advance to avoid any embarrassment.

In the early stages of a relationship, if you are going to be coming over to spend the night for some hot passionate sex, be sure and make arrangements with her in advance. Don't just show up at her door with your overnight bag without consulting with her first.

Here's the best way to awaken the object of your affection while she is asleep and you are in a horny mood wanting to make love: Just start stroking and kissing her skin very softly to awaken her. She may even think she is dreaming and will awaken in a passionate and sexy mood.

It's bad manners to light up a cigarette immediately after having sex.

When you are ready to make love to a single woman, always undress her first very seductively. Never, never take your clothes off first.

Always remove your jewelry before making love to a woman. They can have sharp edges and scratch her and cause discomfort.

When you make love to a single woman, always be clean-shaven. A course beard can cause discomfort to her skin and be a real turn-off. Don't be a "hit and run" lover.

After you have had sex, don't just hop out of bed and leave. Just lay there with her and cuddle, stroke, and kiss her tenderly. Tell her how good she was in bed.

And, my last bit of advice is the most important. Practice safe sex!

1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will give you some good topics for conversation.
2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women are attracted to men who can make them laugh.
3. Act like you are genuinely interested in what she is saying. Even to the point when you have to fake it. She will be impressed that you're such a good listener.
4. Don't act too serious. Act carefree and light-hearted and don't give a long and boring monologue about yourself.
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5. You will be judged on how you look and your behavior. So, wear your best-looking clothes and be immaculately groomed. And be on your very best behavior!
6. You may not think this is fair, but a lot of single women will judge you by the way that you tip. Always tip generously, especially on your first date. This will make a very favorable impression on her. If you leave a cheap tip or even worse, no tip at all, she will judge you as a cheap person. Also, if she has ever been a waitress, she will really look down on you for tipping cheaply or not at all. Waiters and waitresses depend heavily on good tips to make a decent living.
7. Revolve most of your conversation around her interests, hobbies, career, goals, vacations, etc. Forget about yourself and focus on her.
8. Act as if you've known her all of your life. This will make her feel comfortable around you. Also, it will make you feel comfortable and help eliminate any first date nervousness or anxiety on your part.
9. Be sure and bring your business card with you and give it to her at the end of the date. It will make her feel that she's important to you.
10. Maintain good eye contact throughout the date and wear a smile on your face. A good smile has a very seductive effect on single women.

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