Making Dreams Come True about Women

Dreams of Finding Love

Here's some food for thought: So, guys what are your current dreams and desires for finding a girlfriend for love and romance? Maybe you've had this same dream and goal in the past and things did not work out like you had planned. So, maybe you just threw in the towel and put that dream on hold.

We all have had setbacks and failures in the romance department. It's all a part of the dating game until you find the right person for you.

Take this perspective - Today is a new day. I challenge you to dig deep and revive that dream of finding someone special. So what if your old dream of finding someone died. Well, just dream another dream. Don't just settle for being lonely and not having someone to love.

Dare to believe someone new is coming into your life soon.

Cheating Before and After Marriage

Marriage Infidelity Tips To Help You Save Your Marriage Before And After

Marriage infidelity is often the biggest reason that marriages end. Truth is, there have probably been problems in the marriage long before an affair occurred, but often the affair can turn out to be the breaking point. The key then is to deal with problems within the marriage as they arise and not leave them to the point where an affair happens.

To avoid marriage infidelity make sure that you and your spouse deal with any situation that is causing ructions within the marriage. The worst possible thing that many couples do is to ignore what is staring them in the face. Hiding from your problems will only make them fester and grow, get in there and tackle what is wrong head on!

Because the truth is that the affair is usually a symptom of marital problems. If there was emotional distance between you and your spouse, then within that distance there is the chance for an affair to begin. Sit down with your spouse and discuss how you feel. If you genuinely feel that your marriage is not how it should be then you have to be upfront and honest.

If you believe that you need to spend more time with your spouse then say so. Schedules need to be looked at and plans need to be made for when the two of you can spend some quality time together. Spending time together is a classic way to defeat distance in a relationship.

Another classic reason for marriage infidelity is money! Financial problems are without a doubt common reasons that people look for what they need outside of marriage. If you are struggling under the weight of trying to make ends meet financially, of coping with debt, or you're worried about your job security, then again you have to talk to your spouse. Trying to cope with this on your own will only make things more difficult. Looking outside your marriage for comfort from a third person will only hurt your marriage.

If you've got to a point where marriage infidelity is already a reality and you want to save your marriage, then you will then have to put out some fires and put them up pretty quickly. First of all end the relationship with the third person. Make sure that your spouse knows that you have ended it. Apologize for your mistake and explain to your spouse why you think you made the mistake. Any reasonable person can, IN TIME, forgive. What will erode forgiveness over time is lie after lie and betrayal after betrayal. So clearly and honestly explain your mistake, detail to your spouse what you are doing to prevent making that mistake again and live up to your promise!

How to Handle Being Rejected by Women

How to Handle Rejection

Understanding and handling rejection is the key to the whole subject of confidence. If you knew you would never be rejected, your confidence would be supreme. And if you had such wonderful confidence, you would, in turn, tend not to be rejected. Success feeds on success. This is the theory behind positive thinking, and there is much merit in it.

But there is a great flaw in the theory as applied to picking up girls. The flaw is that you will get rejections, no matter how good you are. As we have already mentioned, half the girls you approach may not even be available. Others just may not be impressed by your type of person. Tastes do vary and you can't change that. So, you will get rejections, plenty of them. You have to get used to the idea.

But remember, don't take rejections easily; they may not be real. Be persistent.

Sometimes you will be rejected after you have talked to a girl for a long time, even hours or days after you meet her. What should you do about rejection? You should take the salesman's approach. He knows that if he tries to sell to a number of prospects, a certain percentage will buy, and the rest will reject his sales pitch. So he takes the rejections cheerfully and enjoys his profits. The rejections are a little unpleasant, of course. But he was expecting them and after a few rejections, he gets used to them. Desensitized. The profit was well worth the slight unpleasantness. He shrugs each rejection off and moves on to the next prospect.

You should take the same attitude. You should not fear your rejections, particularly if the rejections were not because of any fault of yours. It is really not such a big deal. You should not place so high a value on your ego that you can't accept a few reverses. You are simply playing a game of chance and you lose a few plays. Just hang in there and keep trying.

How to Communicate with Women Using Email

Internet Dating Advice - Communicating By Email

Men, internet dating advice isn't hard to come by. Whether you're just getting started in the modern online dating scene or you want to brush up some rusty skills, here are some tips that can help you out.

Your main way of interacting on the internet will be through email. For those of you who aren't used to relating this way, you need to realize that much more thought and effort needs to be put into and email than say a phone conversation, for example. This is because what is read on the other end could be interpreted completely differently than what you intended.

So make sure you are clear and consise, not confusing. Also, when corresponding by email, don't go on and on and on about yourself and your life story. This is a big turn-off.

Instead, keep your emails short and ask her a lot of questions about herself. If she asks you a question, answer it briefly. The truth of the matter is, women want to do all of the talking (writing). And they want you to do the listening (reading).

A good rule of thumb is to keep all your e-mail replies less than three sentences long. Use the first two sentences to answer a question and the last sentence to ask her a question. If she hasn't asked you anything, just write a one-line question. Asking questions keeps your discussion going and shows her that you are thoughtful and interested.

Also, don't send too many email messages or instant messages. This only shows a woman that you have nothing better to do and makes you appear needy.

