How to Become More Personal with Women

Getting More Personal with Women

At the time the girl appears to accept your approach by showing a friendly response, you can begin to work on a more personal level (mildly personal at first). "We" and "us" can be introduced into the conversation. You can confide in her and tell her small things about yourself. Tell her briefly about your work. You might voice a brief opinion about some subject.

Then later, after some exchange of general conversation, you can talk in greater detail about yourself, such as any interesting, ambitious plans you may have, or your feelings on some subject. Don't be afraid to bare your soul a little. Most women admire sensitivity in a man. If you have strong convictions about a subject, voice them. Women admire men with strong convictions, whatever they may be. They may be in such diverse areas as politics, social issues, the arts, and business (or archaeology). If you are good at something, tell her. Women are impressed by men who are achievers.

But, do not be apologetic. If you say you believe in the Republican Party principles, and she is a staunch Democrat, don't start making excuses for your beliefs, or modifying them to accommodate her. You are what you are. Stay with your beliefs, unless she can really convince you otherwise. This applies with any subject.

A Conversation Guide on How to Talk Women

Making Plans to Meet Women

Making Plans to Meet Women

Do You Have a Plan for Meeting Women?

I have lots of dating experience and I can tell you this: Success with women is certainly not an accident. It doesn't work that way. You just don't accidentally meet the woman of your dreams. They just don't literally drop out of the sky.

You need to have a plan to meet women. It's no different that planning your vacation. It also helps to plan every detail in your pursuit of women and romance.

Have you ever used an air mattress to float on the water at the beach? After awhile you will notice that the current will start taking you away from your original spot you were when you first got on your air mattress.

This is how it works in the dating world too. If you don't have a plan and a goal to meet someone to share your life with you may not end up in the right place. You will just float around in your dating life drifting off course and not knowing here you are headed.

Guys, I encourage you to do some deep thinking and examine where you are today when it comes to meeting and dating women. Do you have any goals or plans for meeting women? So, what are your goals and plans? If not your first goal is to make a plan and follow it.

I challenge you right now to sit down and map out a game plan. You will be a lot more successful with women if you do. Make your plan and work the plan.

Good luck and wishing you much success with women...Don Diebel

P.S. - This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and seduce single women, please visit his website at: www.getgirls.com

Fun is Key to Good Relationships

What Is The Secret To A Great Relationship - Fun And Lots Of It

What is one of the most common ingredients found in most great relationships? Fun tends to be right at the top of the list. Life can be difficult at times with either financial worries or those involving kids and families occupying your thoughts. Having fun with someone you love is a great way to combat this stress.

So how can couples increase the fun factor in their relationship? All it takes is a little extra effort. Why not try cooking a meal together from scratch. Pick something neither of you have tried to make before and see what happens. It could turn out to be a complete disaster; but who cares. I know someone who ended up eating strawberry cheese soufflé once. His partner read corn flour in the ingredients. She only had strawberry flavored corn flour in her cupboard, you use it in cakes, but she thought it wouldn’t matter; as it was only one spoonful. The end result was gross but the two of them laughed about it; for years afterwards.

Get involved in outside activities. Not only is it good for your health but it is a bit difficult to take yourself too seriously if you are hanging upside down on a bungee jump!

Try having fun at home as well. You could play some games when the kids are in bed but add an element of naughtiness. Strip poker, Scrabble or Monopoly are all good options. Who said board games had to be boring? See, I bet you're smiling already.

Try something outside your comfort zone, such as motorbike racing, take a boat out for the day or go horse riding. Do something one or both of you have always wanted to do but just haven't got around to it yet. Breaking the monotony of everyday life is a great way to improve your communication and rapport with one another.

Laughter is infectious and it is amazing what a positive mind and atmosphere in a home can achieve. Try it for yourself today and see how all your family bonds improve. Moods are contagious and if you are always miserable don't expect your partner or your kids to behave any differently.

Focus on all the good things you share with your partner. All too often we worry about things going wrong. With the current recession, a lot of people are feeling financial pressure and this can cause anxiety and stress at home. But if you try to concentrate on the blessings you already have, you are likely to create more of them. You will be more open to possibilities and will probably find opportunities to improve your life will come along when you least expect it.

When we value those we love, show them respect, admiration and tenderness, they tend to respond in a similar fashion. Nobody said living together would be easy. With hard work and consistency you can have the dream relationship. Fun and laughter go a long way to achieving that goal.

How to Compliment a Woman

Complimenting Women

Compliments

You can now tell her, in more detail, what you find attractive about her. You might say you like the shape of her face. "You know, when I first saw you I was immediately attracted by the contours of your face. You have an unusual type of beauty. I don't know just what it is, maybe the bone structure of your cheeks. Are you of Swedish descent?" Or whatever other ethnic type she might resemble. This is good, because it is not only a compliment but also it tends to draw her out and start a train of conversation.

Other interesting lines of thought are:

• You walk gracefully (Are you a dancer?).
• I like that hair style (It suits the shape of your face).
• You know, I like the way you carry yourself; your smile and the movement of your head and eyes. (Have you studied acting?)
• You have long shapely legs. (Have you done any modeling?)
• Gee, you have pretty eyes. (They match the outfit you are wearing.)
• I like that outfit you are wearing. (It has a fresh, pretty look.)

