Has this ever happened to you? You see the hot & sexy "girl of dreams" at a bar or nightclub and you're dying to ask her to dance. There's a problem though. She's with a group of her girlfriends and they are carrying on and laughing and talking and not really noticing anything else. They just seem to be absorbed with themselves. You know what I'm talking about. You've seen groups of girls and how they act.
Well anyway, you want to ask her to dance, but you kind of feel like a fool approaching her in a group of girlfriends. Here's the wrong approach a lot of guys use: You approach her and ask her to dance and she says no. Then you ask her friend, she says no. Then you go down the line and ask her other friends to dance and they say no. You have just made a complete fool of yourself and the girls are snickering behind your back. Don't set yourself up for rejection.
Here's the approach to use:
Always remember this fact: It's hard to get one of the girls in a group to separate. But, there's a way around this; Walk up to all of them at once with a friendly smile on your face and say, "Would any of you girls like to dance?" There's a good chance one of them will dance with you and perhaps even the one that you were initially attracted to. This opens the door to dance with the other girls in the group also. Then you can determine which one you hit it off with and pursue her for a romantic encounter.
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Does this method work 100% of the time? No, there are variables involved. Maybe they are not ready to dance yet, they all have boyfriends, or maybe they are just not attracted to you through no fault of your own. Sure, the whole group may reject you but you increase your chances of getting the girls to dance by asking them to
dance as a group.
Personally, I always look for single women that are alone to ask to dance. If they are with just one girlfriend, I will ask a girl to dance and that's not usually a problem. Your best bet is to hit up on girls that are alone.

When doing research for a book I wrote on how to pick up hot & sexy single women in bars and nightclubs, I interviewed over 200 single women in nightclubs. One of the questions was, "How Do You Like to be Approached by a Man in Nightclubs?" Here are some of their answers (most of the women had the same answers):

How Do You like to be Approached by a Man in a Nightclub?

Robin - "To be approached by a polite, neatly-dressed, sincere guy."
Kerry - "He asks me, "Would you like to dance?" A man that talks a little first, before we dance."
Erika - "For a man to ask me to dance and not to assume automatically that I'll dance with him."
Valeria - "I like to be approached by a man with good manners. A man that is well-dressed and has a personality.
Paula - "I like for him to just come up to me and ask me if I want to dance. That's all it takes."
Susan - "Ask if I would like to dance and if I like him, I'll keep dancing, if he will keep asking."
Gail - "All he has to do is ask me to dance."
Debbie - "Any approach is OK, as long as he doesn't try to put his hands all over my body."
Erin - "By a man that's not too forward."
Sandra - "A very friendly man with no lines. Someone original and witty; doesn't come on with phony compliments."
Karen - "I like for them to say, "Hi" and ask me to dance."
Kim - "He asks me to dance. A guy that walks up to me and starts up a conversation. Line are OK."
Nicole - "All he has to do is ask me to dance."
Barbara - "To be treated like a lady. Not too pushy and not too fast."
Nancy - "A guy with a witty approach. Full of compliments."
Natalie - "I like for them to ask me to dance."
Gayle - "Just a straight, down-to-earth approach, with no B.S. lines."
Peggy - "A gentlemen's approach. To treat me like a lady. I don't like the "Baby do you wanna dance" approach."
Teresa - "I like a guy who is sure of himself when he approaches me. A guy who knows what he's doing."

In conclusion, use these interviews as a guideline on how to conduct yourself accordingly at the nightclubs. You're not going to score with very many sexy single women if you do things to turn them off. These interviews can be summed up as follows:

Single women like to be approached in a respectable manner. They usually don't like the aggressive approach and don't like to be treated like a piece of meat. Single women like well-groomed, well-dressed men, with a pleasing personality.

P.S. This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "The Complete Guide to Meeting Women."

I would like to discuss some observations you need to make at the beginning of a relationship with women. Sometimes when you're first dating a woman you overlook some things. You are so caught up in being attracted to her and even to the point of being in love with her.

Before you get too carried away, here are some observations you need to make:

1. How does she treat other people?
2. How does she treat her family, especially her relationship with her father?
3. How does she treat her friends, especially the younger and older ones?