Another important rule to keep in mind is to stay away from any sex talk. . .unless she brings it up. And even then, don't go overboard. She may be testing you so feel out the situation before responding.

And perhaps the hardest men internet dating advice to follow is don't lie to impress a woman. It's tempting at first because you don't know these women and they aren't sitting right in front of you. That makes it extremely easy to beef yourself up a little bit. But what if you end up really liking a woman that you've been dating for a while and you'd like to get serious with her? Those lies will eventually catch up with you.

Finally, try not to get involved with too many women at one time. Although that situation may seem ideal to you now, it may backfire. You'll end up mixing up conversations, calling women by the wrong name and generally just gaining a bad reputation. So, when you do get a lot of replies to your personal ad, be very choosy about who you answer back.

Hopefully this men internet dating advice about how to communicate by email will help you in your online dating endeavors.

How to Date Older Women

Older Women Dating Younger Men

Do you have any idea how many older women dating younger men there are? An AARP survey showed that one-third of women over the age of 40 are dating a man younger than she is. This trend of older women dating younger men is growing and if you find yourself in such a relationship, you’re not alone.

Older women who date younger men have collectively become known as “cougars.” The trend may be a result of the divorce rates in American families.

If a 50 year old woman gets a divorce after 25 years of marriage, she’s unlikely to rush into the arms of a still older man. She may want to sow her oats with a sexy younger guy.

Because she is not considering having children with the new man, his age may be unimportant. Further, women are likely to have stronger sexual needs at this point in their lives than their male counterparts. A younger man fits the bill.

Younger men, on the other hand, may find that the confidence an older woman brings to the bedroom to be quite sexy. Used to always having to take the lead, younger men can have their sexual needs indulged.

Younger men may also like the fact that successful career women do not expect them to be the primary breadwinner in the relationship. This gives the younger man time and space to finish graduate school, become a concert pianist, or start a business.

One of the problems in older women dating younger men relationships is that the men may feel a need to father children at some point. Because the woman is probably not able to bear children at this point in her life, the man may start to look elsewhere if he wants a family of his own.

Still, celebrities like Demi Moore and Susan Serandon have shown that older women can successfully pull off relationships with younger men.

What is some advice for younger men who find themselves in love with an older woman?

1.) Date an older woman for the right reasons. The age of your date should be the least important thing about her. You should look for shared interests and values.

2.) Understand that there is a generational difference. You have to balance “being yourself” with her expectations of how a gentleman behaves.

3.) Appreciate her career. Too many men her own age have rigid stereotypes about a woman’s place in the workplace hierarchy. But if your cougar has achieved a significant leadership position in her job, be supportive. She’ll love you for it.

There is a growing trend of older women dating younger men. If you are part of the wave, enjoy the many opportunities you have to find the woman of your dreams.

Are You Doing Something Wrong with Women

Fear of Doing Something Wrong with Women

You Are Not Doing Anything Wrong

The biggest hang-up men have when they consider picking up a girl is that they are doing something wrong, and they feel guilty about it. Get that idea out of your head right away. It is not wrong. When was the last time you heard of someone being arrested for simply talking, in a friendly way, to a girl? Most of our feelings of guilt are built up in our own minds and are out of all proportion with reality.

If you still feel it is wrong, consider the positions reversed. Change places with the girl. Imagine you are walking along and an attractive girl stops and talks to you. Would you be offended? Of course not. Then, she should not be either.

You might try an approach to a girl while thinking of the reversed positions, and remember to act quite casually, as if you had every right to talk to her -because you really have. Most girls will talk right back to you. A few might be self-conscious and uncomfortable. Some may even be un- friendly or uninterested because they are already committed elsewhere. But none should be offended. Quite the contrary, they should be flattered by the attention; even if some of them don't show it.

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How to Talk to Women About Getting Intimate

Coversations for Intimacy

When a man verbally makes a suggestion of sexual activity to a girl, it is usually preferred that it not be too explicit. Years ago it was fashionable for a man to invite a girl to come to his place to see his etchings, or to see his new wallpaper , or a special painting. When the girl accepted the invitation, the real plan was obvious, but this little pretense made the whole thing sound more respectable.

Today you can invite a girl to "sip a nice wine, while you put something relaxing on the stereo." Or you can ask her to "come and join me for a candlelight supper." Other simple invitations are to "come over to my place for a while" or to "stop in for coffee." Or even to "see my water bed."

If you take a girl home (to her place) you may ask if you can come in for a drink, or she may invite you in herself. Her hospitality does not necessarily signify her sexual willingness, but if she agrees to show you her bedroom you can feel fairly sure you've reached home base.

Another approach might be to ask, "What do you say we go somewhere now, I mean somewhere private?" If she agrees, you could check into a motel or find any other suitable place.

If you invite her to "go away" with you for a weekend (or overnight), and she accepts, it is a fair assumption she is accepting your invitation as a sexual proposal, unless she plainly insists on separate rooms. Even that arrangement, however, might be negotiable later.