These compliments are best if they are genuine. This should not be a problem. Any attractive girl should fall into at least one of the above categories. You can probably think of a few more yourself. Compliments are one of the best ways to please a girl, and you can give them before you become personally involved. But they must be sincere. A compliment that sounds as if it was only given to gain something yourself does much more harm than good.

A Guide to Picking Up Women in Nightclubs

Do you stand on the sidelines at nightclubs watching other men meet and pick up women? Have you ever been at a nightclub and seen a beautiful woman that you were dying to approach but you couldn't get up the courage? Do you continually strike out with women? Are you shy and don't know what to say to women in nightclubs?

Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert) has written a new ebook called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs" that will help you overcome these problems and you'll be meeting more women than ever before and you will be transformed into an expert picker-upper and seducer.

You Will Learn:

• Confidence-building techniques that will get you off the sidelines and have you scoring with women, night after night.
• Confidential interviews with nightclub women - They tell you exactly in their own words what it takes to pick them up and take them back to your place.
• Complete game plan for seducing women from "Hello" to romance.
• How to use mental telepathy to make women do anything you mentally command them to do.
• Step-by-step procedure on how to seduce a woman on the dance floor.
• Foolproof methods to get her to leave the nightclub and go to your apartment.
• How to recognize female body language that says she wants to be picked up.
• A method that will make women approach and pursue you in nightclubs that is guaranteed to work and never fail.

Now that's just a small sampling of what you'll find in this tells-all (27 chapters) free ebook on how to successfully meet, attract, and seduce women in nightclubs called, "How to Pick Up Women in Nightclubs." There's much, much more...

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Yes, this incredible ebook will heal all the negative images you have of yourself. After reading this book and applying the techniques, you will see yourself as a new person - not a guy that stands on the sidelines or an average Joe, but a charming, sexy, and desirable male - a guy truly deserving of lots of love and romance from all those hot & sexy women in nightclubs.

Christian Dating Should be Pursued

The Leap of Faith into Christian Singles Dating

For devout Christians, entering the dating scene can often be a confusing and sometimes unsettling experience. Let's face it, there are lots of things for the average dater to be concerned about when trying to find a suitable partner, but when it comes to Christian singles dating, matters can become even more complicated. Despite being interested in establishing a long-term relationship with another like minded person, some Christians are afraid to barely even dip their toes into the dating pool. For some, the fear that "it can be a jungle out there" is a concern that paralyzes them, but that too common fear is more than likely largely unfounded. While advances in technology such as online matchmaking services have made the dating experience more convenient and efficient for many people, when it comes to Christian singles dating, tradition cannot be overlooked as a factor in a single person's attitudes toward meeting other like minded singles.

It can be difficult to put aside religious convictions when venturing out into the dating world, but in fact it isn't at all necessary. For most devout Christians, finding a person of similar religious beliefs is important because so much of their makeup is based on the way they were raised or taught. A strong religious foundation more than likely comes with a strong family presence and influence, so Christian singles dating other singles will likely find themselves having to satisfy their own attraction as well as satisfying their family's expectations of who they choose in a mate. Of course, if dating another Christian single, those expectations are likely shared, or at the very least well understood.

Religious upbringing can be looked upon as both a positive and a negative when it comes to dating.

From the positive side, a person with a strong religious foundation is likely to be grounded and firm in how they approach the world and issues they face along the way. Their faith provides a strong base from which they've grown their values and morals. Christian singles dating programs certainly exist online as well as offline, and many single Christians choose to explore their dating options through the help of technology. However, many Christians still rely on the old traditional ways to meet other singles. That means their local church and church groups may be their primary way of meeting other Christian singles.

Conversely, those who are uncompromising in their Christian beliefs can, at times, be considered uncompromising or inflexible. That means that they may be considered too picky by some who don't understand just how important their religious beliefs are in establishing the person who they've become. In a nutshell, Christian singles dating options may be narrower than the general dating population, but that doesn't mean the quality of dating prospect is any less. In fact, Christian singles dating within their own set of beliefs may find that their relationships have a richness that others don't have the pleasure of experiencing.

Inital Stages of Conversation with Women

How to Approach Women

EARLY STAGE CONVERSATION

You have just met a girl. Now you would like to convince her to enter into a relationship with you -date you, go out with you, or whatever.

In the language of a salesman, you have a prospect. You have your foot in the door. Now you must do a job of selling to get her to accept you.

She might have some doubts, and fears for her safety. For all she knows, you are not a safe person to be with. You could be trying to entice her to go some place to assault her. You must win her trust and confidence.

You must also impress her enough that she will want to see more of you. You have gained her attention. Now you must hold it.

In the FIRST PHASE we said you should not be misled by the girl's reactions. Now, this changes. Many of your actions at this stage will depend on her response to earlier actions. Feedback now becomes very important.

