If You're Really Going to Make It With a Woman, You'll Both Know It When You Meet and There Won't Be Any Problems

This is the man who is waiting for "love at first sight" to occur to initiate a relationship. Upon meeting a woman, if there are no vibrations or chemistry between them he simply dismis­ses the encounter. He uses this as a defensive excuse for initiating any intimate contact with women.

Waiting for "love at first sight" will prevent you from establishing real friendships with the opposite sex out of casual acquaintances. You don't have to be madly in love with a woman to show interest and to establish a friendly rapport.

Mate-Seekers

 This is my favorite type of topless dancer and the easiest to score with.  This is a topless dancer who is actively seeking a lover or boyfriend.  She's un-attached and looking for a meaningful relationship.  Maybe in the back of her mind she wants to settle down and get married and do something else for a living. 

 

Unfortunately, a topless club is not the best place in the world to look for a long-term relationship or marriage partner.  The men that frequent the topless bars can be pretty seedy characters and immature men.  Not to mention all the married men that frequent topless clubs.  Plus, topless clubs attract horny men just looking for some sex.  Of course there are some decent men who frequent topless clubs too.  But, they too may not have much respect for the dancers and think they are nothing but whores.

This type of dancer is highly desirable because she's very friendly and easy to make contact with.  You can make a very strong impression on her by making her feel special.  Treat her with respect and don't treat her like a piece of meat.  Gain her trust and treat her like a queen, and if she's attracted to you, you shouldn't have any problem getting her phone number or getting her to meet you for lunch or breakfast when she gets off work on the night shift.   Also, if you play your cards right she may even go home with you after she gets off work. P.S.  Upon meeting a topless dancer for the first time, be sure and ask her if she is single and unattached. If she says she's single and unattached, perhaps she's the mate-seeker type and this is very favorable for you.                                                            

OK, you understand what women want. You have tailored your image accordingly. You have chosen a woman. You have met her. You have dated her. You have romanced her. You have made love to her. And now you are in a relationship. Finally you can relax. Wrong!

Now the real work begins. Previously, you were in a situation where she saw you at your best. When you were meeting her and dating her, you made sure that your clothes were right, you were groomed and the mood was right. Your best foot was forward. She saw not you, but your best image. Now that the relationship has begun, you will be together more often and she is going to see more of the real you - your weaknesses, your insecurities, your bad habits, and if you are like most men, you may be in real trouble.

Now, more than ever, you are going to need imagination, spontaneity and leadership. You are going to have to continue to romance her. You must continue to be infinitely aware of the eight elements of what women really want and maintain your image accordingly. You are going to have to make sure that she does not become disenchanted with what she has. And don't forget - people are more apt to become disenchanted with what they have, than with what they don't have.

How to Seduce Single Women With Candles, Incense, and Fireplaces  This week I will focus on how to make your apartment or house more romantic for seducing single women. All you need are three simple things:

1. scented candles
2. incense
3. firewood or artificial logs
These powerful aphrodisiacs really turn single women on and put them in a romantic mood for seduction.

 You will need to go to the store and buy an assortment of scented candles and incense. Then when you have the women over at your place, get her opinion on which scent she likes before you light the candles and incense.  After she has made her selection light them up and the erotic and stimulating scents will fill the air. Now, all you have to do is dim the lights, put a log in the fireplace, and put on some romantic music ( I highly recommend using one of our Seduction Tapes).  With this romantic atmosphere you should be irresistible to women.
And don't make the mistake of thinking candles and incense are for sissies. Women are very attracted to these romantic gestures and the bottom line is preparing single women for your advances.

If  a  Woman  Doesn't  Show  She  Likes Me Right Away, She Really Doesn't Like Me and Will Never Like Me

This is  an unproductive belief that  a woman, upon first meeting her, must show complete interest  in you by verbal and non-verbal communication.

This is a  perfect example of this misconception. You ask a woman to dance and she  readily accepts. After the dance is over she accepts another mans invitation to dance. You get all  upset and you say to yourself, "If  she  was  really  interested  in me, she would have found some excuse not to dance with that guy when he asked her."

What  this  guy  doesn't  know  is  that  in the majority of cases like this, is that  when interest is not immediately  shown to the other, this doesn't mean that the possibility of liking you may not be there.

So, don't give up on a woman if  she accepts another guys invitation to dance. Just keep on pursuing her.

In conclusion, a lot of times a woman will not show her interest  in  you  following  a  brief initial  meeting.   Prolonged communica­tion  and conversation  are  necessary before she can feel comfort­able in showing her interest in you.

Irresponsible Topless Dancers

If you hang out in topless clubs and try to pick up topless dancers, this is the type you will most likely date. They will frustrate and disappoint you. 

                                                      
I'm not saying you have to accept it, but if you want to date these girls you're going to have to tolerate it.  What I'm trying to say is topless dancers are some of the most irresponsible and undependable women you will ever meet in your life.

           
This has happen to me many times in my encounter with topless dancers.  You give them your phone number and they never call or they forget to call.  She gives you her phone number, but you can never get a hold of her.  She says she will meet you for lunch, but never shows up.  She says she will meet you after she gets off work to go party, but disappears.  She makes plans with you, but constantly cancels the date.  So, what's a guy to do with all these frustrations and disappointments?  There's not much you can do.  It's their nature.  Just be patient and don't take her irresponsible nature to seriously.  Accept the fact that most topless dancers aren't very dependable.
          
Too much alcohol, drugs, and partying can take its toll on a dancer mentally and make her irresponsible.  This can certainly explain why some of these girls act like bimbos and airheads.  The body and mind can only take so much abuse.

Sex is a very powerful aspect of relationships. This is not to say sex is the total element of a relationship, but we are saying that it plays a larger role than people like to admit. Women, just like men, will want to meet someone or start a relationship with someone if they find that person sexually attractive. And, as the relationship continues, good sex is often the strongest glue that holds the two people together.

If it were possible to take an objective survey, we wouldn't be surprised if the results concluded that many break-ups today stem from sexual dissatisfaction or sexual boredom, and that partners leave the relationship because they are looking for something better. More specifically, exciting sexual experiences. Women are leaving relationships because of this more so today than ever before.

And what does all of this mean? What is the point of this chapter all boiled down to one sentence?

If you want to be successful with a woman, you'd better know how to keep her sexually satisfied.

 

This article is from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."