Online Dating Defined

All About Online Dating

Online Dating

Online dating is becoming more popular everyday. There are more and more people that are turning to the online world for their dating and relationship needs. Some people simply do not have time to go on dates or to try to meet people. Others have social phobias or they are shy and have a hard time approaching people. Then, there are people that have had bad luck with the dating scene and have given up on finding happiness within the dating world. They do not think that they are meant to be happy or find the person that they are meant to be with. In all actuality, the reasons for people to turn to online dating are as varied as the daters themselves.

Online dating is not a very new concept. There have been dating sites on the internet for quite some time now. But, recently these sites have started gaining more popularity and have been advertised more. This is due to the fact that more people are utilizing these sites now days. They have realized the potential that exists in the online world and they are harnessing that power and using it for their own good. For some people, it is simply a matter of convenience.

You have the ability to input your information about yourself. You take personality quizzes and fill out your profile information. Then, the site compares your results with other people and works to find the matches that are best suited to your particular personality and lifestyle. You do not have to go on many different dates and find that you are just not compatible with the people you are dating or do not have any common interests. You are not wasting your time or the time of others. You are matched with people that fit you. You are much more likely to have a meaningful date and possibly work toward a relationship if you are compatible with your partner.

There are some potential risks or downfalls with online dating. You do not truly know the person that you are setting up a date with. They could seem to be a wonderful person and then you meet them and there are issues with your safety. There are also some people that are very misleading in their profiles and information. They may post false pictures of themselves. You get an idea of the person that you will be meeting and going on a date with and then when you get there, you find out that they are a completely different person. It is much easier to hide your identity online. You are able to mislead people and to hide who you truly are. You can get away with pretending to be someone you are not. One of the greatest appeals of the internet is the ability to alter who you are and make yourself the person that you desire to be.

All in all, internet dating is a positive thing. There are wonderful people waiting to meet others who are compatible with them. They want to find love and happiness. For many of these people the internet is the doorway to a new world and new relationships.

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How to Express Yourself Sexually to Women

Expressing Yourself Sexually

Here are a few of the sexy expressions you can toss into the conversation to liven it up. Mostly they should be used when telling stories and kidding around.

Hot and heavy, stripped for action, hot little hand, kiss her 'til her toes curl, kissed from head to toe, shacked up, stripped and ready, hot to trot, charm the pants off, ready for the sack, hot and bothered, all worked up, magic fingers, touch the spot, bare assed naked, hot little number, got a chest that won't quit, the most fun I've had with my clothes on.

These of course are only typical examples. There are many others you can think of. The use of expressions like these can be compared to the use of spices in cooking. It makes the end result more exciting and colorful. But, as with spices, don't overdo it. In any case you don't have to talk that way at all if you don't want to. Nevertheless, outrageous speech and behavior are effective attention getters, and they probably will not offend a girl so much as you might expect. And they do produce excitement, which is a very desirable result. You may want to experiment in this area.

5 Top Sexy Topics to Talk to Women About

5 Great Sexy Topics of Conversation

Nude photography. Most women secretly would like to pose for nude pictures, photographs or paintings. How does she feel about the idea? Discuss the erotic effects of a nude girl wearing only a neckband or other single item such as a belt, a waist chain, high-heeled shoes, a large bracelet, a hat, or other accessories. The subject of women photographing nude men is also quite provocative.

Escort services. You might speculate and discuss how some escort services are really genuine services providing attractive partners strictly for company and prestige, while others are a front for prostitution. Interesting situations must develop between girls in the legitimate services and their customers. The whole idea of people using their money to buy other's time (for personal company) is an interesting subject.

Skinny Dipping. Has she ever done it? It is such fun and such a thrill. Also underwater petting, Jacuzzis, hot tubs and saunas.

Wet Tee Shirt competitions and girls' mud wrestling. These crazy sex-oriented shows take place in some parts of the country and can be discussed. Also in some seashore resorts they have girls' erotic banana eating contests with prizes for the most suggestive performances by girls while eating a banana. These are really wild, and a good subject for a fun discussion.

Striptease. Has she ever been to one, with either female or male strippers? They are a lot of fun. They really get the old blood pumping.

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What to do When You Buy Table Dances from Strippers

Accept this as something you have to put up with in topless clubs. You will constantly be hustled for table dances! Don't hold this against the dancers. This is how the dancers really make good money. So, if she's not doing dances she's not making any money. They have bills to pay just like you and me and she will spend most of her night hustling men for dances.

Always remember that you're under no obligation to buy a dance from her. If she's really crazy about you, she will even dance for you free. If this happens, you've got a real good shot at scoring with her.

Back to the dancers soliciting you for dances. As you are sitting at your table you will be approached by dancers with their standard line of, "Would you like some company?" If you say, "yes" right after she sits down, she will hit you up for a dance. You can stall her with small talk after she joins you, but eventually and real soon she's going to ask you for a dance.

So, what do you do? Always say, "I'd rather buy you a drink and get to know you better. I know the ropes of your business, so if you need to go make some money, I understand. Just come back and party with me after you make your money." If she never comes back, you'll know she's not interested in you, because you won't buy a dance.

Topless Dancer Table Dances

What to do When You Buy Table Dances from Strippers

I don't know about you, but if I'm going to be dishing out $20 for a stripper to turn me on, I want to get my money's worth. OK, let's say that you have bought a table dance. What do you do during her dance routine? Well, for starters whatever you do, don't try to grab her or fondle her. She may tell the bouncer and he will throw your ass out of the club. Before the dance begins, a lot of the topless dancers will remind you not to touch them.