How to Approach Women and What to Do

How to Approach Women

What you should do is to think your way through your body language moves the same way you think your way through your spoken approach. When you first approach the girl you should endeavor to look directly into her eyes and smile. Try to hold your gaze evenly and calmly while you talk. But you need not look directly into her eyes all the time. You can move your gaze towards other parts of her body and to surrounding objects. But always return your gaze back to her eyes. All eye movements should be careful and unhurried. In fact, all your movements should be deliberate, not jerky and nervous. Your speech should be calm and well paced. Try to act cool. Try to place your body mostly facing her squarely, with feet a little apart. You can shift weight on your feet occasionally (and change your footing) to relieve monotony. Consciously prevent yourself from keeping your hands together (except momentarily). Keep a distance just a little closer to her than feels normal, lean a little towards her.

All this may seem a little much to remember in full detail. But the main thing is to get the general idea: think confidence into your actions.

If you are able to discipline your body language in this way, your whole approach to the girl will seem right. You will know you are giving a convincing performance. Thus your confidence will be raised, and you will feel like you want to continue, even if the girl is showing signs of reluctance.

The example given was typical of a situation where the pick-up moves were commenced immediately on approaching the girl. But in situations where a more casual approach was made first, such as in waiting situations, the more positive body language should be delayed until you make your serious approach.

How to Pick Up Women Using Body Language

Body Language

Many people have a big problem with their body language, but they don't realize it since they don't even know body language exists. Their problem is that they send out false signals that contradict what they really want to say.

For example, a man is approaching a strange girl in public. She is very attractive and he would really like to get to know her. But he is very self-conscious. As he starts to speak to her, he feels insecure. He has decided what to say, so there is no problem there. But his feeling of insecurity causes him to show body language that is unsuitable. He stands a little sideways, with his hands clasped in front of him. He meets her gaze only fleetingly as he talks. He is smiling, but looks uncomfortable. He tends to talk a little quickly. He knows he is giving an unconvincing performance. He is telling her how much he would like to meet her, but he is acting like he wishes he were someplace else. In fact, if the girl gives him even a mild rejection, he will be inclined to accept it and retreat.

Of course, to give up that easily would be a mistake, since, as we have already mentioned, the girl would not be offended by his lack of confidence during his first approach, and some form of token resistance should be expected. So, if he continued with his approach he might still be successful. The real problem is with the man's confidence. If his feeling of insecurity remains, he may continue to act in an awkward fashion. Even if she agreed to walk with him, or dine with him, he might still go on acting like he felt out of place. This would definitely make a poor impression on the girl.

But there is a way out. He can discipline himself to display body language consistent with his desire to meet and impress the girl, and not with his feelings of insecurity. You see, he has mixed feelings and he is allowing the wrong feelings to dictate his body language. His feeling of insecurity is probably stronger than his desire to meet the girl, and if unchecked, it will prevail.

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How to Dress to Impress Women

How to Dress for Success with Women

Your location has much to do with your choice of clothes. Showy clothes, of course, are more acceptable at parties, singles bars and other places of entertainment. But they are not as acceptable in the street, parks, stores and general public areas. Also, in the Western and Southwestern states, men wear showy clothes more than in the East. Suitability of clothes according to surroundings is an obvious factor in a choice.

It is important that you should be well groomed when approaching a girl: shoes should be shined, you should be clean shaven (with neatly trimmed moustaches, etc.) and personally clean in every way. Be careful not to use a strong smelling aftershave or deodorant. Strong smelling perfumes are a real turn off. A fresh-scrubbed smell with a hint of soap is much better. Fingernails should be clean and trimmed. It is not easy to advise about hair. All hairstyles are fine, if they suit you. We can't say that hair should necessarily be combed and neat. Some like a tousled hair effect. Really, you can't make any rules about hair; individual tastes vary so much. Another attractive feature is to cultivate a suntan.

An extension of your clothes and grooming is your car. It helps you play your role. It can suggest wealth and quality, sporty flair, or a casual, practical personality. Your car should be as groomed as your person.

Perhaps the most important reason for being well dressed is the effect it has upon you. Certainly you are aware of how much better you feel when you are dressed up and kissin' fresh. Your confidence really soars. If you know you look sharp, your self-esteem is increased dramatically.

I have noticed that when I am well dressed, people definitely are friendlier and more receptive to me. Whether it is their favorable reaction to my appearance, or a reflection of my own confidence, I can't be sure. But the effect is very real, and a very important asset.

Nevertheless, you may sometimes find an opportunity to pick up a girl when you are in working clothes (and with some occupations you may get quite dirty). You should try anyway. Men are often quite successful in these situations. In fact sometimes the only opportunity you may get with a particular girl may be while working (or just after work). But we still feel that being well dressed and clean is an advantage; and you should strive for it if you have any choice in the matter.

Dating Mistakes Men Make

Dating Mistakes by John Alanis

I hear it over and over--"It was going so great, and then she disappeared on me... why? What happened--we were having such a great time together. I'm tired of this happening--I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick around. Do you have any dating tips for me?"

Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells me this, I discover he's making the exact same mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to skyrocket his success with sexy women. Here are the most common ones: Dating tip #1: Don't date. Yes, that's right--don't date. Think about a traditional "date"--it's full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a "traditional date?" Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn't return your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to "make your move," and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and cheaper) to meet for coffee--it's fun and relaxed with none of the normal dating expectations. Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more she's attracted to you. Most guys try to impress sexy women, or "lay a rap" on them. Sexy women have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself, shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she'll begin to wonder why you're not slobbering all over her. She'll want to discover more... now you're a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE dating tip.

