Reading A Single Woman's Sexy Signals It takes two to tango. If you're a shy guy, learn how to read a single woman's seductive signals before you ask her to dance. Remember, shy can be very sexy! Here are the top ten flirting gestures, body language, and actions that let you know a single woman is interested in you: 1) Eyebrow flash: She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of seconds, followed by a rapid lowering to the normal position. The flash is often combined with a smile and some eye contact. 2) Lip lick: Very common. Some women use only a single-lip lick, wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue around the entire lip area. 3) Short darting glances: Usually occurs in sets, with an average of three glances each.
Misconceived Beliefs
of Shy Men
If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and She Ignores Me, It's Because
I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.
This
irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces
low self-esteem when they are
rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned
down prevents shy men from making contact with women.
If you're turned
down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or
not good enough for her. She just may
not feel like dancing at the moment. She may just be tired. She may not even
dance. There can be a number of reasons.
So don't take it personally. However,
what to do in a case like this is to ask her, "Would you
like to dance later?" If she says yes,
just ask her again later. Even
better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for some conversation?"
In the mean time just ask other women to
dance. Also, I might
add, a lot of guys get turned down
to dance, so
don't feel that you're the only
man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even real
good-looking men.
If you
approach a woman
and try to start up a con- sation
and she
ignores you, don't
take that personally either. She
just may not feel like talking
or being
bothered. Perhaps she's
tied down to a boyfriend
or even married. Also, you just
might not be using the proper social
skills. So if she ignores you, move on to the next woman and you'll find someone who will respond to
your advances.
Dating Playboy Centerfold Type of Topless Dancer
Saturday, July 30, 2016 | Picking Up Topless Dancers | 0 comments »Centerfolds
These are the topless dancers right out of
the pages of Playboy that you would die for and the kind of bodies men drool
over. I'm sure when you look at these
girls you have all kinds of fantasies and your hormones are raging out of
control. Can you score with these
dancers? Yes. Will it be easy? No.
You're going to have to have something these dancers want and need. And what can that be? Material things, money, gifts, trips,
something to further her career, cars, pay her rent, etc.
Will
she date you if you have a lot of charm, good personality, and good looks or
average looks, but not a man of financial means or material things to
offer? Well, maybe. The main thing is to give it your best effort
to get a date with these centerfolds. So
what if you get rejected. It's not the
end of the world. Just move on to the
next beautiful playmate. Just look at it
as a numbers game. The more times you
come to bat, the more chances you have to hit a home run.
TIP #1 - Flowers and
small gifts, candlelight dinners, and romantic notes and cards are all great
touches. Small in time and money it takes, but large in their effect. It is
important that all of these are out-of-the blue and a surprise to her.
FOR EXAMPLE: Sneak over to
her house and leave flowers and a note at her door. Again, use these romantic
touches, but do so sparingly so that you don't come on too strong.
TIP #2 - Use
imagination for your meetings - not just the same old date. Go for walks in the
rain. Have picnics in the park. Go to showings of old classic movies.
TIP #3 - The easiest
way to impress a girl is not with talk of your athletic prowess, financial
wizardry, or social stature, but rather a simple compliment like, "You are
dressed beautifully tonight." Make sure that you say it at the right time
so that it doesn't look like you are just trying to give her a line.
Should You Have Sex Early in a Relationship?
Thursday, July 14, 2016 | Seduction Tips | 0 comments »
Becoming physically intimate too soon can be fatal to a relationship. It can shatter the slowly developing friendship and trust between the two of you. It magnifies and distorts feelings, clouds judgment, and superimposes cruel reality on hopes and dreams ("Is that all there is?"). It narrows options and introduces tensions and pressures into what was a joyous and carefree acquaintanceship. It damns you for lack of respect for the woman, and for lack of discipline on your part. It is begging for trouble.
Getting to know a woman, "touching" her is critically important in a relationship. Physical contact at the wrong time can intrude, hinder real understanding, block communication.
You can learn more about each other by joining your voices in song, by becoming one in music and lyrics and poetry, than by sleeping together. You can get a deeper sense of communion by sharing a meal than by sharing a bed. Just holding hands or a gentle kiss can easily be more explosively effective in linking the two of you than having sex.