During the dance, just relax and act like she's driving you up the wall. Smile at her seductively, lick your lips, make a lot of eye contact, wink at her, lift your eyebrows in approval, make noises like "Umn," and "Wow," etc. Tell her, "You're so sexy," or "OK, I like that." Focus your eyes on her body like it's the most sexy and beautiful body you've ever seen in your life. When it's over, put the money in her G-string. Observe her reactions to you while she's dancing. Is she focused on you and showing interest in you? Does she look you in the eye? Or does she appear to be not interested in you, not having fun and looking around the club while performing? These can be bad signs for you and you're not going to get anywhere with her. You're just a customer to her and nothing more.

A word about paying for a table dance. Always pay cash if possible. Why? Because if you use your credit card, they usually charge you a processing fee of $5. This is a rip off to me. Also, you might want to offer her a barter deal for a dance. Offer to wash & wax her car, change her oil & filter, lottery tickets, jewelry, gift certificates, any services related to your business, etc.

Break Up Survival Guide

Steps For Surviving A Break Up

Surviving a break up is a painful experience. You may feel rejected. You may be doubting your own self worth. You may not feel like getting out of bed in the morning. One thing that may help you is to know that most people have already gone about the process of surviving a break up and have come out stronger for it.

Here are some of the steps for surviving a break up.

First of all, allow yourself to mourn the end of the relationship. Your ex was almost like an appendage to you. You identified him or her as a part of you. You were two halves of a couple. Just as you would be lost if your right arm was cut off, losing a significant other can be painful.

So, spend some time grieving for the relationship’s end. It can actually be a healthy thing to do.

But at some point (hopefully soon), you have to move on. You will need to go through a process of being angry at your ex. He or she hurt you and you have every right to feel mad at them.

Here’s a tip for surviving a break up in the anger stage. Write a long letter to your ex spilling out your guts about how you feel. Put every emotion, experience, and feeling into the letter. But don’t mail it to them. Whatever you do, don’t mail it. Instead, light a candle and burn it slowly over the flame. As your letter goes up in smoke, release your anger.

At this point, it is time to start rebuilding your life. Surviving a break up means getting back into the game. You should definitely lean on the support of friends and family during this difficult time. The people closest to you will understand that you are having trouble putting your life back together and they should offer you the support that you need to heal.

Also, you should look for activities that spark your interest. Perhaps there were things that your ex didn’t like to do with you that you’ve missed. Renew your interest in these things. If you have had a lifelong desire to learn something, there’s no time like after a break up to try. You will probably make new friends when you start a new activity and you might even meet a love interest who shares your passion.

At some point, you will want to start dating again. Don’t expect your first few dates to turn into lifetime relationships. Just test the waters. Go out for coffee or a drink. Have fun and don’t be too serious about these things.

Surviving a break up is always a painful process. But, you are capable of moving on with your life. Look at the end of the relationship as a chance for growth. Millions of people have survived a split with their ex and you will too.

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What to ask a Woman When Meeting Her

Questions To Get a Girl Talking

Early in the conversation you should try to get the girl to talk about herself and things that interest her by asking questions and taking an interest. Suitable questions to draw her out are:

• "What work do you do?" (It is usually necessary to follow up with additional questions about where she works and other details of her work.)
• "What part of town do you live in?" (Again, you may need to enquire further as to what type of buildings are in that area, and other interesting features.)
• "Did you go to school around here?" (Draw for details such as courses and sporting or other extra-curricular interests.)
• "Are you interested in some other kind of work? I mean are you ambitious for advancement, or a new field?"
• "If you had your choice, where would you live?"
• "Have you had your vacation yet?" and "Where do you go?"
• "What type of car do you like best?"
• "Are you into music?" (Don't ask this unless you are interested in music yourself. You might also ask about art, dramatics, or any other field of interest.)
• "Do you go in for any sports?"
• "Do you like to swim?"
• "Do you have any brothers or sisters?" (Family inquiries are always a good idea.)

Do not ask all these questions at once. She will think you are interrogating her. They should be mixed in with general conversation in a balanced way.

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Dating Young Women for Love and Romance

Things To Know Before You Start Dating Young Women

Are you considering dating young women? What are the things you should consider before going out with a woman who is younger than you? Are there advantages and disadvantages? Here are seven rules for dating young women.

1. Accept when dating younger women that she is from a different “generation” than you. Even if she is only ten years younger than you, her life experiences have been different. The music she listened to as a teenager, the television shows and movies she likes, and even her political world view have been shaped by different experiences. Her vocabulary may be slightly different (like, she says “like” a lot). The further apart in age you are, the more pronounced these differences will be.

2. Accept that she has fewer life experiences than you do. If she’s in her early 20s and you are in your 40s, she’s just beginning to experience adult life. She may want to go out partying while you want a night in or a sophisticated evening. While her electric personality may attract you at first, working out a compromise between her need to go out and your need to stay in will keep you in the relationship for the long haul.