Dating tip #3 Be a "naughty little boy." Another big dating tip. Remember the "class clown" in elementary school--the guy who was "cool and funny" all at the same time? When you're talking to sexy women, make unexpected and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them thinking, "I can't believe he just said that... but I like it." This shows sexy women you're NOT impressed by their looks, that you need to see more. This is so different from what they're used to they can't help but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance of this dating tip.

Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines, "laying a rap," or any type of "acting." Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout one, you're instantly a JAG (just another guy). And JAG's don't get sexy women--remember this dating tip!

Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their world--to get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys who've already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to be different to sexy women).

Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women (indeed, all women) will test you to see if you'll stand up to them. If you can't stand up to her, you can't stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her things, that's a test--and a perfect opportunity to be a "naughty little boy" (see Dating tip #3). Say something like, "What do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!" This is said in a playful--yet firm--manner that lets her know you're onto her. When you pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire. Very important dating tip.

Dating tip #7 Date multiple sexy women at once, and make sure the others know about it. Sexy women love a man who is attractive to other sexy women, and will compete to "win you." (Here's another dating tip: for proof of this, read any good romance novel). If you want to settle down, you can choose one, but she will always know you're desired by other sexy women--and in a strange way, this creates even more attraction for you. This dating tip really is a secret, but it works very well with sexy women.

OK, guys, that's it for this article. Obviously there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention to these dating tips, you'll be a heckuva lot more successful with sexy women. Now, go re-read all the dating tips!

On with the fun... - John Alanis, Dating Tips Master

"The King of Let 'em Come to You"

Want more dating tips? To discover how to be successful with sexy women, and for more great dating tips, see www.womenapproachyou.com.

John Alanis is the author of "Secrets of Natural Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy women to Chase You." He also publishes a daily ?politically incorrect attraction and dating tips? newsletter that reveals how to get desirable, beautiful sexy women to approach men for a date first, no matter your looks, age or income. You can subscribe to John?s daily ?sexy women approach you secrets? by going to www.womenapproachyou.com. Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five free ?how to get beautiful, sexy women to approach you!? reports, chock full of hidden secrets dating tips.

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How to Meet Friendly Girls

How to Meet and Approach Friendly Girls

Much of what we say concerns situations where the girl is reluctant to meet a stranger, for various reasons. It is a good idea to be prepared for them. But in actual fact most girls are friendlier than that, if the man is at least reasonably interesting in appearance.

It will be obvious to you when a girl is responding to your approach in a friendly manner. This makes everything much easier for you. You don't have to spar around to get an introduction -you simply ask her name.

From that point on, the relationship should progress easily (if the girl is available). You should have little trouble setting up a future date, or sharing some immediate activity.

It is a good idea to smile and try to establish eye contact with any girl you see in public that interests you. If you encounter a friendly girl in this manner she might return your smile and you can say' 'Hi." You may not have to say much more than that to meet her. A lot can be communicated between two people (who like the look of each other) with friendly smiles and body language.

Your attempts at eye contact should be bold and positive, not cautious and tentative.

But, once again, don't depend on her returning your smile to decide whether you will approach her. Many girls may be very friendly after you approach them, but may not respond immediately to a smile from a stranger.

Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back

How can I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back when she Needs Space

One of the biggest questions that guys find themselves asking is, How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space? This is a really important question, because when most women-led break ups occur, it has something to do with needing space. When somebody says that they need space in a relationship, they are essentially saying that they are not happy in the relationship. This is a blanket response during a break up, and may simply be a cover to avoid speaking up regarding what is really going on.

Unfortunately, when a girl says that she needs space and wants to end the relationship, it often means that they have decided not to be with you, but they do not really want to put the effort into helping you understand why.

When a woman asks for space, they are indicating that something is wrong, but rather than help you solve the issues and rekindle the flame in the relationship, they would rather walk away. If you are asking "How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?", this is a good sign because it means that you are willing to try and make things work, and that means that yes, there is still hope.

The fact that she needs space is a pretty clear cut indicator that communication between the two of you is flawed in some way. It is important that you find a way in, in order to figure out what is really bothering her if you have any hopes of rekindling things and making the relationship work again. This can be difficult, because clearly she has resolved to shut you out for some reason, but it is not impossible. Because so many guys are asking "How can I get my ex girlfriend back when she needs space?", obviously this is a common phenomenon, and one that does have a solution.

The real key to rekindling a relationship with an ex girlfriend who says that she needs space is to find a way to communicate openly with one another. Often, a woman will use needing space as a way to indicate that there is a flaw in the relationship, and while she may not immediately open up about that flaw, it will still eventually need to be talked about. Begin by making subtle hints that you are still interested in being a part of her life.

Don't force yourself on her, but rather simply offer friendship and companionship and see how she responds to this. When things are a little more comfortable in your new found friendship, you can begin to pry your way in a little more, mainly by placing subtle hints in the conversation about where the relationship may have awry.

When she is ready to open up to you, she will. You do not need to rush things or force things, just take the conversation slowly and let her find the best way to show you what happened. Once the issues are out in the open, they can hopefully finally be resolved.

