The Card Method

                                                                               

How  many times  have you  been attracted to women, let's say in public places,  a  sales clerk,  a beautiful girl  alone in a restaurant, a hot & sexy lady getting  off an  airplane alone, a gorgeous babe standing in the checkout line?

Well I have  come up with  a get acquainted  card for  those occasions where you don't have much time or the place  is not appropriate  for getting acquainted. This  card breaks the ice and works like a charm. I've used  it  and  my male  friends  have used it very successfully to meet women.

Here's what  it says  and you  just take  this to your  printer and have  it printed on  a business card and  on  the  back  have your  name  and phone number printed. It reads:

I've  been  carrying  this  card  for a long time hoping to  meet someone like you.  Bars & pickup lines are  just not  my style,  so I  hope to meet you using this card. I'd really like to find out who you are and tell you exactly what it was  about you that attracted me. My  name &  phone number  are on  the back of this card. The  option of calling  will be yours,  but I'll really be sorry  if you don't  call. Let's spend  some time together. Please call and let me know who you are.

Self Esteem

You should be convinced that you really are an interesting person. There is an old sales axiom: You must believe in what you are selling. You must believe you can be attractive to a girl. Then you can go about convincing her. Don't think of yourself as a nobody. If you think that way, it will show, and the girl will think you are a nobody also.

Inexperienced men attempting to pick upgirls are their own harshest critics. They tend to downgrade their own efforts. They usually think they are doing much worse than they actually are. If you can realize that you are probably making a much better impression than you had thought, your confidence will be greatly improved. So think positively about your efforts; you will be closer to the truth, and a lot more confident.

The Book Method

What I'm about to describe to you is the best way in the world to attract women to you in bars and nightclubs. It's guaranteed to work and never fails! Women will literally flock all over you. You're probably saying to yourself, "That's a bunch of bull."

Let me explain the method. What you're going to be doing is reading in bars and nightclubs. Sounds crazy doesn't it? Now just place yourself in a woman's shoes and you see this man reading a book in a bar. Your curiosity is going to be killing you and you've just got to find out what he's reading and why in a bar. Get the picture now?

This is a highly successful method of attracting attention from women. Some women will even leave their dates to talk to you. You'll have a big edge on the other men because you're doing something unusual and different.

What should I be reading you ask? Well I'd recommend self-improvement, motivational and get rich books.

When you're asked why you're reading, you can go into detail about you wanting to improve yourself and you wanting to become financially independent. You tell them you're reading these books to motivate you and improve your life.

OK, now what to do when a woman approaches you:

Most likely she's going to say, "What are you reading?" or "Why are you reading in a bar?" Then you close your book and you say, "Why don't you sit down and let's talk about it." Explain why and then follow up on your conversational skills. After you've made contact and talked to her for awhile, invite her to dinner the following day.

If for some reason you get interrupted before you can ask her out, I would suggest saying, "Susan, this is very interesting, please call me tomorrow and we will discuss this further." Then give her a business card or personal card with your phone number on it. As a suggestion, you can use a folded business card and on the inside it reads, "I like you very much and I want to see you again! Please call me!

In the beginning you may find it difficult concentrating on reading with all the noise and commotion. With practice you can learn to block out the background noise. You will be interrupted frequently by people's curiosity but that's the main objective.

So why not give it a try. I guarantee you that It works like crazy!

Leading Up to the Proposal

Sometimes the girl may be a little slow to make up her mind about agreeing to your proposal. You may want to let her think about it for a while. One way is to suggest the private rendezvous at a time a few days hence, but don't require an answer until the next day. Allow at least 24 hours for her to consider the idea. A girl's romantic imagination will usually make the idea more attractive as she thinks more about it. You can arrange to phone her for her answer.

This is a good time to tell the girl you love her. But be careful not to say that unless it is true as it could cause future complications. A good alternative is to say, "I'm feeling very close to you right now," or "I just want to be near you," or anyone of a thousand other statements of affection.

Another smooth way to propose a sexual adventure is by oblique reference. You might say:

“You know! A lot of single couples are booking in as roommates for vacation weekends now. A buddy of mine and his girlfriend did it last weekend. It worked out great."

If she says, "Sounds cozy," or makes some approving remark, you have laid the groundwork for a similar proposal to her. You can surely think of plenty of variations on this theme. The idea, of course, is to describe another couple doing the things you want to do with her. Approval of their actions by her indicate that she is probably accepting the idea for the two of you.

1. On the first get-together, talk only about her - not yourself. By talking about her, you learn more about her which will be valuable to you in planning strategy. Also, it is a subject she will be comfortable with. By not talking about yourself, you let your image speak for itself. And don't forget, the less women know about you, the more women want to know about you. Be a man of mystery.

2. Finally, when you first get to know a girl, it would be better if she suspects that you are seeing other women as well as her. It makes you more attractive to her and she knows she will have to work hard to get you.

How do you suggest that there are other women in your life? Just doing all the things we suggested in this section will accomplish that: Playing hard to get; not rushing into sex; not calling every night; not always being available; and being unpredictable.

Let's discuss stage dancing.  This is where topless dancers dance for mostly $1.00 tips put in her "G-string."  They start out on the main stage and dance to a couple of songs.  The first song consists of a teaser act where she comes out on stage clothed in a sexy, sleazy outfit, dancing and prancing and flaunting herself to excite the horny men in the audience. 

Then, for the second song she comes out topless and wearing a G-string to dance.  Some of these girls are very talented dancers with a very well-choreographed routine.  Others just do the standard bump and grind routine.

The purpose of all this is to attract tips from the guys in the audience.  In case you have never given a tip to a dancer on stage, here's how you do it:  Just go up to the edge of the stage with a dollar bill folded longways.  She will see you and approach you.  Then she will dance in front of you and when she squats down, put the dollar bill in her G-string after she motions you to do so. Then she will thank you and kiss you lightly on your lips or cheek.

 

           
As a variable to make an impression on her try this:  Put a lottery ticket with your dollar.  Write on the back of it, "If you win call me at _______ and let's celebrate.  Even if you don't win lets meet for lunch or dinner.  Good luck!"  Then sign your name.
              
Who knows, she may be so impressed by your unique approach that she may actually call you.  Be sure when you give her the dollar bill, you tell her there's a lottery ticket with it!  This is very important so she will remember you.   

                                                

A word about paying for a dance.  Always pay cash if possible.  Why?  Because if you use your credit card, they usually charge you a processing fee of $5.  This is a rip off to me.  Also, you might want to offer her a barter deal for a dance. Offer to wash & wax her car, change her oil & filter, lottery tickets, jewelry, gift certificates, any services related to your business, etc.
           
Accept  this as something you have to put up with in topless clubs.  You will constantly be hustled for table dances!  Don't hold this against the topless dancers.  This is how the dancers really make good money.  So, if she's not doing dances she's not making any money.  They have bills to pay just like you and me and she will spend most of her night hustling men for dances. 
              
Always  remember  that you're under no obligation to buy a dance from her.  If she's really crazy about you, she will even dance for you free.  If this happens, you've got a real good shot at scoring with her.

Back to the dancers soliciting you for dances.  As you are sitting at your table you will be approached by dancers with their standard line of, "Would you like some company?"  If you say, "yes" right after she sits down, she will hit you up for a dance.  You can stall her with small talk after she joins you, but eventually and real soon she's going to ask you for a dance.

            
So, what do you do?  Always say, "I'd rather buy you a drink and get to know you better.  I know the ropes of your business, so if you need to go make some money, I understand.  Just come back and party with me after you make your money."  If she never comes back, you'll know she's not interested in you, because you won't buy a dance.