3. Accept that, in part, your attractiveness to her is based on the idea that you have financial security. You may feel like you have no money because of debt, alimony, or child support obligations, but she will see that paycheck of yours as “big money” compared to her own entry level salary. She will expect you to provide nice things and experiences for her. Expect to pick up the check when dating younger women.

4. She will find your maturity and wisdom sexy. One of the things she likes about you is that you’re not an overgrown teenager. Don’t try to act like you are 20. There are plenty of 20 year old men that she could go out with. She chose you precisely because you’re not one of those guys.

5. You can’t be needy. While it is not good to be needy with a woman of any age, younger women are not likely to put up with your clinginess. She is going to be wary of why you are not already with a woman your own age, so she’ll be on guard for any sign that you might need her more than she needs you. When she texts or phones you, don’t feel that you have to respond right away. By putting her on a short leash, you will actually be able to keep her longer.

6. Don’t be insecure. Similar to the advice above, you shouldn’t feel that she has “graced” you with her presence. Sure, she’s hot. But, you have a lot of qualities that make you attractive too. That’s why she’s going out with you. Don’t be insecure about your relationship when dating young women. It just puts them off.

7. Be mature. She is attracted to a man who is a few years older than herself because she is looking for someone who is stable and more experienced. Don’t try to act her age. Be a man of your own age. Your maturity is a natural draw for her.

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Flirting advice

Why Flirting is Important to Relationships

What is flirting? Are you good at it? Do you recognize it when someone is flirting with you? Is flirting harmful to relationships or good for them? Some people think that flirting is harmful, but I am here to tell you why flirting is important to relationships. Before we can talk about why flirting is important to relationships, however, we must first identify what flirting is.

Flirting is a form of communication that happens between two people that indicates the other is playfully interested in either getting to know the other one better or taking the relationship a little farther. Flirting can take many forms. Flirting can be the wink of an eye. Flirting can be a comment that can be both suggestive and innocent. Flirting can be a casual touch of the hand to the shoulder. Flirting can be a shy smile with down turned face and upturned eyes. Okay, so now that we all know what we are talking about, it is time to learn why flirting is important to relationships.

First of all, flirting is important to relationships early on; it is flirting that begins relationships.If no one ever flirts, no one ever knows that the other person is interested, and the relationship never gets started.

Flirting early on is also important because it makes you feel as if you are attractive. Nothing makes someone more attractive than feeling that others like the way they look. In other words, flirting builds confidence, and confidence makes the person even more attractive. It is a joyful game that makes people feel good and want to get to know you better; which is why flirting is important to relationships early on.

Later, flirting is important to relationships because it signals an intimate connection to your partner. Nothing makes a woman feel better than to know that she and her man have a lingering connection, and nothing can bring up that feeling in her quite like an innocent-but-more flirt from across the room at a crowded gathering. It is as if the whole world disappears for just a moment and there is nothing and no one but the two people involved.

Studies show that flirting is important to relationships even when the relationship has been ongoing for years; that is because it makes the couple feel good about themselves, their partner, and the relationship in general. Why is flirting important to relationships? It keeps a little sizzle going and makes you feel great, sexy, and wanted. So the next time you are enduring a boring-but-necessary business event or sitting through your niece’s graduation party or getting ready to go to the grocery store, remember why flirting is important to relationships and give your spouse a little pinch on the butt or a quick little wink of the eye. Trust me, it will work wonders and bring a little spice to your love life.

How Not to be Boring to Women

Don't be Boring to Women

It is very tempting in conversation for a man to take the easy path of talking at length about commonplace things instead of moving on to more vital personal matters, Shyness can contribute to such behavior. It would then appear to a girl that such a man was afraid to get personal. The overall impression would be of a dull, bland person, and chances are she would become bored and lose interest.

For example, take a man at a party: He sees a particularly attractive girl. He must get to know her better. He approaches.

• "Hi! I don't think we've met. I'm Jack Smith."
• "Well, hello. My name is Mary Jones."
• "You sure look great tonight, Mary."

"Thanks!" she says, and smiles back at him. She appears quite friendly toward him. He sits down on the sofa beside her, and asks:

"Are you a friend of Charlie's?" Charlie is the host.

"Yes, I knew him in college."

So he tells her how well he knew Charlie, and they swap stories about "Old Charlie." Then they talk about college life in general. Later they discuss Middle East politics, and then a theory he had heard for determining the age of rocks. After they have been talking about thirty minutes, she says:

"Excuse me, Jack, but I have to go out back for a moment."

She goes off in the direction of the bathroom. Later he sees her talking to other people in the next room. She doesn't come back to the sofa. Jack knows he has struck out.

This unhappy little drama is a too-frequent occurrence.

What did he do wrong? He just plain bored her to death. Up to the time he sat down with her everything was fine. She really seemed to welcome his attention. But he didn't do anything about it. He just talked on and on about those "safe" subjects. They were easy to talk about because they were impersonal. But she didn't come to the party to hear about those dry things.