How to Advice on How to Improve Your Relationships

5 relationships Improvement Techniques

Whenever you are balancing the needs of more than one person it can be a challenge, this is especially true in long term relationships. The reason that a long term relationship can present additional challenges is because a lot of small things that have occurred over the years can build up and create a lot of resentment, when that happens, it doesn't take much to upset the whole balance. Use these 5 relationships tips to help get back the balance, and love, your relationship might be missing.

1. It's so easy to let everyday life to get in the way of your intimacy. It can easily seem like too much effort to dress up and go out on a date. It happens all the time. The good news is that even though this can be a common problem, it's also a fairly easy problem to overcome.

Take time for the two of you, even if that means spending some money on a babysitter. When the two of you are out together, make any conversation about finances, kids, or work completely off limits, just enjoy each others company and have some fun. It's important for the overall health of your relationship and the kids will actually benefit in the long run from having two parents who aren't overworked, overstressed and fighting all the time. Invest a few bucks in a sitter now so you don't end up splitting up later.

2. No matter who you are, you can only give your attention to so many things. Some people can divide themselves up more than others, but everyone has a limit. Instead of parceling out your time and attention to your partner, make suer that you find a way to give them your uninterrupted attention. Everyone wants to feel loved and heard, don't make your spouse feel like they're competing for your time, let them feel like they're important to you and that no matter how crazy things get you care enough about them that you will make the effort to make time for them.

3. Learn to talk, really talk. This doesn't mean nag, or whine, or complain, or insult, it means taking turns talking and listening. Give your partner a safe haven to talk about whatever is on their mind without making them feel ridiculed or like their concerns aren't really important.

4. If your partner has a criticism about some aspect of your behavior, don't just get angry. Instead try to objectively look at the situation from your partners point of view. Try to make simple changes if it will make your partner happy.

5. Don't be afraid to tell your partner what you want or need. It's not about making demands, it's about letting someone who cares about you know what they can do that will make you happy.

Don't make your relationship hard work, it really doesn't have to be. Just be willing to listen to your partner and encourage them to listen to you and use these 5 relationships tips as a guideline on your path to a better relationship.

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How to Eat Free at Topless Clubs

Watch Topless Women and Eat Free

Most unattached girls have been dating, but are not entirely satisfied with the men they know. They hope that someday they will meet a man whom they like better. But they play the game by the rules. The men they meet are usually drawn from their existing circle of friends, or they are men they meet at parties, other social activities, or at work. The idea of being "picked up" by a stranger is a little "scary" to many girls. They feel uneasy about it. Such a girl has probably decided that if the situation ever arises, she will back off and avoid any involvement. After all, it would be very embarrassing if other people (in a public place) saw some stranger approach her and pick her up. With this in mind, she tends to insulate herself from men while in public. She may deliberately avoid looking or smiling towards any man to discourage attention, even though she knows it is quite probable that some very interesting man might approach her in public. We suppose girls often suffer from a form of stage fright in public; they are self-conscious and trying to prevent direct attention to I themselves. She believes she has a plan all figured out. She will maintain her calm, safe existence. If a man tries to pick her up she will simply ignore him, turn her head away, and go about her business. This will keep her from being embarrassed in public. Now, if a man wants to pick up such a girl, he must shake up her routine. He must break up the inertia that keeps her on her safe, staid course. Realistically she probably would agree that meeting new people was a good thing for her. But she is self-conscious, and a little frightened by the unknown.

VIP Rooms in Topless Clubs

It's Time to Shake Things Up When Meeting Women

Don't waste your money by paying extra money to get into the VIP Room at topless clubs. There's really nothing special to being in the VIP Room. You will see the same dancers, because they rotate throughout the club. If you want to feel like a big shot, go ahead and waste your money on your ego. And don't be mislead into thinking that they have wild orgies in the VIP Room. Only in your fantasies.

There's only one advantage to the VIP Room and that is if you're famous. You will have a little bit more privacy and you will attract the dancers like crazy. It will be much easier to score with the dancers if you are a celebrity.

Getting Your Ex Back Advice

How Do I Get My Ex Back If She Left Me For Someone Else

Did your girlfriend leave you for someone else? Did she leave you to go back to an ex? Are you asking "How do I get my ex back if she left me for someone else?" because you desperately want to get her back even after she abandoned you in favor of someone else?

1 - First of all, it may be best for you to move on to other girls, at least for the time being. If after you play the field a little and spend some time with some other attractive girls, you are still interested in getting back together with your ex, then you have already done one of the most advantageous things that you can do. By moving on to other girls and being casual and nonchalant about the idea of getting back with your ex, not only are you relieving some of your own stress, but you are also showing your ex that you are confident and do not need her, because you are capable of finding other women without her. Further more, you are turning yourself into a bit of a prize, because you are not chomping at the bit trying to get back with her.

2 - Prevention is often better than the cure. If you want to prevent things like this from happening in the first place, it is vital that you come to understand what happened to cause the breakup in the first place, learning from it in the process. If you learn from the experiences of your past, it will become easier for you to make sure that the same problems do not happen again. Some of the most common reasons for break ups include being too needy or clingy, changing in how you act with one another, the relationship becoming boring or seeming like a dead end, and there are many others. Crawling back to her after a week or two is not an option, so take the time to figure out the situation before you try to rekindle things.

