First Meeting

When you first meet a topless dancer, do these important steps to create a bond. Be the first to extend your hand during your initial greeting. While shaking hands, give her a warm friendly smile and say, "Hi, my name is _____." That's the best way to open the channels of communication between you and the dancer. She will be impressed by you shaking her hand also because most men don't. You are showing her respect and making her feel special. It shows that you're a warm & friendly person and it helps to lower her defenses. It creates an atmosphere of receptivity between you and the dancer.

When you shake hands, be sure your hand acts as your private diplomat. Use a firm grip to show strength and friendliness. A grip that's too hard seems aggressive. A grip that's too soft suggests that you're weak, retreating or indifferent. As soon as you feel her grip relax, break the handshake. If it's a very quick handshake it indicates an obligatory handshake. I'll bet you didn't think handshaking was such an art.

#1 - You can't allow yourself to become boring. You must dress and groom yourself. You have to deal with waitresses properly. You have to be busy and important. You should maintain a level of mystery about you. You have to continue to let her know you are found attractive by other women (Though certainly not by flirting or throwing it in her face).
 

#2 - Now more than ever, you are going to have to maintain control. You will have to control the relationship emotionally, as well as on a personal level. You have to be the energy of the relationship. You have to listen and perceive what her mood is and then perceive what activity would turn her on and excite her the most. Then suggest it before it has even occurred to her. Does this mean that you have to be able to read minds? No, that would be nice, but it does mean that you have to stay tuned in to her and her moods.

#3 - Don't be a boring slob. This sounds like an obvious tip, but you would be surprised how many men fall into this trap of letting a woman see them spend all of their time on the couch watching TV. Be active, exciting and doing things. Relate to her and what she is doing.

 

Don't Be a Victim of the Pregnancy Trap!  Some single women, and unfortunately you do not know which ones, use pregnancy as a way to trap you into marrying them. Or at least, you will be stuck with a child you never wanted or expected for the rest of your life. And you will pay up to your ears.  Men are so stupid that they do not make women responsible for their bodies and their pregnancies.  Listen, if they run the risk of getting pregnant they should not "spread your legs" around. And if they do get pregnant, they should not blame anybody else but themselves. After all, no guy could get in if these women kept their legs crossed and closed very tight.  Why should we men take care of women's bodies? Why is it that we men are the ones who have to wear condoms so they don't get pregnant? We men don't ever get pregnant. Women do. Therefore, women should both protect themselves and take full responsibilities for their pregnancies, unless a man and her woman decide willingly to have a child.

 Unfortunately, the laws are so distorted in women's favor that men don't have a chance. Notice also that when women want to get pregnant and are happy with their pregnancies, they say; "I am pregnant. I am so happy because I am going to have a baby." But when they want to nail you or the pregnancy was unplanned they say: "You got me pregnant." And listen to their mommies and daddies saying: "You got our daughter pregnant."  They never tell the honest truth that "Our daughter got pregnant because she was spreading her legs around." As if their daughter was this pure, innocent, virginal girl who just happened to be praying when unexpectedly, high from above, this blob of holy semen came down and impregnated her. And it was not her fault at all, poor thing.  Nonsense. Most likely, she was "sleeping around" without even taking "birth control" pills expecting, as all women do, that you protect her from getting pregnant. What a joke. Since condoms are not 100% failure-proof, I order and command you to always wear condoms in conjunction with spermicide and any additional contraceptive you can come up with. My good fellow, take all necessary precautions to:  Protect yourself from any Sexually Transmitted diseases, and Avoid the "Deadly Pregnancy Trap." The author of this article chose to remain anonymous.

 

 

The following is a guide to use in overcoming your shyness at nightclubs. Follow these steps and you can overcome your shyness and start meeting women instead of standing on the sidelines watching other men meet women at nightclubs.

1. One the biggest roadblocks to a shy man meeting women is fear. Fear that he will be rejected, fear that he won't know what to say, and fear that he won't know how to act.

Believe me, there is nothing to fear but fear itself. Fear and anxiety will produce distinct psychological consequences and if there's anything that's going to hinder your success in meeting women, it is going to be fear.