What should he have done? He should have been bolder, and gotten personal with her. It was O.K. for a little small talk about "Old Charlie." Maybe five minutes worth. But then he should have made some personal moves toward her. She was probably expecting that he would. He could have given her a personal compliment about her figure or her legs, being sure to look directly at such parts while doing so. He might have drawn her out on some of her experiences in college - particularly personal things -and told some spicy stories out of his college days (but not his own exploits). He could have done any of the "personal" things we have mentioned in this book. Then she might have remained interested, at least, and hopefully impressed.

Why didn't he? Probably because he was afraid she might be offended if he became too personal. He didn't want to take the chance of being embarrassed if she took offense. But you have to take that chance. You have to stick your neck out a little, or you will get nowhere.

How to Use Dirty Words When Talking to Women

Double Meanings of Sexy Talk with Women

Using Dirty Words When Talking to Women

Using dirty words with a girl means you are taking liberties with her, in much the same way as with other sexual overtures. A big difference though is that many girls who are quite interested in sex do not like being exposed to a lot of four letter words. They find it vulgar and irritating. After hearing this language frequently, as in many movies, the novelty wears off. Many men feel the same way.

If you feel uncomfortable with this language, by all means don't use it; or restrict your usage to a few of the milder words. I'm sure that there are very few girls who would be less impressed if you used no four-letter words.

However if you like to use a little salty language with girls, you can slip in an odd reference to someone being "bare-assed broke" or it being "cold as a witch's tit" (or any other mildly vulgar expression) and see how she takes it. If she gives you a cold response you'd probably be better off not going on to stronger words. But if she likes it she will probably bounce a few choice ones back to you. If she does, she is encouraging you to use stronger language with her; since she is accepting the liberties you have taken with her, she is encouraging you sexually, also.

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Double Meanings of Sexy Talk with Women

Double Meanings

The mildest form of sexual overture is to speak with double meaning. The following phrases are some of the many that can be spliced into the conversation innocently, but delivered with a slight suggestion of deeper meaning:

• Can I tempt you?
• Will you take me on?
• Give me a try.
• You know what they say; you've got to try it to see if you like it.
• Come here! I want you.
• Do you want me?
• I'd like to see what you've got.
• I'd like to see what you can do.
• I'd like to see more of you.
• Are you hot?
• All the way.
• Do it together.
• Will you, or won't you.
• Does she, or doesn't she.
• If I called to pick you up later, would you be willing?
• I've been trying to think of something we could do together, where we could have lots of fun.
• You're getting me all excited now.
• Do you want to play?
• Let's fool around a bit.

How to Talk Sexy to Girls

Advice on Talking Sexy Girls

If you don't like swearing and vulgarity, don't worry; you can be as sexy as you like without using a single four letter word. For example, after you have talked to the girl a while (maybe 15-20 minutes) and are on a good friendly personal basis, you might smile and say, "You know, Rita,

I've been wondering what you'd be like in bed." Now this is a bit of a shocker. She will probably be embarrassed, more or less depending on her nature. You can always back off somewhat by saying, " Well, I thought I should let you know I thought of you in that way." The important thing is that you don't make too big an issue out of it. Most girls will laugh it off and you should be ready to go on with some lighter subject right away. But you have made your point. It was not a serious proposal, since it is still an early stage in your courtship of her. But she would certainly expect more from you on the subject of sex. You would appear exciting to her. A few girls might be really offended, but you can probably patch things up by apologizing for being so forward. Generally it is quite an effective technique.

There are many variations of this approach, for example: "Rita! You sure do look like a passionate person. I bet you are dynamite in bed," or "You know, from now on, in all my sexual fantasies, I'll make you the star of the show. "

These approaches may be a little strong for you to handle. They may be too much of a "hard sell." Maybe you can give them a try, just for the experience. If not, don't worry; there are plenty of other ways.

A mild version is: "Gee! Rita, you look so great, I wonder how you look when you wake up in the morning. Maybe I could be there to find out." You can probably think of many other amusing, but suggestive lines.

There are thousands of jokes and stories that can be used for sexy conversation. They range in dirtiness from harmless and mildly suggestive to explicit. If you are not sure whether a girl likes dirty stories, try one of the weaker ones, such as:

A girl is entertaining a sailor in her apartment. She is pouring him a drink. "Say when," she says. "As soon as you finish pouring that damn drink," he replies. You can usually tell from a girl's response to a mild joke whether she likes sexy talk. If she doesn't, don't push it. If she really likes it, you may try some more advanced ones.

How to Change the Scene When Meeting Women

Changing the Scene When Meeting Women

Change the Scene

When the whole conversation is bogging down, or if you can't even get it started, it is a good idea to change the scene. If you are on the street, in a store, or in another public place, you can simply say, "Say! I have an idea…" and suggest coffee or other refreshments, a drive in your sports car, or some fun diversion you have ready.

You can even invite her to accompany you on some serious errand you have to perform. She could help you with grocery shopping or anything else. It is always an impressive tactic to ask someone to help you, instead of your offering everything to them.

If you are sitting on the beach, or poolside, you could suggest a swim. At a bar, suggest dancing, or going outside for a breath of fresh air. At a party, suggest going outside, off on some diversion or to the kitchen for refreshments:

In fact, as soon as you can, you should promote doing things rather than just talking, unless the conversation is very fulfilling by itself.

If the situation is becoming a little strained and you can't arrange a scene shift, you can always try to set up a later date or get her phone number, then cut out.