3 - In more cases than not, it is likely that she left for a reason. What does the ex have that you don't have? What does the new boyfriend have that you are lacking? If you need to make changes to who you are, such as taking better care of your hygiene or dressing nicer, or behaving more confidently every day, it may create an edge over whoever she ended up leaving you for, giving you a chance to get her back. After all, if she is used to being in a relationship with you, it may be easier for her to come back to you, where things are comfortable and familiar, rather than trying to strike things up with someone else.

Buying Table Dances in Topless Clubs

Should You Buy Table Dances in Topless Clubs?

This tip will save you tons of money. Don't buy table dances! You will be propositioned by every dancer you meet or come into contact with. This is how they make their money. When asked for a dance reply, "There's nothing more I would love than to have you dance for me, but I do not want to be just another customer, I'm more interested in getting to know you better and become your friend. Look, I know the ropes of your business and I understand this is how you make your money, so if you need to leave and make some money I understand. Why don't you come back over here and party with me after you make some money?"

Always remember your objective: Develop a friendship with a dancer and do not become just another customer. You're not going to get anywhere with a dancer if you become a customer.

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Speed Dating Is It For You

Monday, February 04, 2019 | Dating Tips | 3 comments »

Speed dating is becoming much more popular in our society today. People are relying on unconventional methods to meet someone that they can potentially spend the rest of their life with. If you have tried to find a date and have been unsuccessful, you may turn toward other methods. Often, this will include speed dating.

Speed dating is often an effective way to meet someone new. These are structured events. Most often there is little risk of negative effects. Everyone that is in attendance is there for the same reasons.

You are all looking for someone to date and spend time with. In other situations, such as bars, nightclubs, and various settings, there can be some confusion and differences in reasons for being at the location. This can create some embarrassment and emotional issues if you are pursuing someone and then find out that they have no interest whatsoever.

As with any form of dating, caution is needed when attending speed dating events. You want to be careful about the information that you are providing. Do not give out personal identifying information. You do not want to risk having someone that is not necessarily safe showing up at your house or stalking you.

This can create a safety concern and can even put you in danger. You can tell daters about yourself without providing your personal details. Tell them about your interests and what you are looking for in a potential mate.

Before you make a decision to attend a speed dating session, you need to make sure that you fully understand what is involved and how they work. The internet can be a great source for information. If you do a simple search for speed dating, you will find a wide variety of different sites that can explain the process to you.

There are often guidelines that you can follow and also tips to keep yourself safe. If you want to get the most out of a speed dating experience, you should do some research and investigation. By doing research on the internet, you can also find speed dating events in your area. You can get information on when the events will be hosted and the location. Information about any possibly themes or special circumstances will also be provided.

One benefit to speed dating is that there are often a wide range of age groups attending. There are also people from many different backgrounds and different personalities. Chances are that you can more than likely find the type of person that you are looking for at a speed dating event. This is not to say that there will be a long term relationship or that you will be spending the rest of your life with them. It simply means that there is potential to meet someone that is compatible with you and meets your expectations.

If you know what you want and if you take the time to search within yourself and find out what you desire, there are possibilities for a successful date that originates from a speed dating session. There are many people out there looking to meet someone just like you are. It is simply a matter of being in the right place at the right time.

Why You Need to Use Senior Online Dating Services

Would A Senior Online Dating Service Work For You

We all know that dating at any age can be daunting. But when you are a little older and perhaps fussier, a senior online dating service can be just the ticket to finding your perfect mate.

We are all living longer due to advances in our diet, medical research and our lifestyles. Our financial circumstances have improved. We are less likely to be living with our kids or grandkids. Sometimes through death or divorce, we can end up facing our senior moments alone. Some people relish the freedom this can bring but others are lonely and would love to enjoy a committed relationship.

It is fairly difficult to meet someone special when you are in your twenties and thirties. Don't believe me? Just have a glance at the book titles on the best seller lists. You will see books on finding and keeping the man/woman for you, the golden rules of dating, meeting the perfect man/woman etc.

It can often be more difficult for older people to meet potential partners. You are very unlikely to go to the local disco. You may find going into a restaurant or bar on your own intimidating and you are probably retired so meeting someone at work is not an option.

By joining a senior dating service, you can meet likeminded individuals of a certain age, economic status and marital status. For example, you may prefer not to date a divorced man. Or you may prefer that your potential partner has been in a committed relationship previously. You may want the other person to share your religious or cultural beliefs. An online dating service will help you to meet someone who fulfils this "shopping list" of requirements.

When you join an online service, you need to remember that your personal safety is paramount. There is no reason to become alarmed as the majority of members on these sites are there for the same reason as you are i.e. to meet a companion. Exercise common sense and caution when dealing with anyone you don't know regardless of how friendly they seem. If you arrange to meet a prospective partner, always do so in a public place and give a friend or family member the details. Never disclose too much information about yourself particularly your home address or your financial details until you have met the other person and have formed the basis of a relationship. You wouldn't walk into a bar and start telling another customer that you have $100,000 in your bank account. Friendships which start online can become very intense very quickly. It is partly because we lose our inhibitions and can be ourselves without worrying about what we look like or how tall we are etc. But you do not know someone until you have met them and their family/friends.