Physical intimacy implies commitment, responsibility, a sense of permanence. It is a promise. The two of you should be fully committed to each other before you seal the bond with lovemaking. Sex should never be undertaken lightly, without a full understanding of its implications...and consequences.
Getting to know a woman, "touching" her is critically important in a relationship. Physical contact at the wrong time can intrude, hinder real understanding, block communication.
You can learn more about each other by joining your voices in song, by becoming one in music and lyrics and poetry, than by sleeping together. You can get a deeper sense of communion by sharing a meal than by sharing a bed. Just holding hands or a gentle kiss can easily be more explosively effective in linking the two of you than having sex.
Physical intimacy implies commitment, responsibility, a sense of permanence. It is a promise. The two of you should be fully committed to each other before you seal the bond with lovemaking. Sex should never be undertaken lightly, without a full understanding of its implications...and consequences.
For Shy Men Only
What is
shyness? Webster's defines shyness as being "uncomfortable
in the presence of others." For the shy man
this refers to being
uncomfortable in the presence of the opposite sex.
Shyness can be
a crippling mental handicap and
it's consequences can be devastating in the following ways:
1. Shyness breeds negative feelings like anxiety, depression,
and loneliness.
2. It encourages you to think too much about yourself and to be over-preoccupied with your
own reactions.
3. It will limit you in
voicing your own opinions and values and speaking up for yourself.
4. Shyness hinders
your thinking and
ability to communicate
effectively.
5. It has an unfavorable bearing on how others will evaluate
your personality.
6. Shyness makes it more difficult for you to meet new people,
make friends, or enjoy potentially good times. Thank goodness, shyness can be
cured and overcome!
As an
example of shyness, at every nightclub
you will find the shy man. You'll see
him just standing around all night, being afraid to approach a woman and start up a conversation or even to
ask a woman to dance. So what happens?
They get frustrated and leave the club.
They keep coming to the nightclubs and repeat the same routine.
They stand around wishing they could meet someone, get frustrated, and then go
home frustrated and depressed.
You can overcome your shyness and you "must" if you're going to
nightclubs, etc. This kind
of social setting can be most threatening and anxiety-provoking
if you are a shy man. This kind of setting will only aggravate your shyness
condition if you don't take the appropriate steps to overcome your shyness.
In
order for you to promote this change yourself, first you must believe that change
is possible. You must really want
to overcome your shyness condition. Last, you must be willing to commit time
and energy to take action and to risk
some temporary failures in
initiating change procedures that can lead to long-term success.
To sum it
up you can change if you believe
you can but it takes work...hard work.
How to Date Party Animal Topless Dancers
Tuesday, June 28, 2016 | Picking Up Topless Dancers | 0 comments »
This topless dancer really likes to party, drinks heavily and loves to get high on drugs. Is this good for you? It can be to your advantage because of her
being a free spirit she may go party with you after she gets off work. She's not likely to just party with any
guy. She's got to be attracted to you
and feel safe with you.
If all you do all night is make
sexual advances towards her, it's unlikely she will go party with you. These girls are just like any other normal
girl in that they don't want to be used for se
So many men get the wrong impression
about topless dancers. They think that
just because she takes her clothes off in front of men that she will be an easy
lay. Nothing could be further from the
truth. I know their occupation is
considered sleazy, but the girls do have their dignity.
The party animal is one of the most
fun to be with. She's very open-minded
and very friendly. Your chances of
getting a date with this type of dancer is more favorable too. If you do date her, don't be the possessive
and jealous type. She may date a lot of
men, being that she's loose and carefree and loves to party. You're going to have a problem with this if
you're the jealous type, so be forewarned!
If you determine that she's the party animal type, this should be your
strategy: Buy her drinks and get her loaded.
She will be more receptive to your advances. If she's loaded enough she may even give you
free table dances. If not, perhaps you
could negotiate a buy one get one free offer.
TIP- If she's loaded, always ask her to show you her bush while she's dancing. Being that she's drunk, she just may do it for you. When a dancer is loaded she may do things she would not normally do. Always remember this and use it to your advantage.
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