Remember you don't have to go all the way with your moves right there and then. You can always reset the clock for another time and place, if the going gets sticky.

If there is a girl you like, and she is with others and/or you are with others, do not worry. Make your move if it is feasible. There may be too many other people around for a while, but sooner or later you can get rid of them.

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How to Survive a Break Up by Writing it Down

Surviving A Breakup - Write It Down

Right after a relationship ends, surviving a breakup might seem an impossible task. It hurts so much, and it’s easy to think that you’ll never feel happy again. It’s also easy to think that you might never find someone else. A good step to take when surviving a breakup is to start writing all these feelings down.

Journaling is something that millions of people do every day for a variety of reasons. Some people have kept diaries since they were children. At first they simply wrote down the important things that happened that day. Many children’s diaries are just filled with little lists about what they did all day.

As people get older, their journals and diaries tend to become more introspective. They write about an event and how it made them feel or what they thought it meant. Sometimes they write about how they think a certain event might affect them in the future.

Journaling or keeping a diary can help with surviving a breakup by giving you an outlet to express yourself. You can write things down that you might be uncomfortable saying to someone else. Embarrassing things or things that really upset you so much that you don’t really want to tell anyone can be “told” to your diary.

Many people never start journaling because they don’t think they know how. But there really is no special way to do it. You don’t have to have a special diary or journal to begin. You can write in a regular notebook or keep a file on your computer for your thoughts.

But you can purchase a special book to write in if you want. It can be as casual or as formal as you choose. If it makes you happy, purchase a special journal with a pretty cover and fine paper inside. If not, grab a spiral notebook or open that file in your word processor and start a journal.

As you’re surviving a breakup, when you feel especially sad write about why you think that is and what you think you can do about it. When you’re missing your ex, write about it. It’s okay to cry or feel upset while writing. In fact, it’s good to do so. You’re getting it out.

You don’t have to write in your journal every day. You don’t have to start every entry “Dear Diary” or do it in any specific way. You might scrawl down one sentence, “I hate this!” and three days later write 5 pages of things you won’t miss about your ex and why you’re glad it’s over. All of these are good for you.

Another way to use writing to help get over a relationship is to write a letter to your ex. Write down everything you want to say to him or her, good and bad, and be brutally honest. Now that you’ve purged yourself, throw the letter away.

Surviving a breakup can be made easier by writing down and dealing with your feelings, so give it a try.

How to Express Yourself to Women

Expressing Yourself When Talking to Women

Expressions of speech are very useful in pick-up conversations. They can be used as a form of punctuation in the presentation of your ideas. They spread out your delivery and give you breathing spaces that make everything seem more balanced, natural, and rounded off.

Expressions should be given a little extra dramatic treatment to emphasize your statement.

For example, in reply to a girl saying she likes surfing, you might say: "Well! As a-matter-of-fact, I was planning to go to the beach this weekend," with a dramatic emphasis on the expression' 'matter of fact. " The use of an expression is like a fanfare of trumpets preceding your suggestion for an outing.

Another very effective expression, which can be used in any part of an encounter, is: "Well, I'll tell you what I'll do." This of course is followed by some offer or suggestion. This expression adds some authority to your offer. It makes it appear that you are offering something of real value. You are giving your plan advance publicity. It is also good filler talk, adding balance to your presentation.

If you watch a TV talk show and listen carefully, you will notice how the hosts of the shows, and their guests, use expressions frequently to polish up their delivery.

You may have noticed people who make a feature of a single expression, which they keep repeating in their conversation - expressions such as "You know what I mean?" and "Don't you know." Purists would say this was bad English usage. But, when trying to appear cool with a girl, balance and flow are more important than perfect English.

Other expressions are used for their humorous, poetic, descriptive, and sometimes erotic effect. Stand-up comic and comedy records are another good source for new punchy expressions, as well as other humorous material.

Take a Look at Yourself to Improve Your Love Relationships

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Trying to have a successful relationship can be a challenge for anyone. There is no one size fits all relationship or relationship advice. There are, however, some relationship and woman advice that can help women find, and keep, that great relationship they've been looking for.

As odd as it might sound, if you want a good relationship the first person you have to worry about is you. Too many women are looking for the wrong thing and for the wrong reasons.

Everyone wants to feel liked, loved, desired, and respected. That's a wonderful thing to find. But too many women don't feel they have any worth unless they are in a romantic relationship, and that's where the trouble starts.

You see it goes a little like this: a lonely insecure woman who feels desperate for the love of a man will put off 'desperate vibes'. The only kind of man she is going to attract is an insecure man who needs to control the women in his life so he can feel important. The two will enter into a twisted co-dependent relationship that won't be truly be satisfying to either one.

That is why it is vital that any woman who is looking for a serious relationship take a long hard, and possibly painful, look at herself. It's not that she's not good enough, it's just that she doesn't think she's good enough. Until she realizes her own worth she will continue to attract the wrong type of men, be subject to some level of abuse whether verbal, emotional, or much worse, and will never really get the love she wants and deserves.

And the abuse in this type of situation is virtually guaranteed. You have to understand that a decent secure man will never be attracted to an insecure desperate woman. So that only leaves the kind of men that don't know any other way than to abuse women.