Senior online dating services work - you only need to ask some of their satisfied customers. Try them out today as your Mr/Mrs right may be online now.

Fear and Anxiety in Senior Dating

You Can Kill the Anxiety of Seniors Dating

Unfortunately, for many seniors dating and re-entering the social scene can cause a great deal of anxiety and nervousness. Even if a person of mature age is able to overcome their fears and take a chance on starting a new relationship, the first date can be a nerve wracking experience. Age and experience have nothing to do with how we feel, a senior citizen can easily experience the very same nerves and uneasiness that a teenager experiences before they embark on a date or a dating relationship. The reasons behind the nervousness most certainly feel very significant to the individual, but in most cases those anxieties are self-inflicted. Seniors dating in the modern era are under no greater real pressure than they were when they were much younger.

Regardless of your age, dating doesn't have to start out as a serious commitment. Too often, seniors dating again for the first time feel the pressure of their years. They worry that if they should meet someone special with whom they'd like to form a long-term relationship, the fact that they're past the midway point in their lives makes establishing an intimate relationship impractical. Nothing could be further from the truth. Dating is about getting to know other people, not about diving head first into a serious and lengthy relationship. Instead of allowing themselves to give into the pressures they've imposed on themselves, seniors dating again for the first time late in life should relax and (just like when they were young) consider dating a way to first make a friend, then to develop that relationship to the next level.

Don't forget, the people a mature person is most likely to be compatible with are probably people of their own age range. That means, more often than not, that the singles in their dating field are people who have gone through many of the same life experiences and have many things in common. Many may have retired after a long career. Others may have lost a spouse and be unsure about committing themselves to another person. Regardless of what most seniors have been through, when it comes to seniors dating they should trust that they have the opportunity to share very special moments, very important milestones, significant memories and life-long experiences with another person who fully understands what all of those things mean.

Yes, fear and anxiety is normal when it comes to seniors dating. But a person of mature age should never allow those fears to sideline them in the dating game. Regardless of age, establishing an exciting and fun new relationship can help revitalize one's outlook on life. So get out there and share your experiences with someone and first of all, make a new friend. Then, if you decide to take your partnership to the next level, you know that you've found a person who understands and appreciates you for who you are.

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How to Touch Women to Get Her to Like You

How to Attract Women by Touching Her

Here are some tips on touching women to get her attracted to you. You need to move close to her at every opportunity that presents itself and look for excuses to touch her.

• Here is a good one: Touch her hair and pretend that she has a hair out of place. You are just doing her a favor like any friend would do.
• Find excuses to touch her back, knee, arm, or hand.
• When she says something funny you can jokingly and lightly shove her shoulder.
• If she says something kind of personal or shocking lightly grab her arm or wrist.

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Advice for Meeting New People

10 Sure Fire Tips for Meeting New People

In order to meet new people, you have to get out and make yourself available to new acquaintances. It’s highly unlikely that you will meet many people while sitting alone in your living room watching television or playing video games. It’s one thing to want to meet new people but it is quite another thing to actually start meeting new people. If you really desire to start meeting some new people try making an effort to go out at least 4 nights a week and engage in an activity that you enjoy.

If you enjoy reading, libraries and book stores are your best bet for meeting people with similar interests. You can spend a weekend day or an evening perusing the racks at a local library or book store. Make sure to spend the majority of your time searching in sections that you enjoy but spend your time people watching instead of reading. You are more likely to meet someone with similar interests if you stick to what you like. If you notice someone looking at a book you have read or were planning to read, be bold and approach them. Using the book as a conversation starter gives you a starting point.

If you enjoy a physical activity such as running, make an effort to visit local stores that sell sneakers in an effort to meet new people. Since running is a subject that you are knowledgeable about and enjoy you may find yourself in a situation where you are able to offer your opinion or advice. For example if you notice someone who seems to be struggling to decide between two running shoes, don’t hesitate to jump in an offer your opinion. If you are knowledgeable about a subject most people will appreciate your opinion so offering advice about your area of expertise is one surefire tip for meeting new people.

Visiting local art museums and taking an interest in a specific piece of art can be a surefire tip for meeting new people. Chose your favorite piece of art and spend a little time lingering near this exhibit. If you spend enough time by your favorite exhibit, you are bound to overhear someone else admiring the art. You can take this opportunity to strike up a conversation about why you like the exhibit as well and offer your interpretation of the piece.

Joining a volunteer group for a cause you support is another surefire way to meet new people. You will meet many people who feel passionately about the same cause and will instantly have something to talk about. Additionally these groups often organize many projects and joining different committees will allow you to not only help out the group but also meet a variety of new people in the process.

You may also meet new people by signing up for a local recreational sports league. Most major cities have leagues available where you can sign up as an individual and fill in on a team that is short a player. While it may be fun to join this league with a group of your existing friends, signing up as an individual is a surefire way to meet new people.

