Observing behavior and actions and not theory has shown us time and time again that as soon as a man gives up the control that he "should have," a woman sees this as a sign of weakness and becomes dissatisfied with his performance in filling the "man's role." Women respond favorably to the man taking control of a situation, from which movie to go see to sexual encounters. They want the door held, the wine opened, the evening planned, and the car driven. They want traditional male/female roles fulfilled. They are happiest in every phase of a relationship when they feel a high level of power and security coming from men leading the situation.
Does this mean a man should become a tyrant in order to control a relationship? No. Filling the man's role can be done in many subtle ways which often amounts to no more than awareness of the situation, making the decisions, and expending the energy to take the lead. In the next chapter on "your image" and throughout the book, you will learn exactly what we mean by "power and leadership" and how to fill the man's role.
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This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

1. PRIVACY AREA - These are dark and secluded areas which lends itself to a more intimate and quieter area for conversation with the dancers. The less distractions the better when you're making your moves on the topless dancers.

Also, if you are getting a table dance, this area is more private and you can get a much more intimate, personal, and sexy table dance. Being that this area is more private and secluded, this may increase your chances of getting her to show you her bush. Don't make the mistake of thinking that because you're in a secluded area you can touch the dancers intimately while they're dancing. You can look but you better not touch, as a general rule! Those are the rules and if you do, she will get the bouncer on your ass.

You may be thinking, what if she let's me touch her private parts or encourages me. Forget it! It just won't happen, normally. Only in your dreams.

One final point. If you are alone, the privacy area can be good.

You will be visibly alone to the dancers and they will come over and talk to you.

Plus, they may assume that since you're sitting alone in a dark secluded area that you want a table dance and that relates to making money, which they are
obsessed with. So, they will be hitting you up. Just remember you are not obligated to accept a table dance for money.

I know you have heard various comments in books, media, etc. about nightclubs being one of the worst places to look for a relationship or a wife. A lot of my male friends have met real nice women and had satisfying relationships with women they have met in nightclubs.
So, don't rule out nightclubs as good place to meet women. Try several different methods of meeting women. Don't put all your eggs in one basket and use nightclubs solely for the purpose of meeting the opposite sex.
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Some men make the fatal mistake of carrying a negative attitude with them when they go to nightclubs. They think that all the women there are just a bunch of bitches. This attitude can prevent you from meeting someone really nice. There are some really nice women in night¬clubs that will treat you with respect. Also, a lot of women are looking for a special guy to love.

The basic idea of courtship is for the man to build up his prestige with the girl until she accepts him as a lover. This is usually accomplished by a gradual increase in familiarity and trust.

There is no particular time frame for this courtship process. It may take weeks, or if the two have a natural affinity for each other, it may take but a few minutes. Generally, a man is more attractive if he is bold and quick to state his intentions, rather than cautious and slow. The old saying: "Faint heart never won fair lady," has a lot of merit.

For example: A man meets an attractive girl at a party. After they talk for a while he feels that she is quite attracted to him. He then says, "You know, I'd like to make love to you. Maybe we could go away for the weekend." If she really liked him she might accept him then, or think about it for a while before accepting. Or, she may say, "No, you are much too fast; I hardly know you." He can say, "OK, I'm prepared to go slow if I have to, but now you know how I feel. I thought it best to tell you the truth." He can then proceed with a slower courtship and repeat his offer later.

His bold early suggestion, even though not accepted, has not damaged his chances. Rather, it has enhanced them. If the girl liked him before, she should still do so. In addition he should now appear more exciting to her.

This article is an excerpt from our best-selling book, "A Man's Guide to Women."

What about the women's movement? What about women competing with men for jobs? What about pressures on men to be sensitive and understanding? And what about the fact that for the last few decades’ women not only can, but are, surviving on their own? In the seventies the Women’s Lib movement started confusing men as to exactly what role women wanted them to take. Were they to continue to be strong, powerful male providing leadership and protection to the weaker sex, or were they to become "equal partners" relinquishing one half of the decisions and leadership to the female?

And if the latter is true, can we then look to a female for guidance and strength? This seems to be the big question facing us today. And finding the answer has been difficult because women are just as confused about what they want from us as we are. Women hear the women's movement rhetoric advocating a new independence and equality, while subconscious drives dictate attraction to men who will take the lead.

In answering this question, we have to ask: Can instincts and drives developed by 400,000 years of natural history be wiped out by a ten year old movement? Absolutely not!

So, why do men go to topless clubs? To look at naked women and act like a dog in heat, they are lonely and need some company and someone to talk to, they are sexually frustrated at home so this is an outlet, for bachelor parties, to entertain business clients, to solicit prostitution, to get drunk, to eat food while surrounded by naked women, etc.

The least reason men go to topless clubs is to pick up topless dancers. That's where our book, "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" featured in the Playboy Catalog will help you. If you can't score with a topless dancer after using this book you are brain dead. The whole game plan is laid out for you. All you have to do is take action. There's never been a better time to pick up topless dancers. There are more hot & sexy young girls than ever in the topless clubs and it's time you have your share of these fun-loving, warm and willing women. Change your ways now! Don't just go to topless clubs to look at naked women and then go home and beat off. Turn these "Dream girls," into real girls. Make friends with them first and then pursue them sexally.

Find a nightclub where the greatest number of women are and that you feel comfortable in and keep going there as often as possible. Make an effort to meet as many people as possible, including other men. After all, guys know women and they can introduce you to their female friends, relatives, and co-workers. By going to this place often, you will become a familiar face and you will be amazed at the number of friends and acquaintances you will make. So get out there and make the rounds and find yourself a good nightclub. Just keep going to this nightclub and see if your social life doesn't improve dramatically.
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Also, I might add, don't just go to a few nightclubs when selecting a nightclub. Go to all of them so you can make a good comparison as to which ones are the best. Some nightclubs are good only on a particular night. Find out what night that is and make an effort to be there every week.