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They may not physically abuse them, and it may not even be real overt, but the abuse will be there. He will onstantly be making snide and hurtful comments about her looks, her weight, her cooking, her housekeeping, or her lovemaking... and that is abuse.

Then after suffering from that abuse over a period of time women will only have lower self esteem and even if they break up with their partner the cycle will continue, only it will probably be worse since her self esteem is so much lower than before.

You can nip this problem in the bud. Just slow down, take some time to make sure you are the woman of your dreams. Make sure you are the type of woman you truly want to be, strong, confident, capable. If you need some help to get to that point don't hesitate to find a good therapist and enlist their help.

It might take time but it will be time well spent. If you truly want to have a lifetime of love and fulfillment you need to make sure you are the kind of woman who 'demands' it. Not by stomping your feet or becoming a shrew, but by being strong and capable and knowing that you deserve the very best. When you become that type of woman than you will attract the type of man that can truly make you happy.

Even though it might not be what some people want to hear, I hope that this relationship woman advice is taken to heart. I've seen the pattern above repeated with a dear friend of mine and she's in yet another lousy relationship with an insecure guy who makes himself feel like a big man by knocking her down. She, and you, can do much, much better.

How to Salvage a Relationship After Cheating

Relationship After Cheating - How To Know What You Are In For

Trying to rebuild a relationship after cheating is a very complex, difficult, and time consuming thing to do. And in many cases, it just won't work. It's very common that the partner who has been cheated on just can't move past all the hurt and pain and the relationship will be over.

If both parties are committed to try to make the relationship work after an infidelity than they both need to understand the long and difficult road ahead of them. The path will be different for the partner who cheated than for the partner who was cheated on, though there are some things that both partners will feel, such as pain.

If you are the one who has cheated, and you want to stay in the relationship the first thing you need to do is be very honest with yourself. Make sure that you really want to stay and you aren't just reacting out of guilt. A common mistake people will make after they've cheated on their partner, is to let guilt guide their actions and stay in the relationship to 'make it up' to their partner.

That is one of the worst things you can do. Why? Because unless you are truly in love with your partner and committed to making your relationship work, it's likely that whatever factors led you to cheat in the first place will very likely lead you to cheat again. Than all you've done is hurt your partner a second time.

If you've honestly thought about the reasons you want to stay in the relationship and you realize that you made a mistake when you cheated, and that you still love your partner and can be faithful from this point on, you will still have a very hard road ahead. The first thing you have to do is make a sincere apology for the pain you caused. And don't think you'll only have to make one apology, you'll need to make a lot more than that over the healing period.

You also have to understand that even if your partner says they want to work on the relationship, it may be impossible for them to ever totally trust you again. Don't think that just because your partner forgave you that they are ever really going to trust you again. And even though they said they forgive you, they may still throw your infidelity back in your face. While you might not think that is fair, and it's not, they may just have so much hurt that it will never go away completely and sometimes it just bubbles over.

Trying to salvage a relationship after cheating isn't going to be easy. It will take time, love, patience, and the full commitment of both parties, and the sad truth is that even with all that it still may not work. If you've been unfaithful, just make sure that you are sure that you are willing to deal with all the ramifications of your actions before you ask your partner to stay with you and work it out.

Should You Save Your Relationship or Move On

How To Save Your Relationship Or Move On

Are you looking for relationship breakup advice? Then you're probably feeling as though this is one of the lowest points in your life. Now that may very well be true, but however badly you're feeling right now, this feeling will pass! You will get through this!

What you do now, depends on the outcome you're looking for. If you're ready for the relationship to be over and have no interest in trying to save the relationship, then then you will go one way. If on the other hand you're looking for a way to save your relationship, then you will need a whole different set of tips and strategies to make this happen.

Relationship breakup advice for those who want to save their relationship is based on how you handle yourself in the run-up to the breakup and immediately after the breakup. If you are at the point in your relationship where your partner has just announced they want to end the relationship, then my advice to you is to agree to the breakup. Your biggest mistake would be to try and persuade your ex to stay in the relationship and not to leave you.

Agree to the breakup, let your ex go and wish them well. Your plan now is to get yourself together. Yes you're devastated that the one you love has walked out, but you have to find a way to deal with that devastation and to deal with it in a way that will help you rekindle your relationship in the future.

So spend some time coming to terms with what has happened in the relationship. You need to do this on your own, without your ex. Make no attempt to contact your ex, instead find your friends and your family and let them help you through this upsetting time.

What you can also do is to make peace with yourself. We all make mistakes and depending on the level of your mistake, it is forgivable! So don't spend the next few weeks beating yourself up. When it comes to contacting your ex in a few weeks, you need to be emotionally sound and appealing to pull off the reconciliation.

If you have no interest in rekindling the relationship, then the relationship breakup advice you're looking for is about finding strategies about how to cope with the trauma. You need to be able to move on with your life, so above all, give yourself time. Treat the ending of the relationship almost like a death.

It really doesn't matter whether you wanted the relationship to end or not. The point is it has ended and there was a time when you had real hopes for the relationship. Acknowledge that and acknowledge your disappointment that it has ended and you'll come through this in time.