Attending religious services is another surefire way to meet new people. The service itself may just be an hour long ceremony that does not promote meeting new people but religious groups often participate in a variety of other activities and are usually forming committees for many of these activities. Signing up for one of these committees affords you the chance to meet a few members of the congregation on an individual basis.

Becoming involved in local politics may lead to meeting new people. Getting involved in local politics can be a touchy subject because many of the people you meet may feel extremely passionate about their opinions. While this can be troublesome if you meet those with opinions that differ, you are also likely to meet many people who share opinions similar to yours.

Venturing to a nightclub or bar alone can be another surefire tip for meeting new people. Nightclubs and bars are traditionally thought of as places to meet new people but many people who visit these venues have trouble meeting people. The problem is that going out with a large group of friends makes you less approachable. Try visiting a bar alone and you may find yourself meeting more people than ever before.

Don’t pass up wedding or other party invitations just because you don’t have a date because attending these events solo can be a surefire way to meet new people. Many people would decline invitations for a function instead of going along but going alone can be your ticket to meeting new people. You will be likely to find others who are also attending the party without a date and this can be a great opportunity to strike up a conversation and meet some new people.

A final surefire tip for meeting new people is to attend a sporting event for a sport you enjoy. Here you will find many other people who have a similar interest and your common interest can lead to a new relationship. Sporting events also offer fans the chance to celebrate and commiserate together as their favorite team has its ups and downs.

If you seriously want to start meeting new people the first step is to start getting out of your house more often. Once you are out, be sure to make yourself available by traveling solo and making eye contact with those you are interested in meeting. Also, spend time participating in activities that you enjoy and you are much more likely to meet new people who share your interests. Getting out more, engaging in activities you enjoy and making yourself available while also taking a few risks by starting conversations are some surefire tips for meeting new people.

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How to Introduce Yourself to Women

Introducing Yourself to Women

Another important point to stress is that you should complete an introduction of yourself at the earliest suitable time. On some occasions you may want to start your opening line by saying, "Hi! My name is..." The only trouble with this approach is that you may find it hard to justify following it with, "What's your name?" since you haven't given the girl any reason why she should tell her name to a stranger. Of course you can always delay asking her name till after you have completed some preliminary groundwork. For example, "Hi! My name is ...I saw you go by here earlier, and I decided I really would like to meet you. I hope you don't mind my talking to you like this. By the way, what is your name?"

We think it is usually best to give an opening line, with preliminary groundwork, before you introduce yourself. Then you can ask her name right after giving yours. Example: (Opening lines)…"By the way, my name is…What's yours?" It is easier to give out your name than to get her to give hers. So, slipping the request for her name in after stating your name is a smoother flowing operation.

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How to Successfully Approach Women

Advice for Men on Approaching Women

To re-emphasize some very important general points. First, don't take "No" too easily. When a girl is approached, she is often a little embarrassed and self-conscious and will tend to say "No" right away, just to get away from any embarrassment. You should persevere (in a nice way) by coaxing and calming her with things like: "A w! Come on now." "It will be all right." "Just for a minute or two." "Look! Just give me one minute of your time. That's all I ask." "No! I won't take no for an answer" (smiling). "You know, it wasn't easy for me to come up and speak to you like this. So please, let's talk a minute." (Note: women have told me that this last line is particularly appealing and effective.)

But a lot depends on how strongly she refuses. You can usually tell if she really means "No." You should then give up right away. But if she sounds a little uncertain (or defensive), you should keep trying, say, for about three times. If you are both walking, you may even have to do some footwork, like walking with her.

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Photo Scamming Topless Dancers

This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.

This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.

The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.

Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.

So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.

So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.

Photo Scamming of Topless Dancers

Photo Scamming Topless Dancers

This is a scam men use to take photos of dancers in the nude. It's more common than you would think. These guys pretend to be a scouting rep for a well-known men's magazine such as Playboy.

This angle for shooting photos of nude dancers doesn't usually work and save yourself the embarrassment of trying this scam. It's easy to trace you to see if you're for real and many dancers already have contacts in the men's magazines field. Also, the chances of a dancer knowing another dancer who has posed for magazines is good. She can ask around about you.

The dancers are hip to this type of scam. The most common type of scam is photographers that advertise in local papers for "nude models." It's really sad to see these naive girls suckered into thinking that this will launch their modeling careers. All it is, is a scam to fulfill the photographers interests and fantasies.

Another aspect that reveals that your scamming a dancer, is your incompetence in photography. There's so many specific "photographer" things the average "dink" would have to be aware of. Fill in flash outdoors, make-up, lighting and so on. Most of these girls (especially in the upscale clubs) have been photographed by many photographers who have a background in photography.

So even if a "pencil dick" can bamboozle the dancer into a photo session, what happens when he arrives with his Kodak disposable camera? The girls are smart enough to know when they're being "screwed" with. I can just imagine some horny guy slobbering all over a cheap camera trying to figure out what makes the shutter release. In actuality, the dancer had been shot by a photographer last week who had all the gear and where-with-all. Things can really get ugly when she discovers you're a phony. She may even have someone come over and kick your ass.

So, take my words of wisdom, "Don't try this scam on dancers!" It's one of the oldest tricks in the book and most dancers would be quick to identify such a maneuver. A dancer would really have to be a naive amateur to pull this one off.