So, what does all this mean? If she treats these people in her life with no respect, is cold with them, argumentative, or mean to them do you know what this means? Well if she treats them like this, she will treat you like this also after the puppy love stage wears off. Her true colors are going to come out and you may not like what you see.

I really don't like writing about negative things, but I just wanted to pass this along so you will know in advance if you are going to be treated like shit once the romance stage wears off.

I would like to share with the visitors to this web site a method I used successfully for many years to meet lots of beautiful and sexy single women in bars and nightclubs. All you need to pull this off is courage, a small note pad that fits in your pocket, and a pen.
When you see a beautiful single woman at a bar or nightclub, you will walk up next to her and write the following note in your note pad (make sure she sees you writing this note):
Did you know that I have been standing here wondering how I could meet you?
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If you have any suggestions as to how I could meet you without appearing bold or if I should even try to meet you, please check one of the below:
___Yes

___No

___Go to Hell

___Try This:

Signed:____________________
After you have finished writing this note hand it to her with a pen and say, "Would you mind filling this out for me?"
This system really worked for me and it's a great ice-breaker. Single women admired me for the uniqueness of this way of trying to meet them. What I like about this method is that I don't even have to use an opening line or some come-on line to meet single women. I just simply hand them a note. It sure is an easy way to meet single women you are attracted to.
Is it guaranteed to work in meeting single women? No. You will get some rejections and some women may even laugh at you. But, the majority of women will be receptive to this technique of meeting them. Try it! You will be pleasantly surprised by the results.

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No. 1. Austin, TX
No. 2. Dallas, TX
No. 3. Columbus, OH
No. 4. Durham, NC
No. 5. Denver, CO
No. 6. Indianapolis, IN
No. 7. Arlington, TX
No. 8. Oklahoma City, OK
No. 9. Bakersfield, CA
No. 10. Houston, TX
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No. 11. Lubbock, TX
No. 12. Fort Worth, TX
No. 13. Charlotte, NC
No. 14. Fresno, CA
No. 15. San Antonio, TX
No. 16. Richmond, VA
No. 17. Anchorage, AK
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No. 18. Nashville, TN
No. 19. Memphis, TN
No. 20. Kansas City, MO
No. 21. Atlanta, GA
No. 22. Omaha, NE
No. 23. Salt Lake City, UT
No. 24. Milwaukee, WI
No. 25. Jackson, MS
So, maybe these are the best cities to live in or visit to get some action (If you know what I mean).

Let me tell you about a method of meeting single women for love and romance that can get you in trouble or even worse, get you beat up by an angry boyfriend.

Here's what happened to me and please guys, don't try this stupid stunt because of your raging hormones. It's not worth it!

There was this beautiful, hot & sexy checker at the grocery store where I shopped at that I was madly in love (lust) with. She looked just like a centerfold right out of Playboy Magazine. Long blonde hair with a beautiful face and body to match.

Every time I would go grocery shopping I would just drool over her while I was in the check out line. I was just dying to meet her and I was trying to figure out a way to get to know her better.

I had seen her go to her car in the parking lot before. So, I knew what her car looked like.

So, I came up with this really dumb idea that I would write her a note and put it on her windshield. I described myself and told her I was attracted to her and would like to meet her for lunch. And I gave her my phone number to give me a call.

Well, she got the note ok. And so did her angry boyfriend. He called me up and cussed me out and threatened to kick my ass if I even came near her. Of course, I pleaded with him that I meant no harm. I just wanted to meet her. But, he was still pissed off.

So, in closing, my fellow Girl-getters, don't try this stupid method to try and meet a woman you are attracted to that is a stranger.

First of all, she will think that you're some kind of psycho stalker. And in these days and times women have a lot to be concerned about from men that they don't know.

Second of all, this could be hazardous to your health because of an angry boyfriend, husband, ex-husband, father, brother, etc. She could go along with your plot and agree to meet you. Then she would set you up to where her angry boyfriend or husband also shows up to confront you and proceed to kick your silly ass.

Well, I think you get the point. This is a very risky and foolish way of meeting single women. Don't do it!

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