The fear of being rejected by a woman can paralyze your attempts to meet women. Accept the fact that you're going to get rejected some of the time. Just because you get rejected by a woman it does not make you worthless. There can be many different reasons why a woman may not be interested in you at a given moment. Most of these reasons have little or nothing to do with you as a person. Being rejected by a woman is just a risk you will have to take and if you do get rejected by a woman, it's certainly not the end of the world.

 

 

First of all, put yourself in a favorable position to meet topless dancers by following my guidelines in Chapter Two on the "hot spots" in topless clubs. Your main objective in meeting topless dancers is to not become a customer or let her treat you like a customer. You don't want to be someone that she just makes money off of. If you follow my advice in this book, you can become her lover and a friend and not just another customer she manipulates for money. That's what this book is all about and that is to give you an edge on meeting and picking up topless dancers.

Your game plan in meeting topless dancers is to establish a friendship and conversation. Get to know the girl first. And you must act different than the other guys that come in the club. Most men act like a bunch of horny animals around the dancers. They show the girls no respect, proposition them for sex, and treat them like whores. I can assure you the dancers are turned off by this behavior. They just put up with it because it's part of the job.

The word "relationship" encompasses everything from a marriage to a junior high steady. Even if we were able to narrow our scope to one type of relationship, the myriad of people, personalities and situations would make it impossible for us to write a fool proof formula on "maintaining a relationship." What we have done is compiled a list of hints and advice to help you keep a relationship strong, and we start the list with the most important hint of all: "Stay on your toes. Complacency has killed more relationships than any other sin."

Don't forget, she has fallen for you, but also she has fallen for an image she has of you. This image of you may have been formed because you were putting your best foot forward, or it may even be thru no fault of your own. It's common for people to want to see their partner in as good a light as possible in the early stages of a relationship, preferring to dwell on that person's attributes and ignore their shortcomings. In other words, she may have been hoping for Prince Charming, and you happened to walk into the room. Regardless of how she formed her image of you, she has one. And at the early stages of a relationship it is probably good. It now is your job to make sure that you maintain a good image in her eyes. We are certainly not advocating that you base a relationship on a facade. What we are saying is that you have to be infinitely aware of how a woman sees you, and what it is about you that have attracted her. Most importantly, as time goes on you must make sure that she does not become disenchanted because you have failed to present your best side.

Top Ten Tips For Writing Single Women Overseas  It's very important that you make your letter legible. Write or type very clearly. I would recommend that you type your letter and be sure and use your spell-checker feature.  Don't focus on just writing to one woman. Be sure and write to many single women. This increases the chances of finding the woman that's right for you.  Don't be concerned if you are not handsome. These women are more interested in what you are like on the inside. They value character, stability, honesty, and love of family much more than your looks.

 What should you say in your letters? To make the best impression focus on telling them about where you live and what it's like, your hopes and dreams, what you like to do for fun, your hobbies and interests, talk about your home or apartment, and most important of all ask about their family. Don't bore her about politics or any complicated theories and don't try to impress her with your knowledge and how intelligent you are.  Be sure and send her a recent and good quality picture. Send the best picture you have available. Tell her about your occupation and educational background. Don't try to impress her with your wealth and possessions. They are not as concerned about material wealth as some of the gold-diggers here in America. They will fall for you because you are kind and courteous and treat her like a lady rather than because you are rich.  Don't pass on beautiful single women that may be twenty years younger than you. They are not concerned about the age issue like here in America. They judge you by your heart and if you are a good person and not because you are a little older than her.  When you write her send her some address labels with your address on them. This is a nice gesture on your part.  Don't trust foreign post offices. Postal workers can be dishonest and screen letters for money. Send letters in duplicate to make sure the letter gets through and explain to her why you are sending duplicate letters. The best way to send letters is to send them Certified. It cost a little extra, but this way you know the letter will get to her.
Don't use real fancy envelopes or commemorative stamps. This just draws attention to your envelope and you don't want this because of dishonest postal workers that may open your letter to look for money. Use plain envelopes and stamps. Even better, have the post office run your letter through the postal meter.